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bending truth, or "We Can All Be Manipulated" (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Donald R Barbera 2 hours ago. 35 Replies

The following is one of TheraminTrees' most thorough-going pieces, wherein he looks at the process and techniques whereby a "religious" organization (which will sound VERY familiar to most of us, once introductions are made!) takes a person who…Continue

Tags: indoctrination, truth, manipulation, TheraminTrees

punishing doubt (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller Sep 6. 0 Replies

If you are associated with religion and especially a fundamentalist religion, doubt is intolerable.  Certainty, however it may be achieved or imposed, becomes a necessary element, especially considering the utter dearth of any form of evidence or…Continue

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We Don't Want Your (Atheist) Money! (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Idaho Spud Sep 2. 17 Replies

I suppose I've heard stories like this before:Conscientious atheist donates money to worthy cause.Worthy cause initially accepts money.Worthy cause discovers source of donation.Worthy cause rejects donation.Swell, eh?  Well Matt Willbourne of…Continue

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The Whole Bible in 30 Seconds (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Randy Hatly Sep 2. 3 Replies

Ever decide that you wanted to read the whole bible, cover to cover, only to realize half-way through Deuteronomy that the darn thing is industrial-strength BORING?!?  Well, never fear!  America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers, has done the Cliff's…Continue

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Are You a Patriot? (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Chris G Aug 29. 22 Replies

You might think that Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, would be stepping outside of her comfort zone in tackling the concept of patriotism.  As it turns out, not only does she have a proper handle on the term and its implications, she also…Continue

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Comment by Plinius on October 30, 2014 at 4:24pm

It always takes a week or so to get adjusted - I wonder who profits from DST?

Comment by Idaho Spud on October 30, 2014 at 3:59pm

I'm a very early morning person, and I hate Daylight "Savings" Time.

Comment by sk8eycat on October 30, 2014 at 3:57pm

@Grinning Cat: there's also a spike in evening traffic accidents in the fall for about a week after we obediently turn our clocks back.  People not used to driving home in the dark.

What I've hated for most of my adult life, is that nearly every job had me facing east while driving to work in the morning, and facing the setting sun at "night" on my way home.

The very least they could do is shorten DST to 6 months...on the summer & winter solstices.....  Would make more sense. 

Maybe.

Comment by sk8eycat on October 30, 2014 at 3:49pm

In the 1950s and earlier, ALL railroads ran on Standard Time year-round. It made more sense, especially for long-distance trains that crossed 3 or 4 time zones during a trip.

In the summer of 1957, I was in Minot ND, and they were trying DST for the very first time.  It was chaos!  Twilight at midnight, and noisy kids driving around and around the (then) tiny business district....and we had to be up at 6:30 to get ready for all-day rehearsals that began at 8AM. I was only 17, but it was the first time I really wanted to slap somebody....I just didn't know who.

I don't know when it changed, but Arizona is now the only state that doesn't "do" DST.  Almost worth moving there just for that.

Comment by Bertold Brautigan on October 30, 2014 at 1:46pm

GC - I read that a few months back and can't recall what the article was. I tried to find it in Goog News, but no luck. Sorry.

Comment by Grinning Cat on October 30, 2014 at 1:39pm

I also read that there's a spike in traffic accidents in the days after "springing forward" and losing an hour.

Supposed energy savings in the summer are probably offset by increased air conditioning use. I'd love to learn about the evidence that the Chamber of Commerce was DST's main backer.

Comment by Bertold Brautigan on October 30, 2014 at 1:13pm

There's a book titled Spring Forward: The Annual Madness of Daylight Saving Time by Michael Downing. Here's the Amazon summary:

Michael Downing is obsessed with Daylight Saving, the loopy idea that became the most persistent political controversy in American history. Almost one hundred years after Congressmen and lawmakers in every state first debated, ridiculed, and then passionately embraced the possibility of saving an hour of daylight, no one can say for sure why we are required by law to change our clocks twice a year. Who first proposed the scheme? The most authoritative sources agree it was a Pittsburgh industrialist, Woodrow Wilson, a man on a horse in London, a Manhattan socialite, Benjamin Franklin, one of the Caesars, or the anonymous makers of ancient Chinese and Japanese water clocks.

Spring Forward is a portrait of public policy in the 20th century, a perennially boiling cauldron of unsubstantiated science, profiteering masked as piety, and mysteriously shifting time-zone boundaries. It is a true-to-life social comedy with Congress in the leading role, surrounded by a supporting cast of opportunistic ministers, movie moguls, stockbrokers, labor leaders, sports fanatics, and railroad execs.

I also read somewhere a while back that the typical, more rational reasons given for DST (safety for school kids, more light for farmers to work) are BS, and that the Chamber of Commerce was the main lobbyist for it because market research showed that people are more likely to stop and shop when it's still light out.

Comment by sk8eycat on October 30, 2014 at 12:50pm

Randall, can't you take a cop-type flashlight with you when you walk at night?  OR no light; enjoy the "light show" in the sky if it's clear.

People around here who have to walk their dogs after dinner, usually carry baseball bats, or golf clubs, because developers have ruined the hills half a mile from here, and we have a serious coyote problem at dawn and dusk.  (We're also experiencing a severe drought, and there is very little natural prey for the coyotes in the hills anymore, so they go after people's pets, and sometimes even toddlers.  They also will drink chlorinated water out of backyard pools....)

For my own self, I despise "daylight savings."  WTF are we "saving" it for?  It doesn't pay any interest....  It may have made sense during WW2 when factories were operating 24 hours a day, but that was a long time ago.

I hate waking up at 7AM and seeing only darkness outside.  Now that I'm retired, I just go back to sleep.  Or try to.

Comment by Randall Smith on October 30, 2014 at 7:44am

Daylight savings time is about to end. Being a morning person, I'm glad. But there goes my after supper walks. County back roads get pretty dark at night.

Comment by Joan Denoo on October 28, 2014 at 8:03pm

OK. This is what I think will solve part of our problem of not getting the photos delivered to our walls. One way I can retrieve some of those unposted photos is to look at my Inbox, post the name of the person sending the undelivered comment, look at each comment from that person's URL, ie. 

(http://api.ning.com:80/files/Ga2iaGVWnSH3hOn3VN9RqpglKudUzWQiRed5t0RHMdELUXSw5GoGt973WJ465fvJiiJUU3en42jQTD1aAB3Md2tGztYY7OF3/photo172.JPG)

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Open it from the inbox, not from the wall. Sometimes that works. 

It seems some other have the same problem as I. Hope this works. Or, as B.F. Skinner stated, I have just developed a superstition. 

Let me know if it works. 

Or not. 

 

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