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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Goodwill to Few Men (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Donald R Barbera Jul 23. 3 Replies

Think Goodwill Industries does well by the poor?  Fact is, they do WAY BETTER for themselves, to the point where America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers, thinks they're ripping off the christian playbook a bit too well!  Have a look for yourself:…Continue

Tags: ripoff, Goodwill Industries, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Your favorite photobombs?

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Plinius Jul 10. 12 Replies

Running of the bulls photobomb.Continue

losing faith (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller Jul 5. 0 Replies

TheraminTrees has recently begun producing a new series of YouTube videos, which added to a wonderful library of earlier observations regarding his experience of religion. Good as all those pieces are, I personally think they pale against this…Continue

Tags: story, history, faith, TheraminTrees

Betty Explains Religious Freedom (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Jul 3. 10 Replies

Well, considering all the RFRA bills popping up all over the United States, plus all the fun and games ISIS is bringing to the good folks in Syria and Iraq, Betty Bowers, the epitome of well-dressed christianity, has decided to clarify the true…Continue

Tags: persecution, ISIS, Religious Freedom, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner May 6. 82 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

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Let's not define ourselves or others by our worst behaviors

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Dominique Lutz Apr 16. 6 Replies

My take on the recent melt down at Hang With Friends, of which I missed part, is that some of us were tripped up by a habit of thought. It's something we learn growing up, and use without realizing how much pain it can generate -  failing to…Continue

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Comment by sk8eycat on March 2, 2014 at 1:00am

Yeah...everything in SoCal is paved over, so the water goes into the storm drains, and from there to the ocean...which doesn't need any more H2O.  It also helps over-fill swimming pools; I haven't checked ours today.  If the rain goes on long enough, it does soak into the ground and causes mudslides...especially where brush fires have burned away all the plant life. 

This is really a desert...not fit for so many people to be packed together, and certainly not fit for so many roads and giant parking lots.  Public transportation sux.  You can't get anywhere from here without changing buses 2 or 3 times. Or spending a small fortune on cabs. I quit driving when I could no longer feel anything with my feet.  Seemed like the sensible thing to do at the time.

We do have a light rail network, but you still have to take a cab, or drive and park at the stations. 

I have a friend in DC who can walk half a block to the Metro, and get to places like the Kennedy Center or the Veterans Hospital, and/or just about anyplace he wants to go. And the rent in his Seniors Only building (quite new, and very nice) is adjusted according to his income. 

I could use a place like that!  There are several good places here in town.  Except if we have to sell this house, I don't want to be anywhere near it afterwards...I don't ever want to see what any new owners would do to the place...like bulldoze the house AND the trees. (We moved here in 1945....except for when I had my own apartments, this has been my home.  It's been my Aspie/autistic sister's ONLY  home since she was 6 months old.)

Oh, what to do?????  I'd love to move to BC. but don't have the money, and I'm sure Canadians are very tired of all of us ex-pats .... Except for "names" like writer Spider Robinson who became a citizen about 10 years ago. (Lives on Bowen Island, and has published some sharp remarks about privatizing the ferry service.).

Comment by The Flying Atheist on March 2, 2014 at 12:58am

Good to hear from you Patricia.  Sorry you're having some issues to deal with.  I hope your condition improves quickly for you.  I understand not being able to take your computer into the "library" with you.  Perhaps you may be interested in purchasing one of these.......

Comment by sk8eycat on March 1, 2014 at 11:27pm

Patricia, my former (retired) doctor told me a LONG time ago that Tylenol, or any acetaminophen (SP?), is practically useless for most women.  Nobody knows why, it just is.
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What a weekend!  I got the rain I wanted, and now I have no phone (land line only...I hate cell phones)  This has happened twice in the past 50 years.  The damn squirrels chew the insulation on the overhead wires, and then when we get a good rainstorm, the exposed lines short out.  Half of SoCal seems to be having the same problem. Friends have emailed me that they can't get through to the repair service lines because they are so busy they're putting calls on hold forever.

I'm p*$$ed at the phone co. for not keeping an eye on the condition of the lines....the last time this happened my mother was still alive, but in very frail health...and NO INTERNET!  I think I can get in touch with the fire dept and EMTs via internet, but I'm not sure. Don't know about the police, either.  So if some thug breaks in the house, do we just sit here?  I don't think either Pumpkin or Fred are attack cats.

And I just paid the extortionate phone/DSL bill.  AAAACK!

Comment by The Flying Atheist on March 1, 2014 at 2:03pm

I was just thinking.....we haven't heard from Patricia lately.  I hope all is well with her. 

Comment by The Flying Atheist on March 1, 2014 at 2:01pm

Comment by Idaho Spud on March 1, 2014 at 12:42pm

Great comic Ian.

Comment by Joan Denoo on March 1, 2014 at 2:37am

I have driven across the US on I-90 that drops south to join I-80 as it goes south of Lake Michigan, bypassing Chicago. I have made that trip several times as we search the northern tier of the U.S. for places my ancestors lived. Driving was so crowded, I had all I could do to keep the car from going into the wrong lane and didn't see much. As we got farther away from the heavy traffic I was able to look at the terrain and notice the effects of the glaciation on the landscape south of the Great Lakes. On one trip I went from Spokane to Boston on I-90. 

I didn't go into downtown Chicago, but according to your film, and other scenes of the city, it is quite remarkable. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on March 1, 2014 at 2:14am

What a nice memory you give me. Yes, I was there that year. Spokane had some very incredible people in those days, Ed Lindaman being just one. They were environmentalists and got us started to thinking "In the Future Tense", one of Ed's books. It was a time of great enthusiasm for living closer to the Earth. Ed started a program at Whitworth University that was called Nutrition 1985: Recipes fo alternative eating. It was designed to eat lower on the food chain and secure food produced closer to local markets. He also started an architecture program designed to have houses smaller, in smaller communities so that people could walk to work or to markets for food. He also envisioned mass transit with the goal of getting more cars off the roads. It caught on for a while and spread to other universities. Then it just petered out. 

You may remember our lovely river and the city park that follows the river through town. Before Expo '74 it was a railroad line through town with railroad tracks, smelly air, and the whole strip was pawn shops, brothels, taverns, and looked like skid row. 

A man by the name of King Cole spearheaded the project, to the great consternation of working class tax payers. He had a vision and a small community of people who shared his vision. Thus, Expo '74. 

Those progressive men and women have mostly moved on to other towns and we have reverted back to the conservative, religious, right wing political group that keeps us bound to the status quo. 

If, by any chance, you went to Manito Park and Botanical Gardens, which was part of the city tour for Expo, I live just one block east of the park. A lovely place designed by John Charles Olmsted, designer of New York's Central Park. Spokane was a wealthy mining and lumbering town and had tremendous wealth. Those days are over with the mines and forests petering out. 

Manito Park

Comment by The Flying Atheist on March 1, 2014 at 1:48am

Hi, Ian.  That's a funny comic.  How are you, friend? 

Comment by Ian Mason on March 1, 2014 at 1:11am

 

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