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Hang With Friends

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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

Nobody here is into mind games. A discussion started with a loaded guilt-throwing question will be deleted.

This group is not intended to compete with other groups on topics they cover but to "fill in the cracks." Whenever a discussion dwells at length on a topic for which there's an existing group, we urge you to provide members a link to that group to continue along their tangent.

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Goodwill to Few Men (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Donald R Barbera Jul 23. 3 Replies

Think Goodwill Industries does well by the poor?  Fact is, they do WAY BETTER for themselves, to the point where America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers, thinks they're ripping off the christian playbook a bit too well!  Have a look for yourself:…Continue

Tags: ripoff, Goodwill Industries, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Your favorite photobombs?

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Plinius Jul 10. 12 Replies

Running of the bulls photobomb.Continue

losing faith (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller Jul 5. 0 Replies

TheraminTrees has recently begun producing a new series of YouTube videos, which added to a wonderful library of earlier observations regarding his experience of religion. Good as all those pieces are, I personally think they pale against this…Continue

Tags: story, history, faith, TheraminTrees

Betty Explains Religious Freedom (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Jul 3. 10 Replies

Well, considering all the RFRA bills popping up all over the United States, plus all the fun and games ISIS is bringing to the good folks in Syria and Iraq, Betty Bowers, the epitome of well-dressed christianity, has decided to clarify the true…Continue

Tags: persecution, ISIS, Religious Freedom, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner May 6. 82 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

Tags: surreal

Let's not define ourselves or others by our worst behaviors

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Dominique Lutz Apr 16. 6 Replies

My take on the recent melt down at Hang With Friends, of which I missed part, is that some of us were tripped up by a habit of thought. It's something we learn growing up, and use without realizing how much pain it can generate -  failing to…Continue

Tags: dispute at Hang With Friends

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Comment by The Flying Atheist on March 27, 2014 at 3:27pm

Great news concerning your daughter, Melinda.  It's so important to do what you love. 

Comment by The Flying Atheist on March 27, 2014 at 3:22pm

Ian, welcome back home.  Sorry to hear about your family health issues.  The situation you describe must be very difficult for you.  I do have to say, at least you are balancing the tough times by treating yourself to the beauty of the Fine Arts.  Good for you!!

Mindy, that quartet of young ladies is outstanding.  They appear to be college age, I suspect.  They really nailed everything.  Not a bad note in the the whole performance and awesome energy. 

Folks, I admit I am a Starbucks connoisseur.  I buy their beans (Kenya blend) to make here at home.  When traveling, I'll pass by Dunkin' Donuts and McDonald's (horrible coffee) to wait in line at Starbucks.  I drink my coffee black, and I like the rich, bold flavor.  I can't stand week coffee. 

Comment by Idaho Spud on March 27, 2014 at 3:21pm

Good to hear your daughter is happier doing what she likes where she likes, and being closer to you.

Comment by Idaho Spud on March 27, 2014 at 11:31am

Thanks Mindy, WOW!  the Girls Quartet is fantastic!  Watched them 4 times this morning and they bring tears to my eyes every time.

I love a cappella barbershop harmonizing, and these gals are right up there with the best I've heard.  The 60s songs are an added bonus.

I started watching them last evening, but was tired and quit a third of the way through.  My hearing is not the best.  I don't hear all the high notes anymore, and the ones I do hear quickly become grating on my nerves if they don't have enough low notes to go with them.  That was my main problem last night.  That echoing room emphasizes the high notes, and being tired, I couldn't take it. 

Last night, I even thought I heard some bad notes, but not this morning.  They sound perfect now. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on March 27, 2014 at 12:33am

“If Satan should ever replace God he would find it necessary to assume the attributes of Divinity.” 
― Robert A. HeinleinDouble Star

Comment by Joan Denoo on March 27, 2014 at 12:32am

“A slave cannot be freed, save he do it himself. Nor can you enslave a free man; the very most you can do is kill him!” 
― Robert A. HeinleinDouble Star

A restatement of Heinlein's thought: 

A woman cannot be freed, save she do it herself. Nar can you enslave a free woman; the very most you can do is kill her! 

Comment by Joan Denoo on March 27, 2014 at 12:30am

“Take sides! Always take sides! You will sometimes be wrong — but the man who refuses to take sides must always be wrong.”

~  Robert A. Heinlein

Robert A. Heinlein, Double Star

Comment by Joan Denoo on March 26, 2014 at 7:52pm

Ian, I just read your post of yesterday and am so sorry to learn of your two Mums failing health. You face a tough stage of life, made harder for being your Mums and both of them not doing well. I hope you have a good process for stress management and relaxation. If not, I can give you some referrals. 

So very happy to learn of the galleries and plays you saw. My curiosity got the better of me and I had to do some investigating. You keep very good company when you are away from us. 

Veronese: Magnificence in Renaissance Venice

Hans Holbein the Younger, 1533, The Ambassadors, The National Gallery, London 

Jan Van Eyck and the Arnolfini Wedding Portrait, 1434. The National Gallery, London 

The Painter's Father 1497, Attributed to Albrecht Dürer The National Gallery, London 

Comment by Grinning Cat on March 26, 2014 at 5:10pm

Mindy, those young women have amazing, tight harmonies and simply good music... thanks for the smile!

And those advertising fails... <grin!>

A coffee lover I know calls that one brand "Charbucks".

Patricia, there's even a hymn to coffee, by UU minister Christopher Raible, to the tune of "Holy, Holy, Holy":

Coffee, Coffee, Coffee,
Praise the strength of coffee.
Early in the morn we rise with thoughts of only thee.
Served fresh or reheated,
Dark by thee defeated,
Brewed black by perk or drip or instantly.

(two more verses)

Comment by Joan Denoo on March 26, 2014 at 5:00pm

Mindy, I shared Wonderful Quartet!  on Twitter! Great group. 

Ian, I missed your email about your visit to England and will go looking for it now. I like your "Bookworms Unite"; I am with you. 

Loren, your "20 of the Top Misplaced Hilarious Advertisements" is funny beyond belief. Who believes in Intelligent Design? 

 

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