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Comment by Joan Denoo on November 7, 2015 at 12:19am

Kathy, I like your suggestions for Carl to be especially careful during this waiting time. Those little sniffles, sneezes and coughs can sidetrack procedures too easily. Yes, we join in as your team of encouraging support. 

I had dogs throughout my childhood and made sure the kids had their pets and learned to care for them. When our last cats and dogs dies of old age, and after my kids flew the nest to build their own, I retired from animal care. What a splendid gift to have such fine animals in my new home during this stage of my life. I receive so very much pleasure from them.

Dominic has a personality that suits me very comfortably with his quiet attention and joining me in my activities. He seems to enjoy each day as much as i. He belongs to my daughter, Laura. 

Spaz offers all bounce and vigor that I no longer have. 

Zeek, or Zeak, or Zeke, I don't know how they spell his name, is a reckless, undisciplined, wild animal that has no concern for manners or impositions. He and Spaz belong to Michelle, my granddaughter who lives down the gravel road from my new home. 

Each one is a treasure that I love. Dominic offers me companionship with quiet affections that I treasure. 

Comment by k.h. ky on November 6, 2015 at 11:06pm
Thanks to everyone for the kind words.

Carl, be a germ freak while you wait. Carry an extra bottle of hand sanitizer with you and use it! Wash your hands often. You know the drill!! We all want you healthy and well prepared for surgery and you know we will all be thinking of you.


Joan, you seem to have been adopted by a lovely dog. Is he your first?
Comment by The Flying Atheist on November 6, 2015 at 10:56pm

Ian, I'm all for an English translation of your poems as well.  Either that or a pop-up picture book.

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 6, 2015 at 4:20pm

Kathy, glad your cataract surgery went well and you can see clearly.

Bertold, very sorry to learn of the loss of your #1 dog. Happily, your description of playfulness on her last day and quiet passing occurred. 

Ian, how wonderful to be published! I hope we can read English translations, even if anything is lost in the process of translation.

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 6, 2015 at 4:08pm

Laura told me it was about time I stopped complaining about not having a bird book and order one. She says, "Get 'er done", Larry says "Get 'er did". They believe in taking action, not whining.  

Dang! I love it when I hear my kids say back to me what I taught them when they were little!

Comment by Bertold Brautigan on November 6, 2015 at 3:48pm

I'm with you on that, Kathy.Woody Allen had it right when he said I don't mind dying, I just don't want to be there. Thanks for your condolences, everyone. And Ian, congrats on publishing your poetry. are we going to be treated to English translations??

Comment by k.h. ky on November 6, 2015 at 1:42pm
Congrats Ian.

Bertold, I'm so sorry for your loss. I've lost many and have never been fortunate enough to have one pass quietly at home.
It's always like losing a family member. The loss of my last Boston, at twelves years old, happened two weeks before the loss of my mom. And hit me much harder. I knew my mom was going for several years. My dog went into seizures out of the blue, had a stroke, went blind and had to be put to sleep all within three hours.
Going in our sleep is the best any of us can hope for.
Comment by The Flying Atheist on November 6, 2015 at 1:04pm
Ian, that's wonderful news! Congratulations.
Comment by Ian Mason on November 6, 2015 at 12:40pm

Glad to hear that you'll be seeing soon, Kathy.

Condolences with your loss, Bertold. Yes indeed, as good as it gets.

Northern Europe is having a pleasant mild spell at the moment. Rather grey with drizzle but above-average temperatures.

And so: It's happened at last. I'm going to make it into print. A publisher has just accepted 10 of my (in Danish) poems for a 'new talent' yearbook in 2016. I don't know how many will make the final cut but I'm floating on air just now. The letter contained some compliments and constructive criticism. Very nice.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on November 6, 2015 at 11:57am
Bertold, sorry you lost one of your furry family members. Nice to hear she made the most of her final days.
 

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