Hang With Friends

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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

Nobody here is into mind games. A discussion started with a loaded guilt-throwing question will be deleted.

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Discussion Forum

Issues Atheist, Feminist, GLBTQ, Climate Change

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by BenGee on Saturday. 3 Replies

This is a test Continue

The Whole Bible in 30 Seconds (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Randy Hatly on Thursday. 15 Replies

Ever decide that you wanted to read the whole bible, cover to cover, only to realize half-way through Deuteronomy that the darn thing is industrial-strength BORING?!?  Well, never fear!  America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers, has done the Cliff's…Continue

Tags: bible, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

punishing doubt (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Oct 17. 2 Replies

If you are associated with religion and especially a fundamentalist religion, doubt is intolerable.  Certainty, however it may be achieved or imposed, becomes a necessary element, especially considering the utter dearth of any form of evidence or…Continue

Tags: religion, TheraminTrees, punish, doubt

A moment to relax and see the Earth from space; some how this comforts me.

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Qiana-Maieev Oct 16. 3 Replies

All the squabbles and struggles that I have do not compare with those of some others on this great planet. There are no boundary lines, no political arguments, no up or no down. What is, is. For right now, the scenes offer tranquility. Just the…Continue

Tags: and, wonder, awe, of, space

His Dark Materials and the Catholic Church

Started by Tonya R. Wheeler. Last reply by Plinius Oct 16. 27 Replies

I recently watched the movie, "The Golden Compass" and since I could not find the sequels, I read the books. I enjoyed them, and I will be reading the first one, Northern Lights, starting tomorrow, since it just arrived via inter-library…Continue

Tags: Fantasy, Catholic, Religion, Atheist, Pullman

bending truth, or "We Can All Be Manipulated" (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Sep 29. 39 Replies

The following is one of TheraminTrees' most thorough-going pieces, wherein he looks at the process and techniques whereby a "religious" organization (which will sound VERY familiar to most of us, once introductions are made!) takes a person who…Continue

Tags: indoctrination, truth, manipulation, TheraminTrees

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Comment by Plinius on November 29, 2014 at 8:54am

My red tabby was called Plinius....

Comment by Randall Smith on November 29, 2014 at 7:59am

I wonder if we all had cats by the name "Pumpkin"? We did. My daughter's cat is named "Shimmey" because they thought she was a him (or v.v.).

Comment by Plinius on November 29, 2014 at 2:35am

Thanks for the story! I didn't know that one.

Comment by sk8eycat on November 28, 2014 at 6:55pm

Our Fur-eeda is 6 years old...her original name was "Fred" because the Trimbles adopted her when she was so tiny that they couldn't tell whether she was male or female.  We've only had her for a year.

My baby boy Pumpkin will be 16 on January 1st.  He was brought to the Cat Hotel, along with his totally feral mother, and 2 littermates, at the beginning of 1999...before his eyes were open.

  We found homes for his mates, but the only place that would take SisterGirl (his mother) was the Best Friends Sanctuary in Utah.  I don't know if she's still alive...she was not even a year old when she had that litter. 

Several people wanted to adopt Pumpkin, but he was so rowdy (still is) that they all returned him to us, and he lived in luxury at the Hotel till it was closed by the city (long story) 3 years ago.  I always wanted him, but we had other cats at the time, and they all hated each other.  When the Cat Hotel was shut down, I went through a month of hell trying to locate him...finally found him in a cattery in Northern CA, and a friend drove up there, and brought him to me.

And now he's MINE! 

BUT it broke my heart when the Hotel was closed....a new owner took over after I could no longer handle the physical work, and let the place go downhill to the point that they had to get a haz-mat team to clean it up after the city closed it.  GROSS! 

It WAS a classy place for more than 10 years...Jay Leno, Loretta Swit, and other folks from the studios boarded their cats with us.

Comment by sk8eycat on November 28, 2014 at 4:37pm

That "Black Hole Cat" reminds me of one of the funniest punnish short stories ever written - Arthur C. Clarke's "Neutron Tide."

We have an all-black cat who is so chubby that she can't curl up like that....WE did not make her fat; she was that way when her former humans gave her to us.  It's funny to watch her run through the house with her "flaps" wobbling....but we love her. 

Comment by Idaho Spud on November 28, 2014 at 4:20pm

I've never seen a mammoth in a museum.  Only in pictures, and it's been so long since I've seen a picture of one.  I was a little boggled when I came-upon than picture.  If I hear of one like you have near me, I'll have to go see it.  Must be amazing.

Comment by Idaho Spud on November 28, 2014 at 11:36am

It looks like this is your mammoth, Patricia

Comment by Randall Smith on November 28, 2014 at 7:59am

We in America are all recovering from Thanksgiving. Chris, glad you're free from another responsibility.

Joan, I was in Brugge 47 years ago! I can still see it in my mind's eye.

Patricia, my nephew in Blaine WA just sold his house and will be moving to North Carolina.  So it appears I won't be coming out your way as I'd hoped to do. Your museum sounds neat.

Comment by Plinius on November 28, 2014 at 2:27am

Could a notice board at the base of the tree help? THIS TREE CARRIES FLESH EATING BACTERIA! DON'T TOUCH IT!

Comment by sk8eycat on November 28, 2014 at 2:10am

Patricia, I don't know their exact address or name. The house is near the other end of the block above our corner.

I think my sister has a roll of yellow "police tape"...I just have to figure out how to put it around the base of the tree.  Or maybe from the tree and across the bottom of the driveway to the backyard fence....  The tree is right next to the driveway, so any idiot can just walk up to it and take what they want.  We have security (motion detector) lights, but they only work at night.

Damn.  We just got rid of the buttheads who used to park on our side street and smoke pot, and....errr...entertain their sluts.  Now this.  Aaaaarrrrgh!


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