Hang With Friends

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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Guns: Both Sides Now (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat 26 minutes ago. 2 Replies

Oh, NO!  The gun debate has gotten so heated that it has Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, TALKING TO HERSELF!  Apparently, one of her has had a stroke or a serious breakdown in cognitive skills, as she does little more than parrot the NRA's…Continue

Tags: NRA, guns, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

the value of offence | qualiasoup & theramintrees

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Patricia Mar 3. 3 Replies

To me, this is a big deal (though it may not be to them): two great YouTube video producers have joined forces to deliver one very powerful message on an important subject.  TheraminTrees and QualiaSoup (brothers, I believe) have recently released a…Continue

Tags: offence, offense, QualiaSoup, TheraminTrees

The myth of religions

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Joan Denoo Feb 16. 3 Replies

The creation myth of civilizations instructs men to dominate, to conquer, to go forth and multiply. No reasonable person would pay attention to such a god. No hunter-gatherer receives such a senseless message from wise elders.However, that idea…Continue

Tags: masculine, violation, imperative, go forth and multiply,, conquest

Winter Driving, Preparing for the worst

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Joan Denoo Feb 1. 2 Replies

Now that we enter the time the Celtics called Imbolc, a pagan celebration of the beginning of spring and season of new life, I ran across this video on preparing for winter driving. It offers reasons for each thing he puts in his vehicles to be safe…Continue

Tags: prepare, driving, winter

A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Chris Dec 26, 2017. 10 Replies

I received a gift this morning from a virtual friend, Pamela Smith:A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :" One day an old wise teacher was walking through a village. A very angry and rude young man came up and began insulting him. "You have…Continue

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Comment by Plinius on July 15, 2016 at 2:02pm

Thanks all! Rien is doing well after his six hours in hospital. After we got used to the clockwork efficiency, we both thought that it wasn't unpleasant at all.

Comment by Joan Denoo on July 15, 2016 at 12:23pm

Chris, how is your partner doing after his surgery? Was his hospital experience acceptable, even though not a pleasant thing to do? How is his recovery? 

Comment by Joan Denoo on July 15, 2016 at 12:19pm

Chris, sounds as though you are thinking things through, as usual, and coming up with a solution that works for you. I like your style! Please keep us up to date on your choices and experiences. So many changes take place around us, we need to know how health care handles the changes. I realize you are in The Netherlands and different than U.S., however, information hurts no one.

Comment by Plinius on July 15, 2016 at 11:28am

Thanks Kathy! I haven't followed or had a routine operation in a long time, so I wasn't used to the new style.

Comment by kathy: ky on July 15, 2016 at 9:43am
Chris, almost every procedure is done as you described. Even if you need additional time in hospitals insurance will rarely approve it.
Comment by Randall Smith on July 14, 2016 at 7:05am

I realize this group isn't for politics, but what the heck. 

Rachel Maddow had a good segment about Gov. Pence, recalling Indiana's other VP, the infamous Dan Quayle. Both come off as total imbeciles. It speaks volumes about Hoosiers voting these clowns into office to represent them. I'm so embarassed to say I'm from Indiana. Remember the reaction Pence (and Indiana) got a couple years back with their "you don't have to serve gays" law? Boy did they take flack and conswquently had to "fix it". I hope the media reminds America about this, and voters take heed.

Comment by Plinius on July 14, 2016 at 3:46am

Thanks Carl!

Comment by The Flying Atheist on July 14, 2016 at 12:59am

You're absolutely right, Donald.  Hospital stays have gotten much shorter because it's actually healthier to leave than laying around in a hospital bed.  Plus, surgeries and other medical procedures are much less invasive than they used to be, cutting down on recuperation and healing time.  The same day as my kidney transplant they had me out of bed and sitting in a chair.  Walking and sitting up are crucial to the healing process for that type of surgery.

Chris, all my best to your partner for a speedy recovery.

Randy, so Trump was in Indiana.  The winds were strong from the south that day.  I thought I was just smelling the fertilizer from the fields.  :)

Comment by Plinius on July 13, 2016 at 2:10pm

Sound good, Donald! I need knee replacements too, but I keep postponing it, because it takes so long to get back to normal and I want to continue my work... If I can find a hospital that can do the operation so efficiently, I could plan it in the summer holidays...

Comment by Donald L. Engel on July 13, 2016 at 12:55pm

A couple of years ago, my wife had her knee replaced.  She walked that afternoon, and went home the next day after showing she could walk 20 meters.  They're finding out that the sooner you can get back to normal activity, the faster the healing process.  She had her other knee replaced in 2005, and it took a few months for her to get back to normal.  This time it was just a week or two.


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