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maggie and milly and molly and may (Edward Estlin Cummings & Eric Whitacre)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 20. 2 Replies

It's amazing what you discover when you go looking for something you had no idea you'd find.  On an impulse, I pulled up Eric Whitacre's website to see if he had created any new pieces.  It would seem that he has: a song cycle called The City and…Continue

Tags: e e cummings, Eric Whitacre

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISIS

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Randall Smith Nov 18. 1 Reply

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISISGrowth in population, policies and practices that create a gap between the typical person and the wealthy,…Continue

Passive and Active voices

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Nov 16. 1 Reply

Have you noticed that much of the discussion in families and with friends, in the print media, on TV, and now on the internet is in the Passive Voice? Many people whine, complain, gripe, accuse, blame, call names, ridicule, grumble, bitch, rebuke,…Continue

Tags: and, behaviors, communication., attitudes, learned

Detroit Businesswomen Team Up to Get Rape Kits Tested

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by The Flying Atheist Nov 14. 2 Replies

Detroit Businesswomen Team Up to Get Rape Kits Tested"In 2009, a Wayne County assistant prosecuting attorney noticed…Continue

Tags: women, Enough, SAID, black, victims

Something Beautiful – Nathan Phelps & Seth Andrews

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 10. 7 Replies

And it is beautiful, too, indeed, I think some of Seth Andrews' best work.  Interesting point: rather than Seth's dulcet baritone doing the narration, this piece presses Nathan Phelps' deep bass intonation into service, bringing a different flavor…Continue

Tags: Nathan Phelps, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews, beautiful, something

Your favorite photobombs?

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Joan Denoo Oct 27. 14 Replies

Running of the bulls photobomb.Continue

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Comment by Joan Denoo on May 28, 2014 at 12:38pm

Good morning, one and all, I am unwinding from my 11 day visit to Shangri-La in the NE part of Washington state and the forest home of my daughter, son-in-law, my two granddaughters and their mates and five great-grandchildren. This is a most wonderful family I have ever witnessed. They work incredibly hard for five days of the week and while they work, they have what I call "buckets of problems".

They wake up to problems, sort them out, prioritize them, then start working the buckets one or two at a time. While finding solutions, they often stop and think about how to solve the problem of one bucket, explore options, do some test runs, and then progress to a solution. If it turns out the problem isn't solved, they explore, experiment, examine again, make a decision, put it into action, and watch for the outcome. They use this process all through the day, all the while laughing, joking, coming up with some of the most weird Goldberg solutions along the way, and by the end of the day, they prepare a meal fit for royalty, and rest and restore their energy. No unresolved problem gets in the way of their process and it is all done with hard, critical thought, effective and efficient action, and they pay attention to details, evaluating constantly.  

They handle their domestic and animal chores the same way. Identify the tasks that need doing, clarify their goals, explore options, develop action plans including the youngest five year old, do the work, and evaluate outcomes. Wash-rinse-repeat. 

Scattered in this process comes calls for them to run to a fire or accident or medical emergency. Four adult members put on their appropriate gear and head to the emergency, taking the equipment expected to be needed. One grandaughter and the older kids take care of the younger ones and provide backup services, i.e. water, food, as needed. Sometimes the calls come in the middle of the night. They spent one Thanksgiving day fighting a fire and came home to a cooked turkey dinner that we had planned to do together, The kids and I did the dinner and those five youngsters work as a team. 

On the left are Jared and Michelle and to the left of the fire chief in a white shirt is Laura with Larry standing behind her. 

Michelle works hard at training each child how to do the age-appropriate chore and sets high standards of achievement. They know how to do all the chores and how to fill in where needed. The oldest boy is 15 and he functions as a fully mature adult in that family. 

Play is an important part of all their lives, adults and children. Team work and individual activity, whether music, sports, hobbies and creative arts and crafts, or training and caring for their horses, dogs, cats, and the occasional lizard, frog or snake, or injured wildlife fills their day. 

This is team work of the most extraordinary variety. Even the great-grandkids are involved in "working the problem buckets". 

Comment by The Flying Atheist on May 28, 2014 at 10:56am

Hi, Steph!  Thanks.  Hope you have a great week also.

Comment by Steph S. on May 28, 2014 at 10:34am

Hello everyone- wish you a great week.

Comment by Idaho Spud on May 28, 2014 at 10:27am

I didn't notice that nobody thanked god.  Thanks Carl.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on May 28, 2014 at 10:20am

A very good and swift outcome for that stolen infant.  I'm glad to read in the story and to see in the videos that nobody was thanking any higher power for the positive outcome.  The actions of people  and some luck made that happy outcome possible.  It's refreshing to see the mother acknowledge the real reasons she got her baby back. 

"We had a lot of luck, but thanks to you ! I would like to thank the thousands of police officers, investigators across Quebec who have demonstrated great compassion and went to work immediately to find my baby. They have done an effective job alert and launched very quickly. Yesterday was a victory for us, but also for you. your work has been exeptional and we 're lucky to have such an effective system to help us in this situation .... THANK YOU! Thank you reporters have transmitted the news. I would also like to thank the staff and management of the St. Mary Hospital for your support .

"Thank you to these people, thank you to the security guards who acted quickly and found a picture with the help of the police. Photo saved our daughter ! In less than an hour, the picture was everywhere .... You were thousands of people shared the photo of the woman on the social networks and relentlessly . Know that this is what has saved our little Victoria. Each click , each share has made ​​the difference. Four wonderful people , we had the chance to meet , have identified the woman through Facebook. This is the only reason why Victoria is in my arms right now. Thank you all Quebecers who have bothered to do more .... check the area , parking , red cars .... We felt a great supports from the population. This victory is yours to you all !"

Comment by k.h. ky on May 27, 2014 at 11:16am
Thanks Ian.
Comment by Ian Mason on May 27, 2014 at 1:14am

If it's silver it will have some kind of hallmark.

There are, of course, British and European marks as well or just plain "Sterling" or "925".

Silver plate isn't marked like that but as EPNS or EPBM if it's marked at all.

Hope that helps.

Comment by k.h. ky on May 25, 2014 at 6:22pm
Does anyone know how to tell if something is silver or silver plated without taking it to the shop? I seem to remember that a magnet isn't supposed to stick to silver but will to silver plate. Am I wrong again?
It's a nice old fruit bowl that dates from 1929. Apparently it's a presentation bowl because it's engraved with the dates April 10th 1907-April 10th 1932. Thanks all.
Comment by Ian Mason on May 25, 2014 at 4:46am

A pun to add a little fun to your day:

Comment by Ian Mason on May 25, 2014 at 3:56am

Hmm, That should have been a link to the mosaic museum. I think it leads to all the state museums in Istanbul so keep on searching. I did go round the Topkapi palace. Yes, a lot is beautiful but I also went round the harem which still has the atmosphere of the prison it was, a kind of human battery-chicken shed.


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