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What Annoys God Most? (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Chris on Thursday. 9 Replies

Long story short, it's those near misses, the almost-but-not-quite, close but no cheroot moments, or, would you believe ... Near Death Experiences!  So what's the big deal?  Betty Bowers, America's BEST Christian and self-proclaimed expert on such…Continue

Tags: Near Death Experiences, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

degrading love — part one (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat Nov 22. 11 Replies

Love is by many considered among the highest of positive emotions.  Yet when love of the type offered by deities is examined, something seems to go seriously wrong.  The love of Yahweh seems less a gift than a demand, not so much beneficence as a…Continue

Tags: TheraminTrees, god, love

Ning, Error 500s, and Whether to Migrate

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Nov 13. 47 Replies

I just got the following notice from Ning yesterday, (31 October, 2016), in the wake of this latest website outage:As some of you may be aware, we experienced a system outage earlier this morning. The cause was due to a specific network…Continue

Tags: downtime, Atheist Nexus, Ning

Introducing Douglas Murray

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 7. 4 Replies

Most of us who have been around atheism for a while know the heavyweights of our ilk.  Names like Hitchens, Dawkins, Dennett, Harris, Dillahunty and AronRa get nearly daily mention in posts and discussions on Atheist Nexus.  One name I was…Continue

Tags: Agatan Foundation, Douglas Murray

If There's a God - She's a Woman - The Author T

Started by Joe. Last reply by Chris Nov 3. 4 Replies

I came across this story and thought some here might find it interesting and humorous.It’s titled:If There’s a GodShe’s a WomanFrom the Series:Things You Can Learn from a VaginaIts on the website TheAuthorT.com under the tab, “Free to Read…Continue

His Dark Materials and the Catholic Church

Started by Tonya R. Wheeler. Last reply by k.h. ky Oct 30. 35 Replies

I recently watched the movie, "The Golden Compass" and since I could not find the sequels, I read the books. I enjoyed them, and I will be reading the first one, Northern Lights, starting tomorrow, since it just arrived via inter-library…Continue

Tags: Fantasy, Catholic, Religion, Atheist, Pullman

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Comment by Joan Denoo on October 26, 2014 at 11:03am

Randy, I haven't read the "crank mail". I think it is something I might want to read ... once!

Spud, your photo is priceless! Just what I need to put on my refrigerator for 10 PM viewing. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on October 26, 2014 at 10:59am

Felaine, excellent articles. Thanks for the lead.

"And thus we find, at the root of our political dysfunction, a classic nurture-nature mélange. The penchant for selective exposure is rooted in our psychology and our brains. Closed-mindedness and authoritarianism—running stronger in some of us than in others—likely are as well.

"But nevertheless, it took the emergence of a station like Fox News before these tendencies could be fully activated—polarizing America not only over politics, but over reality itself."

~ Chris Mooney, The Republican Brain: The Science of Why They Deny Science and Real...

Comment by Idaho Spud on October 26, 2014 at 9:32am

Comment by Idaho Spud on October 26, 2014 at 9:32am

Babble indeed!

Comment by Plinius on October 26, 2014 at 7:58am

I don't understand this, Randall. Does the idiot think Switzerland is in Asia? And who is allowed to have what done?

Comment by Randall Smith on October 26, 2014 at 7:40am

Has anybody ever read the "crank mail" in FFRF's monthly newspaper? It's the most vile, profane, and ignorant garbage from so-called xtians you've ever read. Enjoy this final sentence from one idiot: "So here is my advice too you go over to Switzerland where youth in Asia is allowed to have it done on youselves."      Get it?!!

Comment by sk8eycat on October 25, 2014 at 4:14pm

I want to read THIS book!

http://www.dailykos.com/story/2014/10/23/1338538/--The-Science-Of-F...

The Core Thesis: Authoritarian people have a stronger emotional need for an outlet like Fox, where they can find affirmation and escape factual challenges to their beliefs.

Insights from Chris Mooney’s book The Republican Brain: The Science of Why They Deny Science and Real...

Now I know this is going to raise all kinds of hackles but I find the book fascinating and the article referred to here does a reasonable strong job representing a research heavy 336 page tome. The Amazon Link provided provides  more insights in the reviews there. Here is one of them: "Drawing on a growing body of empirical research, he provides an intelligent, nuanced and persuasive account of how conservatives and liberals tend to differ at the level of psychology and personality" (Financial Times, April 2012)

Comment by Idaho Spud on October 25, 2014 at 1:12pm

Thanks for that wonderful quote Mindy!  One of the best I've ever heard!

Saving it of course!

Comment by Loren Miller on October 25, 2014 at 10:43am

The Muscato quote should be nailed to the foreheads of every proselytizing idiot who thinks they have a right to shove us into their preconceived mold of normalcy.

Very good stuff, Mindy - thanks for posting it.

Comment by Bertold Brautigan on October 25, 2014 at 10:35am

That absolutely hits the nail on the head. But of course that means WE'RE persecuting THEM because we'll no longer shut up and take their BS.

 

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