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10 Tricks from 46 (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Nov 6. 3 Replies

Apparently, Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, has been slumming.  That is to say, she's been talking to Mike Pence [gasp!].  It would seem as though Mike has offered some of his not-so-personal tricks of the trade on how to be a 21st century…Continue

Tags: tricks, Mike Pence, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Grinning Cat Oct 19. 99 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

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A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Plinius Sep 28. 8 Replies

I received a gift this morning from a virtual friend, Pamela Smith:A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :" One day an old wise teacher was walking through a village. A very angry and rude young man came up and began insulting him. "You have…Continue

Speak English? YOU FIRST! (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Donald R Barbera Sep 27. 5 Replies

Honestly, the title to this piece is badly under-representative of the content.  To be far more accurate, what we have here is Mrs. Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, going on a rant.  Before you say it ... Say WHAAAA?  Betty Bowers ranting? …Continue

Tags: America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

10 Things About Patriotism (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Plinius Sep 26. 2 Replies

It seems as though lately, Mrs. Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, is evolving into America's Best Patriot.  She has recently been taking some fairly well-aimed shots at a certain Orange Nightmare and his sycophantic hangers-on, regarding the…Continue

Tags: patriotism, Donald Trump, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

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Comment by Joan Denoo on November 7, 2015 at 8:26pm

Carl, you tell an amazing story of germs on airplanes and your experiences while working and after. Flying as a passenger, I very often had lung and bronchial problems after a flight and the long ones to China and Turkey were tough. I don't know how you worked in that germ incubator and didn't come down with lung diseases. Perhaps kidney disease is occupationally related. Do you know the kidney disease rate of flight attendants? 

Comment by The Flying Atheist on November 7, 2015 at 6:54pm

Grinning Cat, that's a great song.  I've always liked it. 

Speaking of health, as a flight attendant, I can tell you that it's no secret that airplanes are a smorgasbord of germs.  The close proximity of people, vomit from airsickness, food eating, diaper changing on beverage tray tables, garbage in seat-back pockets, inadequate or non-existent hand washing by passengers.  I was constantly washing my hands while working because of the constant contact with germs.  Still, it was common that I would get a bad cold three or four times a year in addition to the flu once or twice, despite getting a flu shot. 

Because of my kidney disease, I haven't been able to work for the past 15 months.  As a result, I haven't had a single cold or flu during that whole time. 

Comment by kathy: ky on November 7, 2015 at 10:50am
Grinning Cat, that is WONDERFUL :)
And so approp. Thank you.
Comment by Grinning Cat on November 7, 2015 at 10:34am

Randy, I missed that "forum", but while I'd like to see a Bernie Sanders presidency, I wholeheartedly agree that any of the Democratic candidates would be far better than any of the Republicans (Republicons; Rethuglicans; official party motto: "I've got mine; screw you").

Bertold, sorry to hear of your furry family member's passing. It sounds like she had the least worst way to go, enjoying life until the end.

Ian, I too look forward to reading your poems in translation, hopefully one that transmits a lot of their spirit and quirks as well as their basic sense.

And for Kathy:

Comment by Randall Smith on November 7, 2015 at 7:42am

Except for Bertold's loss of his beloved pet, there seems to be a lot of good news going on. I like to hear that.

Did anyody watch the MSNBC "forum" with Rachel Maddow, last night? She interviewed the 3 Democratic pres. candidates. Enlightening and informative. I could live with any of the three. Just no Republicans.

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 7, 2015 at 12:19am

Kathy, I like your suggestions for Carl to be especially careful during this waiting time. Those little sniffles, sneezes and coughs can sidetrack procedures too easily. Yes, we join in as your team of encouraging support. 

I had dogs throughout my childhood and made sure the kids had their pets and learned to care for them. When our last cats and dogs dies of old age, and after my kids flew the nest to build their own, I retired from animal care. What a splendid gift to have such fine animals in my new home during this stage of my life. I receive so very much pleasure from them.

Dominic has a personality that suits me very comfortably with his quiet attention and joining me in my activities. He seems to enjoy each day as much as i. He belongs to my daughter, Laura. 

Spaz offers all bounce and vigor that I no longer have. 

Zeek, or Zeak, or Zeke, I don't know how they spell his name, is a reckless, undisciplined, wild animal that has no concern for manners or impositions. He and Spaz belong to Michelle, my granddaughter who lives down the gravel road from my new home. 

Each one is a treasure that I love. Dominic offers me companionship with quiet affections that I treasure. 

Comment by kathy: ky on November 6, 2015 at 11:06pm
Thanks to everyone for the kind words.

Carl, be a germ freak while you wait. Carry an extra bottle of hand sanitizer with you and use it! Wash your hands often. You know the drill!! We all want you healthy and well prepared for surgery and you know we will all be thinking of you.


Joan, you seem to have been adopted by a lovely dog. Is he your first?
Comment by The Flying Atheist on November 6, 2015 at 10:56pm

Ian, I'm all for an English translation of your poems as well.  Either that or a pop-up picture book.

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 6, 2015 at 4:20pm

Kathy, glad your cataract surgery went well and you can see clearly.

Bertold, very sorry to learn of the loss of your #1 dog. Happily, your description of playfulness on her last day and quiet passing occurred. 

Ian, how wonderful to be published! I hope we can read English translations, even if anything is lost in the process of translation.

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 6, 2015 at 4:08pm

Laura told me it was about time I stopped complaining about not having a bird book and order one. She says, "Get 'er done", Larry says "Get 'er did". They believe in taking action, not whining.  

Dang! I love it when I hear my kids say back to me what I taught them when they were little!

 

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