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The Playboy Interview: Richard Dawkins

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller 3 hours ago. 16 Replies

I suppose it was the news that Playboy magazine was returning nudes to its pages after a year's hiatus that sufficiently perked my curiosity to check them out again.  I hadn't looked at Playboy since perhaps 2008, when I began to recognize that I…Continue

Tags: Richard Dawkins, Playboy

God's Annual Performance Review (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Mar 19. 6 Replies

I don't know about you guys, but there wasn't a performance review I had in 30 years of field service that I didn't LOATHE.  It seems as though Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, is up for turning the tables on the person you would expect would…Continue

Tags: review, performance, god, American's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Learning a Language as a Mature Adult

Started by Daniel W. Last reply by Joan Denoo Mar 2. 28 Replies

Trying to keep my mind exercised, and not interested in most of the reading materials that I can find.I decided to attempt to learn a language.  Actually, two.  The dilemma is, how do I do that without going to school - not an option - and without…Continue

Such Lyrics!

Started by Donatien Alphonse François. Last reply by Grinning Cat Feb 13. 9 Replies

Hello Friends,I was ruminating a bit today on my sixty-some years existence. My mind went back to teenage years when I first figured out religion is not only obnoxiously loud, but also nothing I wanted anything to do with. Truly. I knew by age 15…Continue

degrading love — part two (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Feb 11. 1 Reply

TheraminTrees set up religion with his left in Part One of his treatise on how religion demeans and degrades the value of love.  Here in Part Two, he brings in a devastating, "Mike Tyson" right, which negates and invalidates any claim that either…Continue

Tags: Christianity, Islam, TheraminTrees, god, love

Questions......

Started by Thomas Murray. Last reply by k.h. ky Feb 9. 6 Replies

   It has been 6 month now since I signed up for Atheist Nexus membership. The past year has been sort of a bi-polar wave of emotions for me. I hope I wasn't offensive to the folks on here and I think I have been but I don't know to who. My desire…Continue

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Comment by Grinning Cat on December 29, 2016 at 2:06pm

The Social Security Administration publishes statistics about popular baby names in the U.S. in different years and decades.

They also have "Top 5 names in each of the last 100 years", all on a single page.

Parents would do well, I think, to give their kids names that are not unheard-of, and with a normal spelling, so the kids don't have to go through life (or at least a decade or two) explaining it to everyone -- but also considering carefully before giving their kids an extremely common name like (for babies born this year) Emma or Olivia, or Noah or Liam, with a high chance of namesakes in every class or group.

Comment by Daniel W on December 29, 2016 at 9:53am

Ian, you name and Fred are excellent names.  What could be better than "Peaceful Ruler"? 

My dad's boss was named Daniel.  My parents wanted to give my brother the name, but didn't want the boss to think it was for him.  When I came along, they decided they still wanted to use the name so I got it.

I was thinking about "Im glad I'm not named...." and the first thought was "Edsel".  Then I looked it up and it's a good name, just wound up being an unpopular car.  My friend's sister was named "Sylvania" because her parent's liked the name of the TV set.  I always thought it was a pretty name but the origin of the name was unfortunate.   Then I looked it up and "Sylvania" is nice too.  Almost perfect, and no bible implications.  Maybe "Sylvan" or "Sylvanus" for a boy.

Comment by Idaho Spud on December 29, 2016 at 9:46am

Except mine would have to say 75 year old ....

Comment by Idaho Spud on December 29, 2016 at 9:45am

That curmudgeon T-shirt fits me also.

Comment by Ian Mason on December 29, 2016 at 12:15am

I got my name because my mum wanted one that couldn't be shortened. My father, grandfather and great-grandfather were all 'Fred', diminutive of Frederick (peaceful ruler). At school, most boys seemed to be called Steven/Stephen or Keith. They were the 'in' names of the decade.

Comment by Ian Mason on December 29, 2016 at 12:02am

I like it too. We tease each other a lot in my family, which is a lot of fun.

I hope everyone here has been enjoying the holiday season. I will try to catch up.

Comment by Plinius on December 28, 2016 at 11:55pm

I love the shirt, Ian!

Comment by Daniel W on December 28, 2016 at 5:55pm

Ian, wear it with pride!  Curmudgeons unite!

Comment by Bertold Brautigan on December 28, 2016 at 5:06pm

Ian - I'd be proud of that description. My doctor recently asked me, among a bunch of other questions, whether I'm irritable. I answered truthfully - it depends on who you talk to.

Comment by Ian Mason on December 28, 2016 at 12:34pm

Hello all. I've just returned from a few days in England. A good time was had by all. Here's what my family think of me:

 

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