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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Men who challenge men to stop violence

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Idaho Spud Jan 9. 19 Replies

Many men join in the effort to reduce violence against women and children and other men. He speaks of the need to place responsibility on men instead of focusing on women to stop violence. He offers a breath of fresh air, as do so many of the men on…Continue

Ian, a beautiful New Years blessing.

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Chris Jan 5. 7 Replies

Ian, for some reason, my comment would not "send" on Hang with Friends; perhaps it will here!Ian, a beautiful New Years blessing. It goes in my file. I especially like the thought of surprising myself. Laura made a special trip to my Spokane home to…Continue

degrading love — part two (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller Jan 1. 0 Replies

TheraminTrees set up religion with his left in Part One of his treatise on how religion demeans and degrades the value of love.  Here in Part Two, he brings in a devastating, "Mike Tyson" right, which negates and invalidates any claim that either…Continue

Tags: Christianity, Islam, TheraminTrees, god, love

The Ark Encounter: A Less than Grand Opening (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Idaho Spud Dec 31, 2016. 27 Replies

The day finally arrived.  Ken Ham's Ark Encounter opened on 7 July, 2016 ... to something a bit less than Disney-sized crowds, and more than a couple dissenting voices!  Seth Andrews has gathered a quartet of significant participants in the protest…Continue

Tags: Tracey Moody, Dan Broadbent, Seth Andrews, David Silverman, AronRa

Learning a Language as a Mature Adult

Started by Daniel W. Last reply by Idaho Spud Dec 14, 2016. 27 Replies

Trying to keep my mind exercised, and not interested in most of the reading materials that I can find.I decided to attempt to learn a language.  Actually, two.  The dilemma is, how do I do that without going to school - not an option - and without…Continue

What Annoys God Most? (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat Dec 7, 2016. 10 Replies

Long story short, it's those near misses, the almost-but-not-quite, close but no cheroot moments, or, would you believe ... Near Death Experiences!  So what's the big deal?  Betty Bowers, America's BEST Christian and self-proclaimed expert on such…Continue

Tags: Near Death Experiences, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

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Comment by sk8eycat on January 3, 2015 at 10:20pm

Thanks, Patricia...I giggled, LOL'd, and snorted.

The horse on the sofa reminded me of the one time Mom and I went to visit her sister and two brothers who were sort of starting over in Winslow, AZ.  (I think I was 7 or 8 at the time,)

One night Uncle Dennis knocked on the door and hollered that he had a friend with him, and could he bring him in.  Aunt Phyllis said, "Sure!"  So Uncle D. walked his big black stallion into the living room. 

I wish someone had had a camera....  Shock, dismay, and hilarity.  I don't remember how they got Blackjack turned around and back outside, but it was a hoot!

Comment by Steph S. on January 3, 2015 at 9:05pm

Comment by sk8eycat on January 3, 2015 at 8:54pm

Ian, thanks for the pep talk.  I know that "should" and "ought" but don' wanna are symptoms of my own mind...I've inherited clinical depression and procrastination from both parents, and I should talk to my doctor about it.  IF she ever has the time. 

Love the frog...he looks kinda like little Kermit. (Or have you ever seen "Sesame Street," or "The Muppet Show"?)

Comment by Ian Mason on January 3, 2015 at 8:44pm

Comment by Ian Mason on January 3, 2015 at 8:43pm

Felaine, that "should" and its friend "ought" are two nasty pieces of work. Kick them in the balls every time they turn up. The only thing I force myself to do is phyisical exercise because I know it helps, at least for a while. You obviously have your way of soothing your darker moods. I presume you also care for your cats and enjoy their company, so things do get done. Good luck with the book-hunting and book-sorting projects.

Comment by sk8eycat on January 3, 2015 at 3:45pm

Ian, I can totally identify with what that article says.  I have spent most of the last 2 weeks in my room, reading.....and smoking.  Sometimes I come in here and check my e-mail, but I have not really been communicating with anyone.  Nor have I been cooking much of the food that Mike brought me.  (I did cook, and eat the chicken, wrapped in bacon, because I didn't want it to go bad.)  Anything more elaborate just seems like too much effort.

So I read a thick biography of Julius Caesar, and then I read a similarly-sized biography of the first 40 years of Robert A. Heinlein's life. (I need to search the net for for the 2nd volume...it's been published.)  And now I'm going through my paperback collection looking for things I can give away without regret.

But there's so much else I should be doing, and I just don't want to.

Comment by Ian Mason on January 3, 2015 at 12:16pm
Comment by k.h. ky on January 3, 2015 at 10:59am
Ian, the early part of winter has started to depress m . Short, dreary days. Long boring nights. No sunshine. It will be better in 60 days or less.
Comment by Ian Mason on January 3, 2015 at 9:49am

Thanks, dear friends. Dep and me are old adversaries and I know that I'll come up again. Your support and kind words help a lot.

Comment by Randall Smith on January 3, 2015 at 7:50am

Usually, there's not much good on the telly, but last night PBS spent an hour honoring Billy Joel with the prestigious Gershwin Award. I love Billy's music! In fact, coincidentally, I just finished a biography on him. Great tribute and quite entertaining (the show).

 

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