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Optical Illusions

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on Monday. 66 Replies

This one seems a bit creepy, like the middle one shouldn't be able to change rotation like that. from Cheezburger.comContinue

White House Petition: Change National Motto Back to "E Pluribus, Unum"

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by k.h. ky Jan 22. 8 Replies

There is a petition being sponsored by whitehouse.gov to remove "in god we trust" as the national motto and replace it with the original: "E Pluribus, Unum" or "Out of Many, One."  As of this writing, there are around 11,000 signatures on it, with…Continue

Tags: E Pluribus, Unum, in god we trust, petition

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISIS

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Loren Miller Dec 24, 2015. 3 Replies

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISISGrowth in population, policies and practices that create a gap between the typical person and the wealthy,…Continue

coming out (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Atheist in FundyLand Dec 23, 2015. 6 Replies

Whether as atheist, agnostic, gay / Lesbian or whatever, the process of coming out has been a repeated topic of discussion here on Atheist Nexus and for good reason: it is at once a necessary yet potentially supremely painful process, depending on…Continue

Tags: Lesbian, agnostic, gay, atheist, TheraminTrees

If God Exists (DarkMatter2525)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Dec 23, 2015. 4 Replies

"Practice makes perfect."  That's the concept, isn't it?  Work diligently at something, especially something you enjoy and are adept at, and your skills sharpen, your judgment improves, and the product of your efforts demonstrate that improvement. …Continue

Tags: religion, YouTube, god, DarkMatter2525

Mental health in the age of violence: Dr. Elliott Ingersol

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Randall Smith Dec 1, 2015. 1 Reply

I literally just discovered Dr. Elliott Ingersol yesterday, as a part of a discussion I had with other members of the Northern Ohio Freethought Society.  Dr. Ingersol is a licensed psychologist and clinical counselor in Ohio, as well as a professor…Continue

Tags: talk, psychotropic, therapy, psychology, Elliott Ingersol

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Comment by Loren Miller on November 5, 2015 at 10:58am

77° F here in Cleveland, which is CRAZY for this time of year.  I think come next week the other shoe will drop and the temps will fall into something more normal.

Comment by Randall Smith on November 5, 2015 at 6:50am

To me, these are bonus days as far as weather is concerned. I'll be golfing for the fourth straight day today. Unheard of in November. And next week is supposed to be nice, too. Reality will settle in eventually. Not looking forward to that.

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on November 4, 2015 at 7:03pm

We had fantastic weather here in Philly. Hope you all enjoyed your day too.

Do you have weather envy?

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p.s. It's due to Arctic Oscillation, not El Nino.

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on November 2, 2015 at 10:26pm

Thanks for asking, Joan. There's only symptom control for pinched nerve syndrome. I tried a neck stretching device (about $350) a few years ago. It did make my back feel better. After two weeks my hips got very very painful. It hurt so much I couldn't sit or stand still, just paced about with my walker. Lasted about 3 weeks, then subsided. Apparently the stretching, anchored at the hip girdle, inflamed cartilage there or something. I threw it out. Now I regret it, since my symptoms are worse. Bought another device, from Australia, that worked differently. Couldn't adjust it properly. It always rotated too far and too fast. Put it in the attic. Now I'm thinking of trying again. I have a cervical stretching deice that only works on the neck, that seems OK. But it felt as if it was making my current problem, nerves down my shoulder and right arm to my hand, a little worse. <sigh> I use a lidoderm patch to help me sleep, sometimes two.

It sucks getting old.

Don't have time to look at the 30 minute video tonight. Tomorrow.

250 trick or treaters, kind of overwhelming. I got nine.

Keep us up to date on your progress, please, Flying Atheist. And thanks for the virtual hug. Here's one for you too. Hubby will get a second cataract surgery in 2 1/2 weeks, he had a capsulotomy today.

Good night, All!

Comment by Randall Smith on November 2, 2015 at 7:54am

Joan, it's hilarious to see your repeated comments popping up here and there! I'm sure it's not your doing. Wish I had time (or took the time) to watch the video you referred to.

Yes, Carl, good weather approaching here in Indiana, too. 250 trick or treaters? Whoa!!

Comment by The Flying Atheist on November 1, 2015 at 10:27pm

Thanks to all of you here, once again, for your supportive and caring comments. I'm actually developing a bit of nervous excitement now that an actual surgery date has been set. 

One of my nephew's was in town from California on business and my family spent Halloween evening with him at my sister's house for dinner. She had over 250 trick-or-treaters!  It rained all day here until about 5 PM. The kids came out in force. The rest of the evening was rather pleasant and got warmer by the hour. We are expecting temperatures in the 70's this week.   

Comment by The Flying Atheist on November 1, 2015 at 10:14pm

Kathy, that's great news about the improvement in your eye sight. You sound very excited. How wonderful it is to be able to fix such problems.

Ruth, I wish hugs could cure all ills. I would come over and give you a big hug.

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 1, 2015 at 7:54pm

Have you seen the video just released by Nasa? NASA releases stunning 4K video of the sun as you’ve never seen it ...

It is a meditative piece lasting about 30 munites. Looking casually at it seems to have no motion except for the solar flares, but a careful look reveals little bits of action, then ribbons, and other intereting events happening. 

It is a splendid way to just look and not think or do anything. 

Comment by Bertold Brautigan on November 1, 2015 at 6:04pm

Ian, I'm jealous - he is an extraordinary actor. One of the best Sherlocks ever (next to Nicole Williamson in The Seven Percent Solution) despite Netflix having transplanted him into the 21st century and plagued him with irritating video effects.

Comment by Ian Mason on November 1, 2015 at 5:59pm

Wonderful! Marvelous! Just seen Benedict Cumberbatch as Hamlet via a live stream from London. The best Hamlet of my Shakespeare-loving life. It ended with an appeal for donations to refugee children, Cumberbatch quoting a poem:

"You don't flee your home unless home is the mouth of a shark.

You don't put a child in a boat unless the sea is safer than the land"

 

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