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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Men who challenge men to stop violence

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Idaho Spud Jan 9. 19 Replies

Many men join in the effort to reduce violence against women and children and other men. He speaks of the need to place responsibility on men instead of focusing on women to stop violence. He offers a breath of fresh air, as do so many of the men on…Continue

Ian, a beautiful New Years blessing.

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Chris Jan 5. 7 Replies

Ian, for some reason, my comment would not "send" on Hang with Friends; perhaps it will here!Ian, a beautiful New Years blessing. It goes in my file. I especially like the thought of surprising myself. Laura made a special trip to my Spokane home to…Continue

degrading love — part two (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller Jan 1. 0 Replies

TheraminTrees set up religion with his left in Part One of his treatise on how religion demeans and degrades the value of love.  Here in Part Two, he brings in a devastating, "Mike Tyson" right, which negates and invalidates any claim that either…Continue

Tags: Christianity, Islam, TheraminTrees, god, love

The Ark Encounter: A Less than Grand Opening (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Idaho Spud Dec 31, 2016. 27 Replies

The day finally arrived.  Ken Ham's Ark Encounter opened on 7 July, 2016 ... to something a bit less than Disney-sized crowds, and more than a couple dissenting voices!  Seth Andrews has gathered a quartet of significant participants in the protest…Continue

Tags: Tracey Moody, Dan Broadbent, Seth Andrews, David Silverman, AronRa

Learning a Language as a Mature Adult

Started by Daniel W. Last reply by Idaho Spud Dec 14, 2016. 27 Replies

Trying to keep my mind exercised, and not interested in most of the reading materials that I can find.I decided to attempt to learn a language.  Actually, two.  The dilemma is, how do I do that without going to school - not an option - and without…Continue

What Annoys God Most? (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat Dec 7, 2016. 10 Replies

Long story short, it's those near misses, the almost-but-not-quite, close but no cheroot moments, or, would you believe ... Near Death Experiences!  So what's the big deal?  Betty Bowers, America's BEST Christian and self-proclaimed expert on such…Continue

Tags: Near Death Experiences, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

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Comment by Plinius on February 4, 2015 at 5:10am

My inner voice said the same, Ian, and it's probably very sensible that we listen to it. I hope you are close to public transport. 

The only machine I'm rather comfortable with is my old sewing machine - at least there's no approaching traffic when I use it... 

Comment by sk8eycat on February 3, 2015 at 8:58pm

Carl...I spent one December hiatus with a friend in Chicago...lotsa snow on the ground.  I learned how to make "snow angels..."  at age 20.   There was also SURF on Lake Michigan.  Wish I'd had a camera with me.

Comment by sk8eycat on February 3, 2015 at 8:55pm

Kathy, I'm 75, and my night vision was always bad, but I didn't sell my car till 2 years ago, and in SoCal, that's almost social suicide. 

I thought I would save enough on insurance, maintenance, taxes, and gasoline to pay for the occasional taxi.  HAH!  The cost of everything else went UP-UP-UP!

I think I'm going to register with our town's Sr. Nutrition program so that I'll be sure of having at least one meal a day....  I don't even know how much it costs these days.  We had it for Mother 20+ years ago...then it was $5 a week.  A real bargain!  And she liked the food.

Comment by k.h. ky on February 3, 2015 at 8:12pm
Carl, that video reminds me of when I was a child living in the Chicago area. School was rarely canceled. Down here it's canceled a lot. Far to many roads to have children riding buses on when the weather is bad.
Comment by k.h. ky on February 3, 2015 at 8:08pm
Ian, good news for you. Happy to hear it. As for driving it's a necessity in this area. No public transportation at all. I've done it so long l don't mind it. Except as we age our night vision goes. Mine's going fast.
If l were just beginning to drive l don't think I would start. I decided at this age l won't do anything l don't have to.
Comment by The Flying Atheist on February 3, 2015 at 7:21pm
Comment by Ian Mason on February 3, 2015 at 3:06pm

The probing was really just a few uncomfortable minutes. I know I'll have to get used to these things as I get older.

I've given up on the driving. My inner voice said "don't like this, don't want to do this" so I listened to it. Spent most of the time looking at the dashboard clock,getting into a worse and worse mood and wanting the lesson to be over. Me and machines don't get on well. Such is life.

I hadn't heard the cat quote before. I like it a lot. Thanks.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on February 3, 2015 at 2:09pm

Ian, it's great to hear about your good health report.  Despite the invasive intrusion, it's good to have peace of mind by being proactive against possible problems. 

By the way, how is your driving coming along?  You haven't mentioned it.  Are you ready for the Grand Prix? 

Comment by The Flying Atheist on February 3, 2015 at 1:59pm

Patricia, I can't recall who said this or where I read it, but they altered a famous quote to read:  Curiosity killed the cat, but what a way to go. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on February 3, 2015 at 11:26am

Pat, I am very glad you are able to haunt the halls of the courtroom and contribute to the pages of A/N. 

Ian, those probings in "a place that doesn't usually get probed, manually and with an ultrasound device", miserable as they are, do give a sense of comfort, knowing all is normal. 

 

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