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Hang With Friends

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Come on in, pull up a chair!

Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

Nobody here is into mind games. A discussion started with a loaded guilt-throwing question will be deleted.

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The myth of religions

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Joan Denoo on Saturday. 3 Replies

The creation myth of civilizations instructs men to dominate, to conquer, to go forth and multiply. No reasonable person would pay attention to such a god. No hunter-gatherer receives such a senseless message from wise elders.However, that idea…Continue

Tags: masculine, violation, imperative, go forth and multiply,, conquest

Winter Driving, Preparing for the worst

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Joan Denoo Feb 1. 2 Replies

Now that we enter the time the Celtics called Imbolc, a pagan celebration of the beginning of spring and season of new life, I ran across this video on preparing for winter driving. It offers reasons for each thing he puts in his vehicles to be safe…Continue

Tags: prepare, driving, winter

A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Chris Dec 26, 2017. 10 Replies

I received a gift this morning from a virtual friend, Pamela Smith:A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :" One day an old wise teacher was walking through a village. A very angry and rude young man came up and began insulting him. "You have…Continue

10 Tricks from 46 (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Nov 6, 2017. 3 Replies

Apparently, Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, has been slumming.  That is to say, she's been talking to Mike Pence [gasp!].  It would seem as though Mike has offered some of his not-so-personal tricks of the trade on how to be a 21st century…Continue

Tags: tricks, Mike Pence, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Grinning Cat Oct 19, 2017. 99 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

Tags: surreal

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Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on January 26, 2016 at 4:17pm

What an inviting room for virtual relaxation. I love tea and snuggly throws, and it's peaceful, calming. Thanks, flying Atheist.

You make good points, Joan. We all learn so much from you.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on January 26, 2016 at 2:49pm

Randy, I'm not crazy about that 70s decor, but I admire people who decide to do something and go all out.  I have to appreciate their commitment.  I like people like that. 

Comment by The Flying Atheist on January 26, 2016 at 2:45pm

I'm 51 but often feel like I'm 91.  

Comment by Ian Mason on January 26, 2016 at 12:33pm

At 59 I must be a mere stripling! I've also begun to feel the first signs of wear and tear in joints, tendons etc and healing/recovery gets slower and slower. I refuse to give in though. I have plans for at least one more year of jogging half-marathons.

Carl, what a wonderfully tasteless decor. The fire-and-tea scene is much more restful.

Comment by Plinius on January 26, 2016 at 11:55am

You're not the youngest, Loren, I'm not yet 62. 

Comment by Bertold Brautigan on January 26, 2016 at 10:06am

Also 65 here, just went on Medicare last fall. Been noticing shades of decrepitude creeping in on various fronts. I try to work in a bit of light lifting, stretching, and tai chi every day.

I always find somehow comforting the oft-noted idea that dying begins the billions of years of non-existence that mirror the billions of years of non-existence preceding your life. It just occurred to me that means statistically, being dead is far more "normal" than being alive.

The moral: at least while you're still alive, beware any judgments or undertakings based on statistics.

Comment by Loren Miller on January 26, 2016 at 7:46am

Gad, I guess I'm the young'un here at 65!  I'm doing pretty well at the moment, not a lot of medical complaints.  I would LIKE to get more active when the weather gets better (especially considering what I spent on a bike three years ago!), and I do little things to at least attempt to keep myself in shape.

I find I'm becoming more conscious of what's going on with myself and my body and I want to take actions to counter any degradation in my current status.  It'll be interesting to see how successful I am as time passes!

Comment by Randall Smith on January 26, 2016 at 7:21am

Actually, Carl (and Bertold), I like the decor! Perhaps it's because it's so different from my antique white walls and old furniture.

Sorry about your maladies, Ruth. I guess I'm pretty lucky at 2 months shy of age 73. My worst health issue is osteo-arthritis, mostly in the thumb joints. Fingernail fungus is disappearing with generic Lamosil. 

Of course, Joan is ever the eternal and inspirational optimist!

Comment by Plinius on January 26, 2016 at 7:15am

All these free extras hurt, Ruth, but we cannot refuse them! Take more time for yourself, to care and heal. I hope you feel better soon!

I should try to be more careful myself too - yesterday I took Dido to the vet and today my feet, knees and even my hips hurt like hell. That should teach me how much I can do!

Dido was always a heavy cat, about 6 1/2 kilos, but a month ago he lost weight very fast, for no reason I could see. Today he is just over 4 kilos, but the vet found nothing so far. More results of the examination in a few days....

Comment by Bertold Brautigan on January 26, 2016 at 1:04am

OMG Carl - the real estate offering reminds me of the Captain Cook Hotel in Anchorage. It's another disturbingly 70s blast from the past.

 

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