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Men who challenge men to stop violence

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Idaho Spud Jan 9. 19 Replies

Many men join in the effort to reduce violence against women and children and other men. He speaks of the need to place responsibility on men instead of focusing on women to stop violence. He offers a breath of fresh air, as do so many of the men on…Continue

Ian, a beautiful New Years blessing.

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Chris Jan 5. 7 Replies

Ian, for some reason, my comment would not "send" on Hang with Friends; perhaps it will here!Ian, a beautiful New Years blessing. It goes in my file. I especially like the thought of surprising myself. Laura made a special trip to my Spokane home to…Continue

degrading love — part two (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller Jan 1. 0 Replies

TheraminTrees set up religion with his left in Part One of his treatise on how religion demeans and degrades the value of love.  Here in Part Two, he brings in a devastating, "Mike Tyson" right, which negates and invalidates any claim that either…Continue

Tags: Christianity, Islam, TheraminTrees, god, love

The Ark Encounter: A Less than Grand Opening (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Idaho Spud Dec 31, 2016. 27 Replies

The day finally arrived.  Ken Ham's Ark Encounter opened on 7 July, 2016 ... to something a bit less than Disney-sized crowds, and more than a couple dissenting voices!  Seth Andrews has gathered a quartet of significant participants in the protest…Continue

Tags: Tracey Moody, Dan Broadbent, Seth Andrews, David Silverman, AronRa

Learning a Language as a Mature Adult

Started by Daniel W. Last reply by Idaho Spud Dec 14, 2016. 27 Replies

Trying to keep my mind exercised, and not interested in most of the reading materials that I can find.I decided to attempt to learn a language.  Actually, two.  The dilemma is, how do I do that without going to school - not an option - and without…Continue

What Annoys God Most? (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat Dec 7, 2016. 10 Replies

Long story short, it's those near misses, the almost-but-not-quite, close but no cheroot moments, or, would you believe ... Near Death Experiences!  So what's the big deal?  Betty Bowers, America's BEST Christian and self-proclaimed expert on such…Continue

Tags: Near Death Experiences, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

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Comment by Idaho Spud on November 13, 2014 at 10:14am

That's funny Felaine.  I never thought of the fact that tanning your bod in the south could get you sent to the back of the bus or worse.

Comment by Idaho Spud on November 13, 2014 at 10:08am

When I worked for a company that had liquid nitrogen available, I used a Q-tip to apply it to the spots on my face, and after I bought a medical liquid nitrogen spray bottle on ebay, I used that.  One day I noticed that everywhere I had used LN2 was white and never tanned.  I guess I was a little heavy handed and killed the melanin producing cells in those spots.

Comment by sk8eycat on November 13, 2014 at 10:03am

Spud, to tan or not to tan (for women) has gone in cycles...especially in the 20th century.  Pale skin was considered aristocratic most of the 19th and early 20th Cen....indicative of someone who doesn't have to work in the fields.  Then a smooth tan became fashionable for women who had the leisure to just lie around in the sun....especially after WW2....bikinis.  THEN the MDs started keeping track of who kept getting skin lesions and stuff....

Of course, in the Southern states, a dark tan has never been fashionable, and could get you sent to the back of the bus....or killed.

Comment by Idaho Spud on November 13, 2014 at 9:59am

Strange that.  I guess some people produce melanin easier than others.  I get a little tan when I'm outside a lot in the summer, despite wearing a large brimmed hat and long sleeves.  I don't wear sunscreen because I don't like slathering stuff on my bod. LOL.  Same reason I've never shaved with anything other than an electric razor.

I don't know if I could get very tan because I've never tried.  Probably not.

Comment by Idaho Spud on November 13, 2014 at 9:20am

I'd like to slap the idiots that started the idea that tanned bodies look more healthy and attractive.

That idea never caught me.  I still think a woman with no tan looks a million times more attractive.

Comment by Idaho Spud on November 13, 2014 at 7:52am

Sorry about your headaches Randy.  I wonder why you don't have skin problems.  Do you have light or dark hair?

I'm blond, so the few times I've spent too much time in the sun has taken it's toll.  I've had 7 skin cancers removed from my face and hands, but they were all basal and squamas.  No melanomas.

My new dermatologist did send in a piece from one of my spots to see if it might be cancer.

Too bad young people don't think about what they're doing will affect them in later years.  I would have wore more sun protection and taken better care of my teeth.

Comment by Randall Smith on November 13, 2014 at 7:37am

Nice to hear from both Patricia and Chris. No migraine--just a sinus headache and "no-caffeine" headache (couble whammy) this morning. I'm fasting in prep for a blood test this morning. Nothing like Carl's. Routine for a Dr. visit in a month.

Spud, OUCH! As much as I've been in the sun all these years, with no sunscreen, I'm surprised I never had any problems. My father and a sister do.

Comment by Idaho Spud on November 13, 2014 at 7:13am

Sorry about your migraines Chris.  I've never had them either, and don't think I could stand them.

My medical news is good.  I've had lots of annoying itchy spots and growths on my face for years now that dermatologists haven't taken care of, if they didn't look pre-cancerous.  

But yesterday I saw a new dermatologist, complained about how annoying and itchy they are, so he froze and burnt 35 of them, after his nurse gave me about 50 numbing injections.  He said she was going to treat me like pincushion, and she did.  No biggie though.  Needles have never bothered me.

I considered not going shopping afterwards as I had planned, because with all those bandages, I was afraid I would freak people out.  I did go, and no one seemed freaked, so I only told one person not to worry, that I didn't have anything catching.  Haha.

So far, the spots are looking good, and I'm happy to get those things removed.

Comment by Plinius on November 13, 2014 at 1:31am

No doubt that you're happy that your husband is still around, Patricia, but what did it to you, all the watching and caring you did and not knowing if he would live? Perhaps I shouldn't ask.

Comment by Plinius on November 13, 2014 at 1:17am

Hi, good to see Patricia back! I haven't been away, just work and a double helping of migraine. I should lead a wishywashy life without all the extra tasks to avoid the migraine, but there's no one else to delegate them to - so I just go on. I enjoy Mindy and Joan's family stories very much - so many loving people! Hope you all have a wonderful Thursday!

 

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