Hang With Friends

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maggie and milly and molly and may (Edward Estlin Cummings & Eric Whitacre)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller on Friday. 2 Replies

It's amazing what you discover when you go looking for something you had no idea you'd find.  On an impulse, I pulled up Eric Whitacre's website to see if he had created any new pieces.  It would seem that he has: a song cycle called The City and…Continue

Tags: e e cummings, Eric Whitacre

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISIS

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Randall Smith Nov 18. 1 Reply

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISISGrowth in population, policies and practices that create a gap between the typical person and the wealthy,…Continue

Passive and Active voices

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Nov 16. 1 Reply

Have you noticed that much of the discussion in families and with friends, in the print media, on TV, and now on the internet is in the Passive Voice? Many people whine, complain, gripe, accuse, blame, call names, ridicule, grumble, bitch, rebuke,…Continue

Tags: and, behaviors, communication., attitudes, learned

Detroit Businesswomen Team Up to Get Rape Kits Tested

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by The Flying Atheist Nov 14. 2 Replies

Detroit Businesswomen Team Up to Get Rape Kits Tested"In 2009, a Wayne County assistant prosecuting attorney noticed…Continue

Tags: women, Enough, SAID, black, victims

Something Beautiful – Nathan Phelps & Seth Andrews

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 10. 7 Replies

And it is beautiful, too, indeed, I think some of Seth Andrews' best work.  Interesting point: rather than Seth's dulcet baritone doing the narration, this piece presses Nathan Phelps' deep bass intonation into service, bringing a different flavor…Continue

Tags: Nathan Phelps, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews, beautiful, something

Your favorite photobombs?

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Joan Denoo Oct 27. 14 Replies

Running of the bulls photobomb.Continue

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Comment by Joan Denoo on June 2, 2014 at 10:48pm

Carl, I like your standing for your favorite in spite of being what appears to be a minority in this string. 

Lke Patricia, I associated all that yelling with my father and his rages that physically hurt, but the pain that didn't show was the mental abuse he delivered for no reason other than his own dominance of power. 

My favorite was Carol Barnett, too. And Dick Van Dyck

Comment by sk8eycat on June 2, 2014 at 10:22pm

James, you're not missing anything.  I think the early episodes were fairly clever, but all I hear from the TV when my sister watches those effing reruns is yelling, shouting, whining.  On and on and on.  

My sister is nearly 70 years old, but she has Asperger's syndrome, and her sense of humor is that of a pre-teen. She thinks Bart Simpson (the son) is hilarious.  

Our TV is about 20 years old now, and I can't wait for it to die.  I can't afford to buy another one, and I won't miss it at all.

Comment by James M. Martin on June 2, 2014 at 9:46pm

Not normally a Simpsons watcher, or anything animated for that matter. Sorry.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on June 2, 2014 at 9:17pm

OK, I'm here to defend the Honeymooners, which has been an all time favorite of mine since childhood.  I own the "Classic 39" episodes on DVD so I can watch them at any time.  In addition to the visual physical comedy of Jackie Gleason, the interactions between Gleason and Art Carney are pure comedy gold. 

Comment by Idaho Spud on June 2, 2014 at 5:30pm

Make that a third!

Comment by Loren Miller on June 2, 2014 at 5:26pm

Whoa, someone else who didn't love Lucy?!?  EEEEEEK!!!

Comment by sk8eycat on June 2, 2014 at 5:20pm

James, "D'oh" is the way Homer Simpson pronounces his exclamation.  It doesn't necessarily mean, "Duh, I (or you) did something stupid."  He uses it constantly for everything.  Pain, surprise, shock...

My Aspie sister watches "The Simpsons" reruns every effing night, and I have to go into my room, shut the door, and put on a soothing CD.  It's all about Homer yelling about something... always. 

Nobody ever understood why I hated "Lucy" and "the Honeymooners" back in the '50s....same reason.  People yelling at each other over everything. 

Comment by James M. Martin on June 2, 2014 at 1:58pm

Minor cavil with the Simpsons illo, Flying Atheist. Whatever happened to the "old" spelling: Duh! When a mentally challenged person says something obvious, we say, "Duh!" ("D'oh" is not only awkwardly spelled, its pronunciation sound like mention of a play putty or what you roll out to make a pie shell.)

Comment by sk8eycat on June 2, 2014 at 10:26am

Not just climate-change deniers...climate and ecological change are what drive evolution...

Comment by Loren Miller on June 2, 2014 at 7:31am

Carl, your quote reminded me of the last words of the liner notes on the first Eric Whitacre CD I ever got:

The effect is often like the one the great Mozart described upon hearing Johann Sebastian Bach's incredible motet, Singet dem Herrn: "it was as if my entire soul was in my ear."

So maybe souls don't exist ... but there is a lot of music out there which can stir us to our core, and I find the choral work of Eric Whitacre, the composer of "A Boy and a Girl," to be emphatically in that set.


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