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Hang With Friends

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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

Nobody here is into mind games. A discussion started with a loaded guilt-throwing question will be deleted.

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Goodwill to Few Men (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Donald R Barbera on Thursday. 3 Replies

Think Goodwill Industries does well by the poor?  Fact is, they do WAY BETTER for themselves, to the point where America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers, thinks they're ripping off the christian playbook a bit too well!  Have a look for yourself:…Continue

Tags: ripoff, Goodwill Industries, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Your favorite photobombs?

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Plinius Jul 10. 12 Replies

Running of the bulls photobomb.Continue

losing faith (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller Jul 5. 0 Replies

TheraminTrees has recently begun producing a new series of YouTube videos, which added to a wonderful library of earlier observations regarding his experience of religion. Good as all those pieces are, I personally think they pale against this…Continue

Tags: story, history, faith, TheraminTrees

Betty Explains Religious Freedom (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Jul 3. 10 Replies

Well, considering all the RFRA bills popping up all over the United States, plus all the fun and games ISIS is bringing to the good folks in Syria and Iraq, Betty Bowers, the epitome of well-dressed christianity, has decided to clarify the true…Continue

Tags: persecution, ISIS, Religious Freedom, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner May 6. 82 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

Tags: surreal

Let's not define ourselves or others by our worst behaviors

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Dominique Lutz Apr 16. 6 Replies

My take on the recent melt down at Hang With Friends, of which I missed part, is that some of us were tripped up by a habit of thought. It's something we learn growing up, and use without realizing how much pain it can generate -  failing to…Continue

Tags: dispute at Hang With Friends

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Comment by The Flying Atheist on April 27, 2014 at 11:26am

Good morning, everyone.  Hope your day is going well.  After several days of some of the most beautiful weather, it's been rather cool here and now a bit of rain is in the area.  Typical Spring.  Maybe we'll have a "normal" Spring after all.    

Loren, good stuff.  But then again, that style of music is my #1 love.  It's a co-inky-dink, but I was just listening to Tommy Dorsey's "I'm Getting Sentimental Over You" just yesterday, which I love. 

Comment by Loren Miller on April 27, 2014 at 7:53am

G'morning, gang.

Listened to the following this morning ... man, it just starts my whole day.  I'd be curious to know what it does for yours.



Enjoy!

Comment by Plinius on April 27, 2014 at 1:37am

You sure made your ex-friends show what they're really made of, Mindy! Better to know the worst - you don't need that sort of trouble. And I'm glad your daughter is doing so well!

I have very few friends left, probably because I lead a very quiet life due to health- and stressproblems. And we're still working on for our two patients. Yesterday a big helping of migraine, but today we'll go on packing and cleaning in brother-in-law's house and trying to socialize his cat. The poor animal must be lonely, with only daily visits, but she begins to open up to us.

Ruth and Sk8eycat, this side is not only troll free, but nobody has been rude or condescending too. Very special!

Comment by Ian Mason on April 27, 2014 at 1:24am

Very pleased that things are going well for your daughter, Mindy.

Living in Denmark FB is a useful for keeping up with the small talk of the family in England, including baby pics when my nieces and nephews produce their offspring. That's one of the nice sides. There's also a very few people I take seriously and can exchange views with. Like life, there's good and bad. You can choose. Plus I use Adblock to stop a lot of junk.

Have a nice Sunday. The sun is out here but I have to go to bed as I'm working this weekend. Can't win 'em all.

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on April 26, 2014 at 9:57pm

sk8eycat, you put it perfectly

I feel safe here, because they have managed to block trolls.

This is the only troll free site I know about, besides my Irritable Bowel Syndrome group.

Happy Weekend and good weather, all.

Comment by k.h. ky on April 26, 2014 at 9:56pm
Facebook is so filled with religious nuts , in this area, l can't stand it. I deleted mine years ago. Started another, just to keep up with my family, and would delete it but I can't remember the password.
Comment by The Flying Atheist on April 26, 2014 at 9:48pm

Felaine, I'm much like you.  I keep in touch with the people who are real friends and have let others just fade away to a memory.  I do admit, there are a few friends from college that were very close and meaningful to me that I let slip away and I wish hadn't, but I was dealing with my own personal issues at the time.  Sadly, It just happened and I allowed it.  Now it just seems like ancient history from lifetimes ago.

Mindy, great to hear the news about your daughter!   

Comment by sk8eycat on April 26, 2014 at 6:27pm

To Mindy and Carl: one reason I have never gone to any reunions (HS class OR Holiday On Ice), EVER, is that I was always in touch with my real friends, and I just didn't give a rat's patoot about the rest!  Some I disliked intensely and never wanted to see again, anyway.

When one of my closest HS friends wanted to start a FB page years ago, I did join up, but I started hearing from the "never again" classmates (plus I got 5 times as much spam as I usually did), so I opted out ASAP, and never went back.

Some of the animal rescue non-profits I deal with have FB pages, and I understand why.  They can't afford real web sites.  I can still read those without joining.

Anyroad, my privacy is more important to me than having a lot of strangers "like" me.  I feel safe here, because they have managed to block trolls...I don't know how, but it's the first atheist "refuge" that has been successful at keeping the religious fanatics out.

And for some reason, I can't see anything right now.  Gonna go rest my eyes, and maybe have a cuppa tea.

PS: Mindy, I'm happy your daughter is doing so well!  Both socially and scholastically.

Hugs to everyone here!

Comment by Steph S. on April 26, 2014 at 6:22pm

Hey Mindy - sorry you had to go through all that. Did you say you were getting off Facebook? If you are I think that would be good for you. Then you don't have to see any posts from those people anymore. So congrats to your daughter on her math exam - good job. So glad you have some good news.

Just went for a bike ride and had a good time outside. Just going to watch a DVD movie and relax while eating my dinner.

I hope everyone is having a good weekend. I can't believe summer is almost here. Where is time going?

Comment by sk8eycat on April 26, 2014 at 6:10pm

I deleted it...but it was NOT from an e-mail this time.

 

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