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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

Nobody here is into mind games. A discussion started with a loaded guilt-throwing question will be deleted.

This group is not intended to compete with other groups on topics they cover but to "fill in the cracks." Whenever a discussion dwells at length on a topic for which there's an existing group, we urge you to provide members a link to that group to continue along their tangent.

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Men who challenge men to stop violence

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Idaho Spud Jan 9. 19 Replies

Many men join in the effort to reduce violence against women and children and other men. He speaks of the need to place responsibility on men instead of focusing on women to stop violence. He offers a breath of fresh air, as do so many of the men on…Continue

Ian, a beautiful New Years blessing.

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Chris Jan 5. 7 Replies

Ian, for some reason, my comment would not "send" on Hang with Friends; perhaps it will here!Ian, a beautiful New Years blessing. It goes in my file. I especially like the thought of surprising myself. Laura made a special trip to my Spokane home to…Continue

degrading love — part two (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller Jan 1. 0 Replies

TheraminTrees set up religion with his left in Part One of his treatise on how religion demeans and degrades the value of love.  Here in Part Two, he brings in a devastating, "Mike Tyson" right, which negates and invalidates any claim that either…Continue

Tags: Christianity, Islam, TheraminTrees, god, love

The Ark Encounter: A Less than Grand Opening (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Idaho Spud Dec 31, 2016. 27 Replies

The day finally arrived.  Ken Ham's Ark Encounter opened on 7 July, 2016 ... to something a bit less than Disney-sized crowds, and more than a couple dissenting voices!  Seth Andrews has gathered a quartet of significant participants in the protest…Continue

Tags: Tracey Moody, Dan Broadbent, Seth Andrews, David Silverman, AronRa

Learning a Language as a Mature Adult

Started by Daniel W. Last reply by Idaho Spud Dec 14, 2016. 27 Replies

Trying to keep my mind exercised, and not interested in most of the reading materials that I can find.I decided to attempt to learn a language.  Actually, two.  The dilemma is, how do I do that without going to school - not an option - and without…Continue

What Annoys God Most? (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat Dec 7, 2016. 10 Replies

Long story short, it's those near misses, the almost-but-not-quite, close but no cheroot moments, or, would you believe ... Near Death Experiences!  So what's the big deal?  Betty Bowers, America's BEST Christian and self-proclaimed expert on such…Continue

Tags: Near Death Experiences, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

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Comment by Bertold Brautigan on November 13, 2014 at 4:04pm

@Joan - but be sure to credit Thomas Hood, the creator!

Comment by sk8eycat on November 13, 2014 at 3:31pm

Joan, we haven't really improved much since LBJ signed the Civil Rights Act in the '60s.  And most of the TP agitation is still about skin color....they have only added women's rights to their "enemies list."

Comment by Bertold Brautigan on November 13, 2014 at 3:20pm

@ Joan - sure, glad you liked it.

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 13, 2014 at 3:16pm

Felaine, what a remarkable story. I hated driving the souther tier of the US because of all the signs, "Whites Only", "Blacks enter in back". Defacto slavery still existed and the whole nation suffers from it.  

Comment by Idaho Spud on November 13, 2014 at 3:13pm

Patricia, I suppose I should smear that sunscreen on as well, but at my age, I don't worry much anymore.  I keep buying the stuff, but never put it on.  Who says I'm always rational?

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 13, 2014 at 3:08pm

Bertold, your November poem is a keeper! I'm passing it on. May I attribute it to you on Facebook and Twitter? 

Comment by sk8eycat on November 13, 2014 at 3:01pm

Dear Spud, you DO remember segregation, don't you? 

When I was touring with HOI, we played a LOT of cities in the South, and some of the "jumps" from town to town were at night after a performance via Greyhound, or some other bus company.

In 1957 one of the other girls had picked up a dark tan in Mexico and Cuba (That was the last year the show played Havana), and she was still quite tan 3 months later when we were playing Tennessee, Alabama, and Georgia.  I've forgotten which town we were leaving (those towns were ghastly and very forgettable), but one of the bus drivers refused to let her get back on on the bus after a "rest stop."  At all.  He was screaming the "n-word" at her.  We had to sit around for hours, in the middle of the night, while phone calls were made to Atlanta, New York, and Minneapolis.  I don't know who said what to whom, but we finally got another driver for that bus; I don't know if the driver was fired by the company or what. (He should have been!)

It's totally irrelevant, but Judy was a blonde, of Scandinavian ancestry, but to that ignorant redneck driver she was unfit to ride in his company's bus because she had a tendency to tan.

In the '50s tanning was a BIG deal for young (and not so young) women.  There was no such thing as sunscreen; we just used baby oil, and baked ourselves at the beach, or by a pool.  And I do have "age spots," and scaly spots all over myself.  I have also had several very dark moles removed in the past...none were malignant.

*YAWN*

Comment by Idaho Spud on November 13, 2014 at 3:00pm

Felaine, that sounds like a scary situation.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on November 13, 2014 at 10:18am

Chris, I know exactly what you go through with migraines.  I went many years suffering from debilitating headaches.  Loud sounds and bright light would be utterly painful.  Throbbing pain and vomiting.  Luckily I was able to find a medication that ended them completely.  I haven't had a headache in years.  

Spud, glad you got treatment for your facial growths.  I'm sure it will be nice to have the itchiness and bumps gone.  I've been lucky myself that I haven't had any skin cancer.  I'm the typical blond, blue-eyed, fair-skinned Scandinavian type who spent summers growing up without using sunscreen. 

Comment by Bertold Brautigan on November 13, 2014 at 10:17am

A little something by Thomas Hood:

No sun - no moon!
No morn - no noon -
No dawn - no dusk - no proper time of day.
No warmth, no cheerfulness, no healthful ease,
No comfortable feel in any member -
No shade, no shine, no butterflies, no bees,
No fruits, no flowers, no leaves, no birds! -
November!

 

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