Hang With Friends

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Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Guns: Both Sides Now (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat yesterday. 2 Replies

Oh, NO!  The gun debate has gotten so heated that it has Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, TALKING TO HERSELF!  Apparently, one of her has had a stroke or a serious breakdown in cognitive skills, as she does little more than parrot the NRA's…Continue

Tags: NRA, guns, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

the value of offence | qualiasoup & theramintrees

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Patricia Mar 3. 3 Replies

To me, this is a big deal (though it may not be to them): two great YouTube video producers have joined forces to deliver one very powerful message on an important subject.  TheraminTrees and QualiaSoup (brothers, I believe) have recently released a…Continue

Tags: offence, offense, QualiaSoup, TheraminTrees

The myth of religions

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Joan Denoo Feb 16. 3 Replies

The creation myth of civilizations instructs men to dominate, to conquer, to go forth and multiply. No reasonable person would pay attention to such a god. No hunter-gatherer receives such a senseless message from wise elders.However, that idea…Continue

Tags: masculine, violation, imperative, go forth and multiply,, conquest

Winter Driving, Preparing for the worst

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Joan Denoo Feb 1. 2 Replies

Now that we enter the time the Celtics called Imbolc, a pagan celebration of the beginning of spring and season of new life, I ran across this video on preparing for winter driving. It offers reasons for each thing he puts in his vehicles to be safe…Continue

Tags: prepare, driving, winter

A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Chris Dec 26, 2017. 10 Replies

I received a gift this morning from a virtual friend, Pamela Smith:A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :" One day an old wise teacher was walking through a village. A very angry and rude young man came up and began insulting him. "You have…Continue

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Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on December 21, 2015 at 3:10pm

LOL, Loren. That "first lawyer" is great!

The extra warm weather is fairly widespread. Northern Spain is battling 130 wildfires, unusual for this time of year.

I would have wished all of you a Happy Winter Solstice, as in

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But we have lush green grass, overcast and 60's here, so...

Comment by Loren Miller on December 21, 2015 at 8:02am

Hell, I'm not a lawyer and I've known this for AGES!

Comment by Randall Smith on December 19, 2015 at 7:33am

When I went to the library the other day, I saw a blooming rose bush. I did a double take. What's the song? E're, a Rosebush Blooming...

Comment by Plinius on December 19, 2015 at 1:59am

Sorry Joan, I wasn't clear enough. Aunt and other people in het ward all suffer from alzheimers and other geriatric diseases - fellow sufferers. The care home is very good!

Comment by Joan Denoo on December 19, 2015 at 1:17am

Carl, oh dear! such mild weather in your area at this time of year foretells some interesting days ahead. 

How are you and your sister doing? Regaining some stamina? It must feel very good to be off dialysis, even though it was a life-saver for you. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on December 19, 2015 at 1:14am

Chris, It seems your students continue to appreciate and enjoy your classes. Not such good experience as you describe your "Aunt's fellow sufferers". Doesn't sound like a very nice place. Sorry to learn of the poor cat's last days; not a very good experience for any of you, I am sure. Bulbs in bloom in December, even in The Netherlands, sounds a bit out of the ordinary. I am eager to learn what the new year brings to your local weather. 

Comment by The Flying Atheist on December 19, 2015 at 12:40am
Sad story about the cat, Chris. I hope your b-i-l is doing OK.
Incredibly "wrong" weather here too. It's finally gotten seasonally cold here after a LONG stretch of spring-like weather. The grass is still bright green and trees, bushes and flowers are blooming! And next week is the winter solstice. It's eerie.
Comment by Plinius on December 19, 2015 at 12:19am

What I did this week?

The last lessons of the year. Explained and sang "Imagine" five times, Played games and got a lot of appreciation. 

A xmas dinner with Aunt in the care home. Met some more of Aunt's fellow sufferers and their family - nice to talk to them. The menu was full of dead animals - I ate only the veggie parts. Aunt was happy with her presents but overwhelmed by the big occasion.  

I went to help handicapped b-i-l take his cat to the vet. As usual I looked at the greenery during the busride, and saw a d... a DAFFODIL?! Not even one, there were about a hundred daffodils in full bloom along the next few kilometres. And when I paid more attention, I saw flowering daisies and yarrow and even cow parsley - half a year early or late, I wondered. Catkins in every other tree. An allergy warning about lambs tails on tv. The weather goes straight from autumn to spring.

The cat wasn't well at all - we knew that already but b-i-l didn't want to know it or do something about it - like every autist he doesn't want change in his world. So he had a hard time when the cat was diagnosed with severe diabetes and put to sleep withing a few hours. Poor Tisja! Her character didn't allow two insulin shots a day and a daily bloodsample to check blood sugar levels.  

Saturday morning now, and at last I have some time to do the shopping, washing and cleaning. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on December 18, 2015 at 12:20am

Comment by kathy: ky on December 17, 2015 at 8:30pm
Chris, that's funny.

Randy, l think it's the holidays. Celebrate or not the stores are crammed full of people who do. And my daughter, her spouse and their children have winter solstice dinner here. It's like xmas dinner minus the tree and ornaments. ; )

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