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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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God's Annual Performance Review (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Mar 19. 6 Replies

I don't know about you guys, but there wasn't a performance review I had in 30 years of field service that I didn't LOATHE.  It seems as though Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, is up for turning the tables on the person you would expect would…Continue

Tags: review, performance, god, American's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Learning a Language as a Mature Adult

Started by Daniel W. Last reply by Joan Denoo Mar 2. 28 Replies

Trying to keep my mind exercised, and not interested in most of the reading materials that I can find.I decided to attempt to learn a language.  Actually, two.  The dilemma is, how do I do that without going to school - not an option - and without…Continue

The Playboy Interview: Richard Dawkins

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Chris Feb 19. 14 Replies

I suppose it was the news that Playboy magazine was returning nudes to its pages after a year's hiatus that sufficiently perked my curiosity to check them out again.  I hadn't looked at Playboy since perhaps 2008, when I began to recognize that I…Continue

Tags: Richard Dawkins, Playboy

Such Lyrics!

Started by Donatien Alphonse François. Last reply by Grinning Cat Feb 13. 9 Replies

Hello Friends,I was ruminating a bit today on my sixty-some years existence. My mind went back to teenage years when I first figured out religion is not only obnoxiously loud, but also nothing I wanted anything to do with. Truly. I knew by age 15…Continue

degrading love — part two (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Feb 11. 1 Reply

TheraminTrees set up religion with his left in Part One of his treatise on how religion demeans and degrades the value of love.  Here in Part Two, he brings in a devastating, "Mike Tyson" right, which negates and invalidates any claim that either…Continue

Tags: Christianity, Islam, TheraminTrees, god, love

Questions......

Started by Thomas Murray. Last reply by k.h. ky Feb 9. 6 Replies

   It has been 6 month now since I signed up for Atheist Nexus membership. The past year has been sort of a bi-polar wave of emotions for me. I hope I wasn't offensive to the folks on here and I think I have been but I don't know to who. My desire…Continue

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Comment by Chris on December 31, 2016 at 3:01am
Comment by Joan Denoo on December 31, 2016 at 1:26am

Ian, Q? What are conshies?

Oh! A conscientious objector, right? 

My grandfather Denoo, a young Belgian man who was just perfect for sending off to the European battlefield to be mangled and killed in the endless wars, came to the U.S. because of a generous gift from his aunt. I have no idea who she was, but everyone knew that women had babies, preferably boys, to send off to war and the glory. Of the Fatherland!

Granddad Denoo was too old for WW II, but his three sons were the right age. One, Uncle John, had a job on the railroad that protected him from the draft; so was Uncle Louie who worked for the electric power company, an essential job. Dad went to work for Morrison Knudson (MK), building railroad bridges across the southern tier of the US so that men and material could be shipped quickly across the U.S. 

Mom and I lived in a 12-foot trailer that moved across the southern tier with the construction advancement. We were in Los Vegas when the Japanese bombed Pearl Harbor. 

He then was sent to Alaska to build airfields. Mom and I moved to Spokane, WA; They paid cash for a tiny two-bedroom house, and we settled in until the end of the war. I lived with my maternal grandparent's summers and vacation, while Mom worked for Kaiser Aluminum, Trentwood. 

Mom and the other women who worked at Kaiser in formerly male-held positions suffered both opportunity and challenge. The men didn't like women taking "men's" jobs, and administration knew valuable workers when they had them. Women moved up the ranks quickly and suffered the insults of men who felt overlooked.

Comment by Plinius on December 31, 2016 at 12:21am

A great job, Daniel! And to think that you did everything twice!

Comment by Daniel W on December 30, 2016 at 9:49pm

"Francis" means "Frenchman".  Interesting.  There was also Frank Sinatra and Francis Ford Coppola.  Spud, are you French? 

By the way, Bertold is an old German name meaning "bright strength; renowned leader".  Bertold Brecht wrote the 3-penny opera, which is one of 2 things I read in German in High School  BB I know you already know the derivation :-)

I could not find a meaning for Spud other than Potato, which is a noble and nutritious victual that I eat at least once daily.

Kitchen progress report, a few days ago and today.  Still quite a bit to do but feeling much better about it.  I think I'm getting more done since iron infusion 2 weeks ago.

A few days back

This afternoon.

If I have the ambition, tomorrow the range hood goes up, then undercabinet lights, then trim, touch up etc can be before or after inspection and gas hookup.  I have to wait for propane to adjust the oven and range flames.

Comment by Bertold Brautigan on December 30, 2016 at 4:36pm

Dave Barry's year in review--

  • "Yes, we’ve seen some weird years. But we’ve never seen one as weird as 2016. This was the Al Yankovic of years. If years were movies, 2016 would be “Plan 9 from Outer Space.” If years were relatives, 2016 would be the uncle who shows up at your Thanksgiving dinner wearing his underpants on the outside."

Comment by Idaho Spud on December 30, 2016 at 1:28pm

Well, I guess the net is real life also, so here I call myself Spud.

Comment by Idaho Spud on December 30, 2016 at 1:25pm

In real life I call myself Francis.

Comment by Bertold Brautigan on December 30, 2016 at 1:24pm

I graduated from hs with a guy named Lynn. (Not to mention, a girl named Candi Kane and one named Holly Wood.)

Comment by Idaho Spud on December 30, 2016 at 12:51pm

Yes, Lynn does seem to be a female name around here as well.

Comment by Grinning Cat on December 30, 2016 at 12:41pm

I usually associate "Lynn" with women; though I've heard of one man named Lyn (Larsen, the theatre organist).

 

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