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Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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God's Annual Performance Review (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on Monday. 6 Replies

I don't know about you guys, but there wasn't a performance review I had in 30 years of field service that I didn't LOATHE.  It seems as though Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, is up for turning the tables on the person you would expect would…Continue

Tags: review, performance, god, American's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Learning a Language as a Mature Adult

Started by Daniel W. Last reply by Joan Denoo Mar 2. 28 Replies

Trying to keep my mind exercised, and not interested in most of the reading materials that I can find.I decided to attempt to learn a language.  Actually, two.  The dilemma is, how do I do that without going to school - not an option - and without…Continue

The Playboy Interview: Richard Dawkins

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Chris Feb 19. 14 Replies

I suppose it was the news that Playboy magazine was returning nudes to its pages after a year's hiatus that sufficiently perked my curiosity to check them out again.  I hadn't looked at Playboy since perhaps 2008, when I began to recognize that I…Continue

Tags: Richard Dawkins, Playboy

Such Lyrics!

Started by Donatien Alphonse François. Last reply by Grinning Cat Feb 13. 9 Replies

Hello Friends,I was ruminating a bit today on my sixty-some years existence. My mind went back to teenage years when I first figured out religion is not only obnoxiously loud, but also nothing I wanted anything to do with. Truly. I knew by age 15…Continue

degrading love — part two (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Feb 11. 1 Reply

TheraminTrees set up religion with his left in Part One of his treatise on how religion demeans and degrades the value of love.  Here in Part Two, he brings in a devastating, "Mike Tyson" right, which negates and invalidates any claim that either…Continue

Tags: Christianity, Islam, TheraminTrees, god, love

Questions......

Started by Thomas Murray. Last reply by k.h. ky Feb 9. 6 Replies

   It has been 6 month now since I signed up for Atheist Nexus membership. The past year has been sort of a bi-polar wave of emotions for me. I hope I wasn't offensive to the folks on here and I think I have been but I don't know to who. My desire…Continue

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Comment by Bertold Brautigan on January 6, 2015 at 4:45pm

Thanks Carl! I love the old 40s/50s jazz, especially sax, and I'd never known about Don Byas. Just started a Pandora station and it's great!

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 6, 2015 at 3:34pm

I didn't seem to have the angst in my high school years that some had. I loved learning, I had very fine teachers, and I made top grades. It was a place where I would not be hit and I would be acknowledged for doing a good job. 

My senior year was magical for me. A lot of successes occurred and doors opened. I wanted to go to college and my guidance counselors found some scholarships for me that made it possible to choose hairdressing (which I declined) and some other training that didn't appeal to me.  

I worked a year and continued to apply for scholarships. I finally got what I wanted ... a chance to go into horticulture at Washington State College,

I attended WSC for one and half years and then decided to marry Don, who was in dental school. Although it turned out to be a bad marriage for me, I have three beautiful children who make me very proud. There is no more violence in any of their lives! They learned how to be rational, and compassionate. I am proud of them, they discarded superstition, are moral, ethical, compassionate, and caring people. Isn't that just amazing!

I still hate hair and liked my bald head when my hair started falling out. I also liked the kids who wanted to touch my head-of-no-hair or reacted in some way. For those who were afraid of me, I was able to be a jester and make them laugh.

Comment by tom sarbeck on January 6, 2015 at 3:28pm

Enough of us have written of early unhappiness that I think it reasonable to consider its most likely cause: our being born to people who, like my parents, were for various reasons not up to the task.

It is, in my opinion, the only truth that Billy Graham told: the two most important tasks, citizenship and parenthood, require no training. That was in the late 1950s. I had just quit Catholicism and could hear him without committing a mortal--go immediately to Hell--sin.

Twenty years later I had moved to San Francisco and read in the newspaper that San Jose, a few miles south where a brother and his one-child family lived, was the first city in America to have a law that authorizes the City to remove children from violent parents and to require those parents to attend anger management classes.

More? Maybe in another discussion?

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 6, 2015 at 3:08pm

Patricia, your face in photos look lovely to me. I see no permanently miserable state. I see a bright woman with compassion and eager to help, especially eager to help me with my cancer treatments. 

You made a big difference in my life. 

Comment by Bertold Brautigan on January 6, 2015 at 3:07pm

HS graduation

Comment by Idaho Spud on January 6, 2015 at 12:40pm

This is the only picture of the teenage me that I could find today.  It's at age 18, graduating from High School.

I don't look as happy as I remember being most of the time, because I didn't want to attend the graduation ceremony.  I was a little sick and never have liked pomp & ceremony, but my mother talked me into it.

Comment by Idaho Spud on January 6, 2015 at 11:35am

Comment by Plinius on January 6, 2015 at 6:20am

Make some coffee, Carl! I'll be there to listen to the Don Buass quartet!

Comment by Plinius on January 6, 2015 at 6:18am

Patricia's picture reminded me of this one - I see similarities. And I also started building happy memories later on. But perhaps teenagers seldom look happy. What did you all look like?

Comment by tom sarbeck on January 6, 2015 at 3:45am

Joan, thanks for the alto sax zigeunerweisen. On any instrument it's one of my favorites.

 

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