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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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The myth of religions

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Joan Denoo on Saturday. 3 Replies

The creation myth of civilizations instructs men to dominate, to conquer, to go forth and multiply. No reasonable person would pay attention to such a god. No hunter-gatherer receives such a senseless message from wise elders.However, that idea…Continue

Tags: masculine, violation, imperative, go forth and multiply,, conquest

Winter Driving, Preparing for the worst

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Joan Denoo Feb 1. 2 Replies

Now that we enter the time the Celtics called Imbolc, a pagan celebration of the beginning of spring and season of new life, I ran across this video on preparing for winter driving. It offers reasons for each thing he puts in his vehicles to be safe…Continue

Tags: prepare, driving, winter

A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Chris Dec 26, 2017. 10 Replies

I received a gift this morning from a virtual friend, Pamela Smith:A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :" One day an old wise teacher was walking through a village. A very angry and rude young man came up and began insulting him. "You have…Continue

10 Tricks from 46 (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Nov 6, 2017. 3 Replies

Apparently, Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, has been slumming.  That is to say, she's been talking to Mike Pence [gasp!].  It would seem as though Mike has offered some of his not-so-personal tricks of the trade on how to be a 21st century…Continue

Tags: tricks, Mike Pence, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Grinning Cat Oct 19, 2017. 99 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

Tags: surreal

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Comment by Joan Denoo on January 3, 2016 at 2:50am

EarthWindMap

Observe what is happening off the western coast of Europe, Ireland and England. 

Is there anyone living in that area that can report the weather to us?

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 3, 2016 at 1:37am

Ten above zero degrees F when we closed up for the night, First light this morning

Early light this morning. A stunningly beautiful day with the sound of cold temperatures as we walked on the snow. The clear air had crystals that floated down as breezes wafted through the trees.

Comment by Plinius on January 2, 2016 at 11:58pm

We went to a NYE party at the neighbours', and, as you say Carl,  the relationships were wonderfully enriched when our neighbour came out as a transgender, in a wig, a beautiful dress and a new name. Tears of joy when everyone saw that he/she is on the road to a better life, and great fun. It's the first time I saw a gay marriage turn into a hetero marriage.  

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 2, 2016 at 10:30pm

Ian, isn't it fun to have little ones in our lives, and memories? I surely am happy living so close to my great-grandchildren. Just now, Brooklyn wants to type you a note.

ip=oppp, Love, Brooklyn

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Comment by Joan Denoo on January 2, 2016 at 10:03pm

Randy, I have a Google Alert for silverthorn.farm.com and enjoy reading their Facebook page. Your remarkable family offers an option for young, ambitious, environmentally sensitive people. You must be very proud!

silverthorn.farm.com

Comment by Ian Mason on January 2, 2016 at 9:17pm

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 2, 2016 at 3:03pm

Carl, your report of settling into a new normal is good to read. I am happy your sister is recovering so quickly as well. 

A quiet evening at home is my favorite NYE activity. At Laura's the whole family comes here each year and they have a wonderful time in the snow, gathering around the burn pit outside and the fire inside with hot cups of beverage. I am happy because I get to take a nap before the midnight toasts begin. I return to bed after, and others party on into the morning. I have no problem sleeping with all the partying. There are a few alcoholic spirits, but not much. Laura and Larry are light drinkers, and their two daughters are in that stage of life of wanting to get pass-out-drunk-and-be-sick-for three-days-after. At least, they aren't out on the highway with other deadly-drunk-drivers.

Our New Years Day offered lots of left-overs; we have a day off cooking. 

Settling into your home, doing what you want to do when you want to do it brings many pleasures. I think of you as you settle in. 

Comment by The Flying Atheist on January 2, 2016 at 12:06pm

Happy New Year to all of you here!  I hope 2016 treats you well and provides good health and enriching relationships.

I spent a quiet NYE by myself relaxing in front of the boob tube watching a movie on Netflix.  I also treated myself to Kung Pao Chicken with egg roll from my favorite Chinese take-out.  Quite enjoyable. 

When by myself on NYE, I usually opt to watch something "zany" along the lines of the Marx Brothers or W.C Fields, but this year I chose a dark, disturbing film that had excellent reviews.  It did not disappoint!  Nightcrawlers (2014) [trailer] about the seedy underside of the independent cameramen who film, sell and provide film footage to local television news shows.  Great performances, cinematography and suspense.  Jake Gyllenhaal wonderfully plays a cunning psychopath. 

I moved back to my apartment back on December 21 after spending five weeks recuperating at my parent's house.  It's nice to be home.  I haven't been here since the morning of November 12, the day of my surgery except to pick up mail periodically.  Both my sister and I are feeling good and continue to get our energy back.  I have several months of physical therapy ahead of me to strengthen my legs.  Now that there's snow and ice on the ground, walking is very hazardous, so I've had to take taxis frequently.      

Comment by Randall Smith on January 2, 2016 at 7:51am

I suppose watching football games at my daughter's house was a good excuse to spend quality time with my grandchildren. The baby is 7 weeks old and now very alert, staring and smiling at his funny looking grandaddy (as I'm called).

I also found time to discuss farm plans with Nate, my SIL. I could write at length about what's happening on our 120 acres, but, in short, all is going well. We're excited about the future of organic farming. No current newsletter has been published, but for a background, check out >silverthorn.farm.com<.

Comment by Ian Mason on January 1, 2016 at 12:12pm

Joan, I remember my daughter at that age and the fun we had. Also the need to be alert as she was a keen explorer of everything within reach.

I spent New Year with good friend Maja (who's still a bit miffed that I don't want a relationship) and we found some of our entertainment on the TV: an unsuccessful adaptation of 'The Tempest' starring Helen Mirren and Monty Python's 'Meaning of Life' which was much better.

 

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