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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Betty Explains Religious Freedom (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Randall Smith May 27. 9 Replies

Well, considering all the RFRA bills popping up all over the United States, plus all the fun and games ISIS is bringing to the good folks in Syria and Iraq, Betty Bowers, the epitome of well-dressed christianity, has decided to clarify the true…Continue

Tags: persecution, ISIS, Religious Freedom, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner May 6. 82 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

Tags: surreal

Let's not define ourselves or others by our worst behaviors

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Dominique Lutz Apr 16. 6 Replies

My take on the recent melt down at Hang With Friends, of which I missed part, is that some of us were tripped up by a habit of thought. It's something we learn growing up, and use without realizing how much pain it can generate -  failing to…Continue

Tags: dispute at Hang With Friends

The FLDS Cult Is Unraveling

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Idaho Spud Mar 29. 3 Replies

The FLDS Cult Is Unraveling"the internet is a lifeline for people trapped in the most restrictive and stifling forms of…Continue

Tags: Warren Jeff, internet, FLDS

Ode to Yahweh (Non Stamp Collector & 43alley)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Mar 24. 1 Reply

Ages ago (five or six years, I guess it is) when I first started recognizing my own atheism, one of the first atheist YouTubers I ran onto was Non Stamp Collector.  His handiwork wasn't up to Disney's standards, nor even Hanna-Barbera, but his wit…Continue

Tags: Yahweh, YouTube, 43alley, Non Stamp Collector

Oregon Field Guide - Lamprey Decline

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Mar 15. 3 Replies

Oregon Field Guide - Lamprey Decline"Populations of Eel-like lamprey have suddenly plummeted since the year 2000 in the Columbia Basin, surprising…Continue

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Comment by Joan Denoo on March 16, 2014 at 3:48pm

Felaine, when my mother and father died, I told the crematorium that they didn't want to be embalmed. There was some kind of a problem with Mom's body, something about they didn't have time or something and requested to embalm her. I told them absolutely not! and so they stuck her in a cooler until they could get to her. 

I have instructed my kids to put my ashes in the compost pile in my beloved garden.
A friend wants her ashes spread in the rose garden at Manito Park (which is illegal, so we devised a plan to take little packets and quietly spread her remains. She looks like she is going to outlive all of us. 

Another friend's ashes went into the Spokane River, with destination unknown. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on March 16, 2014 at 3:09pm

Eathquake activity off shore from Ferndale, Ca this past week. 

Comment by sk8eycat on March 16, 2014 at 2:31pm

Joan, I'd seen that "Religions of the World" thing before, and thought about it a lot.

I like your "recycling" idea better, but with the way the laws are now, we can't even "replenish the Earth" with our bodies when we're finished with them.  As far as I know, only the Muslims bury their dead without embalming them or putting them in coffins.

WE are required by law to embalm empty bodies, and most people waste thousands of dollars on metal caskets, and sometimes they even enclose those in concrete....  Or slide them into marble mausoleums.

I've already paid my full membership in the Neptune society, so my ashes will be scattered off the California coast, but I have no idea if ashes will feed anything in the ocean. I sort of like the idea of being fish food (or B&J's "Phish Food"...or however they spell it)

I told my sister that she could flush what's left of me down the loo, or us it for cat litter, if she felt like it.  I don't care....

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on March 16, 2014 at 12:50pm

Speaking of shit.

Comment by Joan Denoo on March 16, 2014 at 12:21pm

Felaine, like your reasoning process. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on March 16, 2014 at 12:21pm

Napoleon, Naturalism:  turn shit into fertilizer! 

Comment by sk8eycat on March 16, 2014 at 11:52am

I'd be a Rastafarian, except that "shit" clogs my sinuses.

I'd be a PASTAfarian, except I'm diabetic, and pasta is pure carbohydrate.

Guess I'd best be an atheist, and tell them all to bugger off.

Comment by Joan Denoo on March 16, 2014 at 12:05am

Mindy, like your "coned cat" picture. He appears to be well content. 

Felaine, your Duncan cat story sounds funny. Love your Gervaise piece and am reposting. Thanks. 

Comment by sk8eycat on March 15, 2014 at 11:58pm

Comment by sk8eycat on March 15, 2014 at 11:50pm

Mickey's lampshade made me laugh.

Duncan, a friend's cat that I sometimes stay with, had a couple of benign tumors removed from his back a few months ago, and they put one of those semi-flexible collars on him afterwards.  Of course he hated it, and one afternoon he waltzed into the den, very proud of himself.  He'd managed to push the thing halfway down his body, and turn it inside out.  Sue said he looked like he was wearing a ballet skirt.  Of course she had no camera handy.....

 

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