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11 "unanswerable" questions for atheists - answered (Aron Ra)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Tom Sarbeck Jun 6. 1 Reply

If you spend any time around YouTube and have any history of looking at atheist material (or even theist material!), you will inevitably run into: "XX Questions Atheists Can't Answer."  These are occasionally followed by: "XX Questions Atheists…Continue

Tags: apologist, answer, questions, unanswerable, Aron Ra

worshipping narcissists (qualiasoup & theramintrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Idaho Spud Jun 3. 1 Reply

They're all around us: people who perceive the world as revolving around them and will go to considerable lengths to make it so: narcissists.  Such beings have been with humanity, I suspect, since humanity emerged from the gene pool.  Even worse,…Continue

Tags: narcissist, QualiaSoup, TheraminTrees

Secular and Reclaimed Winter Holiday Songs

Started by Grinning Cat. Last reply by Grinning Cat May 2. 42 Replies

This is an appropriate day of the year for this subject...What are some of your favorite winter holiday songs?It would be especially good to share powerful new secular lyrics to tunes that have become associated with Christmas.…Continue

Tags: singing, lyrics, reclaimed, reclaiming, HumanLight

appropriating morality (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo May 1. 7 Replies

We've all heard the claim: "Human morality comes from god."  And we've all seen for ourselves what Yahweh's "morality" looks like, from condemnations of homosexuality and the treatment of women as chattel to inexplicable sanctions against the eating…Continue

Tags: morality, appropriating, TheraminTrees

Bible Belt Atheist (New York Times)

Started by Loren Miller Apr 19. 0 Replies

The following showed up in my YouTube feed this morning, and I decided to have a look.  Turns out, the New York Times has given us a reasonably even-handed look at a good friend of ours, being one Jerry DeWitt, former bible-thumper and now a pretty…Continue

Tags: Bible Belt, atheist, Jerry DeWitt

How would you respond?

Started by Christina Scribner. Last reply by Christina Scribner Apr 10. 5 Replies

So, this morning, I was at my local coffee shop as I am most weekdays between bus runs. I do the editing on my husband's books so I had my laptop with me. My wallpaper is a picture I found online sometime back of a double helix with the word atheist…Continue

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Comment by Randall Smith on September 5, 2016 at 10:00am
I'm so sorry, Daniel. "Been there, done that". Never easy. I actually accidently ran over my old cat backing up.
It was just a year ago (Sept 12) I had to tell the doctors to pull the plug on my dying father. It had to be done. (I went into shock.)
Good luck on making a decision.
Comment by Idaho Spud on September 5, 2016 at 5:36am

Shedding many tears for you and your friend.

Comment by Idaho Spud on September 5, 2016 at 5:35am

Daniel, I feel for your quandary, and the soon to be loss of your best friend.

Comment by Plinius on September 5, 2016 at 4:04am

I know you'll do the best for your friends, Daniel! You sound as if you need no convincing that it's time to put them to sleep, but it's very hard to take the decision when your friends are in a slow decline. My experience with all my cats and what I've seen with other pet owners is that the last trip to the vet is almost always very late, because the owner can't decide. That doesn't make it easier for you.  

Comment by Joan Denoo on September 5, 2016 at 1:19am

Daniel, I am sorry you face this quandary. Charlie, your companion for so very long continues to give you comfort, even as you want what is best for him. You have gone through many changes these past three years. Thankfully, you are able to spend time with him that you could not before you retired. Each moment becomes a treasure. Loving him tenderly gives him the greatest gift of all.  

Comment by Ian Mason on September 5, 2016 at 12:20am

Sharp comedy, Chris. Very precise.

Daniel, my brother and his wife have been through the same experience this year when their dog had the same problems. Taking the decision hurt them but they couldn't bear seeing a loved pet suffering so much either.

Comment by Donald L. Engel on September 4, 2016 at 10:54pm

Daniel, it sounds to me like it's way past time to put the dogs down.  14 and 15 makes them really old dogs.  And it sounds like they both have arthritis, and maybe just a little dementia?  Or even Alzheimer's?  If they are in that much pain, and you make them walk 4 or 6 blocks they are probably looking forward to euthanasia.

Comment by Idaho Spud on September 4, 2016 at 9:00am

Some of the things I like about my new computer are:

1.  The word processor is much easier to access.

2.  The old computer weighed 20 pounds, but my new one weighs only 2.8 pounds.  The TV/monitor weighs only 7 pounds, making a total of 9.8 pounds, less than half the weight of the old one.

3.  The old computer used about 50 watts of power, but the new one uses about 5 watts.  The TV/monitor uses 18 watts, bringing the total to 23 watts.  Less than half of my old computer.

I'm sure there will be other things I like better.

Comment by Idaho Spud on September 4, 2016 at 8:37am

Joan, I don't have a touchscreen on my Mac Mini.  They made it for people like me that don't have much money.  For $449, there is no screen, keyboard, or mouse.  My old iMac is too old to be used as a screen, so I'm using a cheap TV/monitor that I bought for another purpose that didn't work-out.  I'm using the same kind of wireless mouse and keyboard that I used on my old iMac.  I have two sets because I kept one in the car when I accessed the net at the library.  The keyboards have no pad.

Comment by Plinius on September 4, 2016 at 3:20am
 

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