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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Betty Explains Religious Freedom (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Randall Smith May 27. 9 Replies

Well, considering all the RFRA bills popping up all over the United States, plus all the fun and games ISIS is bringing to the good folks in Syria and Iraq, Betty Bowers, the epitome of well-dressed christianity, has decided to clarify the true…Continue

Tags: persecution, ISIS, Religious Freedom, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner May 6. 82 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

Tags: surreal

Let's not define ourselves or others by our worst behaviors

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Dominique Lutz Apr 16. 6 Replies

My take on the recent melt down at Hang With Friends, of which I missed part, is that some of us were tripped up by a habit of thought. It's something we learn growing up, and use without realizing how much pain it can generate -  failing to…Continue

Tags: dispute at Hang With Friends

The FLDS Cult Is Unraveling

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Idaho Spud Mar 29. 3 Replies

The FLDS Cult Is Unraveling"the internet is a lifeline for people trapped in the most restrictive and stifling forms of…Continue

Tags: Warren Jeff, internet, FLDS

Ode to Yahweh (Non Stamp Collector & 43alley)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Mar 24. 1 Reply

Ages ago (five or six years, I guess it is) when I first started recognizing my own atheism, one of the first atheist YouTubers I ran onto was Non Stamp Collector.  His handiwork wasn't up to Disney's standards, nor even Hanna-Barbera, but his wit…Continue

Tags: Yahweh, YouTube, 43alley, Non Stamp Collector

Oregon Field Guide - Lamprey Decline

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Mar 15. 3 Replies

Oregon Field Guide - Lamprey Decline"Populations of Eel-like lamprey have suddenly plummeted since the year 2000 in the Columbia Basin, surprising…Continue

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Comment by The Flying Atheist on May 11, 2014 at 12:16am

BTW, I should add that I'm doubly impressed.  Math has always been my weakest subject. 

Comment by The Flying Atheist on May 11, 2014 at 12:14am

k.h., allow me to also add my congratulations to your granddaughter.  That's a great achievement, indeed.  Good for her!

Comment by Joan Denoo on May 10, 2014 at 11:33pm

Ruth, I hope your insurance claim has turned out satisfactorily for you. 

I very much like and agree with your statement about "self-righteous old white guys expounding to "progressive feminists" what's moral and what's not in black and white, "I'm OK,You're not OK"  vocabulary."

Comment by Joan Denoo on May 10, 2014 at 11:27pm

k.h. ky I am so pleased to learn of your g-daughter's achievement in math. Girls are fully capable of achieving in all aspects of education, and when one demonstrates the truth, it opens doors for other girls. I would love to see more debate in all levels of education. Women and men need to learn how to stand up and speak out, even in the face of opposition. There is nothing wrong with taking a stand if it is based on good reasoning. Of course I don't want to listen to nincompoops expound about trivia. There are lots of hard conflicts that need to be aired. 

I hate family gatherings where everyone, men and women, yield to bullying of the dominant person. Strong personalities don't always know how to solve problems or resolve conflicts.   

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on May 10, 2014 at 11:10pm

Thanks for the otter solace, Joan.

Congrats on your granddaughter's math achievement, k.h.ky.

Thanks for sharing the space station awe, Joan.

Napoleon, I had to stop watching after less than 2 1/2 minutes of

"The curse of progressive feminism". While I have very strong feelings about Islamic misogyny, I also have a strong negative reaction to self-righteous old white guys expounding to "progressive feminists" what's moral and what's not in black and white, "I'm OK,You're not OK"  vocabulary. This self-righteous pompous anger is what old white guys do to put women in their place. He's "putting us in our place" as cursed and racist. To my eyes he's clueless about liberal feminist values toward racism. As a woman on the radical side of left feminism, I don't respect accusations of racism like this. One has to go through a process of consciousness raising to realize the extent to which we're all racist, to face your racist presuppositions, conditioned responses, etc. It's no good to claim you're not racist, or to think as a white person you're qualified to denounce others as racist. To me this shows ignorance of race relations, a very superficial misleading comprehension. (There's a difference between, "You racist!" and "That's a racist behavior or attitude".) Do I hear exceptionalism in "backward moral cesspits like Dubai"? We're so pure, yeah, that we're qualified to put down another country as a moral cesspit. ROFL

To me this old white guy is singing the same misogynist song as other male authority figures, only with pseudo-liberal lyrics. Look at the medium, not the message. Of course he thinks he's qualified to tell feminists how to be feminists. Listen to his voice tones and body language, taking into account his intended audience.

Comment by Joan Denoo on May 10, 2014 at 10:10pm

Space station just getting ready to go into darkness. What a beautiful sight!

Space Station just coming into darkness

Comment by Joan Denoo on May 10, 2014 at 9:19pm

Quick! take a look or you will miss this round

The International Space Station is just coming into daylight

Comment by Idaho Spud on May 10, 2014 at 10:11am

Ky, Congrats on your math-whiz g-daughter.  And, if you can't brag here, where can you brag?

Comment by k.h. ky on May 10, 2014 at 10:00am

Bear with me I've gotta brag..My third grade g-daughter took first place in the county wide math competition.  She out scored almost  two hundred other third graders to do it.

Way to go baby girl!!!!!!!!

Comment by Idaho Spud on May 10, 2014 at 9:23am

Patricia, I like the "SIT" pic.

And Joan, I'm with you.  I might like a dog if I could get a bird to train it for me.  And are those cute things otters?

Sorry for the bad day you peeps have had.

Ruth, sorry for your frustration with Blue Shield.  They sound like a horrible company.  Their actions or inactions would make me very angry and depressed.

 

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