Hang With Friends

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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

Nobody here is into mind games. A discussion started with a loaded guilt-throwing question will be deleted.

This group is not intended to compete with other groups on topics they cover but to "fill in the cracks." Whenever a discussion dwells at length on a topic for which there's an existing group, we urge you to provide members a link to that group to continue along their tangent.

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maggie and milly and molly and may (Edward Estlin Cummings & Eric Whitacre)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller on Friday. 2 Replies

It's amazing what you discover when you go looking for something you had no idea you'd find.  On an impulse, I pulled up Eric Whitacre's website to see if he had created any new pieces.  It would seem that he has: a song cycle called The City and…Continue

Tags: e e cummings, Eric Whitacre

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISIS

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Randall Smith Nov 18. 1 Reply

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISISGrowth in population, policies and practices that create a gap between the typical person and the wealthy,…Continue

Passive and Active voices

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Nov 16. 1 Reply

Have you noticed that much of the discussion in families and with friends, in the print media, on TV, and now on the internet is in the Passive Voice? Many people whine, complain, gripe, accuse, blame, call names, ridicule, grumble, bitch, rebuke,…Continue

Tags: and, behaviors, communication., attitudes, learned

Detroit Businesswomen Team Up to Get Rape Kits Tested

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by The Flying Atheist Nov 14. 2 Replies

Detroit Businesswomen Team Up to Get Rape Kits Tested"In 2009, a Wayne County assistant prosecuting attorney noticed…Continue

Tags: women, Enough, SAID, black, victims

Something Beautiful – Nathan Phelps & Seth Andrews

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 10. 7 Replies

And it is beautiful, too, indeed, I think some of Seth Andrews' best work.  Interesting point: rather than Seth's dulcet baritone doing the narration, this piece presses Nathan Phelps' deep bass intonation into service, bringing a different flavor…Continue

Tags: Nathan Phelps, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews, beautiful, something

Your favorite photobombs?

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Joan Denoo Oct 27. 14 Replies

Running of the bulls photobomb.Continue

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Comment by Joan Denoo on July 20, 2014 at 7:43am

Homo sapiens has become god, capable of destroying life as we know it. 
The good news, the Earth will survive and revive, as it goes on its splendid journey through space and time. Remnants of mankind will be concrete and steel that weather away into their basic elements. 

Comment by sk8eycat on July 19, 2014 at 8:44pm

This Daily KOS article grossed me out completely:

Rare Florida forest set to be leveled for a Walmart and Chik-fil-A

Scroll down and read the comments....there's a great GIF of Bugs Bunny "amputating" Florida from the rest of the continent....I've considered doing that myself lately.  

Comment by Idaho Spud on July 19, 2014 at 3:23pm

Joan, I can't find your post where you referenced Grant Palmer's video "My Ah-Ha Moments While Researching Mormon History".

I finally listened to it all, took copious notes, and wanted to comment on it.

Comment by Joan Denoo on July 19, 2014 at 8:14am

Chris, very good news that your BIL will be moving and hopefully freeing you to do what you need and want to do. Your schedule is tight and your projects sound interesting. What a relief! 

Carl, you are correct about political/economic/etc. discussion here on Hang with Friends. I get impatient when people don't know about things that impact their lives. 

The Carlton Complex fire has grown to over 202,000 acres and towns are being evacuated. This morning's sun is bright orange; very pretty. Smokey air not so good. 

Comment by Plinius on July 19, 2014 at 4:22am

Oh yes! I've got a stack of interesting new books as tall as I am (1.58 m.), lessons to write, administration to sort out, friends to visit, clothes to buy and sewing to do - before I start my courses again in September. And I could go out with my partner... but we keep the responsibility for our two patients.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on July 19, 2014 at 12:55am

Chris, it's nice to know you are coming to the final part of the big summer project you've been working on concerning your brother-in-law.  Yes, it will be nice to have him living in a freshly cleaned place with new furniture, etc.  I sure hope he will be happy and excited in his new environment that you are creating for him.  From this point on, hopefully it will be easier to look after and to care for him.  Have you been thinking yet about what you will be doing with all the free time you'll get back after this project ends?   

Comment by Plinius on July 19, 2014 at 12:23am

Thanks, Carl! I try to keep up with the most important world news, and that is quite enough with the other things I have to do. I miss out on a lot of things you talk about, sometimes reading on internet for twenty minutes before I understand who's who. I read the political discussions but I'd better not react before I know what I'm talking about.

To Ikea today to buy new furniture for brother-in-law. He's still unable to concentrate on the Ikea catalogue, so it will be a surprise for him when he's moved into his new rooms. A pleasant surprise, I hope.

Comment by Loren Miller on July 18, 2014 at 6:56pm

Something substantial yet mellow to round out your work week: yet another Radiohead transcription by Christopher O'Riley.

Comment by Joan Denoo on July 18, 2014 at 2:44pm

100 homes destroyed in Carlton Complex Fire

Our skies are gray, ash falls all around, the sun is reddish/orange. I feel so sad for all those businesses and homes that went up in flames. One woman said she had 3 minutes notice to get out when the wind shifted.  These fires were started during that terrible storm we had a few days ago. Very strong lightning strike over all this region. 

Comment by The Flying Atheist on July 18, 2014 at 2:24pm

Joan, I agree that we need to have political discussions, but they should be done in a different group.  I like to keep in mind that Hang With Friends includes lots of people from countries other than the U.S.  I wouldn't want to alienate them by having regular discussions here concerning U.S. politics.  Just my 2-cent rebuttal. 


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