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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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God's Annual Performance Review (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Mar 19. 6 Replies

I don't know about you guys, but there wasn't a performance review I had in 30 years of field service that I didn't LOATHE.  It seems as though Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, is up for turning the tables on the person you would expect would…Continue

Tags: review, performance, god, American's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Learning a Language as a Mature Adult

Started by Daniel W. Last reply by Joan Denoo Mar 2. 28 Replies

Trying to keep my mind exercised, and not interested in most of the reading materials that I can find.I decided to attempt to learn a language.  Actually, two.  The dilemma is, how do I do that without going to school - not an option - and without…Continue

The Playboy Interview: Richard Dawkins

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Chris Feb 19. 14 Replies

I suppose it was the news that Playboy magazine was returning nudes to its pages after a year's hiatus that sufficiently perked my curiosity to check them out again.  I hadn't looked at Playboy since perhaps 2008, when I began to recognize that I…Continue

Tags: Richard Dawkins, Playboy

Such Lyrics!

Started by Donatien Alphonse François. Last reply by Grinning Cat Feb 13. 9 Replies

Hello Friends,I was ruminating a bit today on my sixty-some years existence. My mind went back to teenage years when I first figured out religion is not only obnoxiously loud, but also nothing I wanted anything to do with. Truly. I knew by age 15…Continue

degrading love — part two (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Feb 11. 1 Reply

TheraminTrees set up religion with his left in Part One of his treatise on how religion demeans and degrades the value of love.  Here in Part Two, he brings in a devastating, "Mike Tyson" right, which negates and invalidates any claim that either…Continue

Tags: Christianity, Islam, TheraminTrees, god, love

Questions......

Started by Thomas Murray. Last reply by k.h. ky Feb 9. 6 Replies

   It has been 6 month now since I signed up for Atheist Nexus membership. The past year has been sort of a bi-polar wave of emotions for me. I hope I wasn't offensive to the folks on here and I think I have been but I don't know to who. My desire…Continue

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Comment by Randall Smith on February 24, 2015 at 7:39am

Ready for today's pop quiz?

What do all these men have in common? And no fair googling.

Schuyler Colfax, Thomas Hendricks, Charles Fairbanks, and Thomas Marshall

Hint: add J. Danforth Quayle to the list 

Comment by sk8eycat on February 24, 2015 at 5:31am

Joan, the most liberating thought I ever had was the realization of my utter insignificance.  Very comforting to know I'm worthless..

Comment by Randall Smith on February 23, 2015 at 8:34am

Glad you're feeling better, Carl! Keep up the positive attitude.

Joan, when taught astronomy, I tried to instill that "size" perspective into my students. I could have used those photos.

Comment by Plinius on February 22, 2015 at 11:56pm

I love to be put in my place by the universe - thanks Joan!

Comment by Plinius on February 22, 2015 at 11:49pm

Good news, Carl, but I guess you had some bad days before things got better! I hope better developments come soon.

Comment by Ian Mason on February 22, 2015 at 11:17pm

Perhaps that's the negative side of adaptability, Joan. At first there's shock but then a tendency to "get used to" things, internalising the outrage. There should have been a large-scale, popular revolt against the banks a few years ago but most people took the Homer Simpson route: "I know, but what can you do?". In a lot of cases what people did do was start blaming immigrants and others further down the economic ladder.

Comment by Ian Mason on February 22, 2015 at 11:08pm

Glad to hear you're feeling better, Carl. Hope the treatment keeps you on an even keel while the medical team sorts out the other issues.

Comment by k.h. ky on February 22, 2015 at 6:08pm
Joan, I enjoyed the photos. I bookmarked it to show my gdaughters. But the comments that followed from religious nuts were, well,.. nutty. Lol
Comment by k.h. ky on February 22, 2015 at 4:42pm
Good news Carl.. Glad you are feeling better.
Comment by Joan Denoo on February 22, 2015 at 4:41pm

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