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What Annoys God Most? (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat 7 hours ago. 10 Replies

Long story short, it's those near misses, the almost-but-not-quite, close but no cheroot moments, or, would you believe ... Near Death Experiences!  So what's the big deal?  Betty Bowers, America's BEST Christian and self-proclaimed expert on such…Continue

Tags: Near Death Experiences, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

degrading love — part one (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat Nov 22. 11 Replies

Love is by many considered among the highest of positive emotions.  Yet when love of the type offered by deities is examined, something seems to go seriously wrong.  The love of Yahweh seems less a gift than a demand, not so much beneficence as a…Continue

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Ning, Error 500s, and Whether to Migrate

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Nov 13. 47 Replies

I just got the following notice from Ning yesterday, (31 October, 2016), in the wake of this latest website outage:As some of you may be aware, we experienced a system outage earlier this morning. The cause was due to a specific network…Continue

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Introducing Douglas Murray

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 7. 4 Replies

Most of us who have been around atheism for a while know the heavyweights of our ilk.  Names like Hitchens, Dawkins, Dennett, Harris, Dillahunty and AronRa get nearly daily mention in posts and discussions on Atheist Nexus.  One name I was…Continue

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If There's a God - She's a Woman - The Author T

Started by Joe. Last reply by Chris Nov 3. 4 Replies

I came across this story and thought some here might find it interesting and humorous.It’s titled:If There’s a GodShe’s a WomanFrom the Series:Things You Can Learn from a VaginaIts on the website TheAuthorT.com under the tab, “Free to Read…Continue

His Dark Materials and the Catholic Church

Started by Tonya R. Wheeler. Last reply by k.h. ky Oct 30. 35 Replies

I recently watched the movie, "The Golden Compass" and since I could not find the sequels, I read the books. I enjoyed them, and I will be reading the first one, Northern Lights, starting tomorrow, since it just arrived via inter-library…Continue

Tags: Fantasy, Catholic, Religion, Atheist, Pullman

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Comment by Plinius on September 26, 2014 at 3:29am

Thinking of you and Dale, Mindy

Comment by sk8eycat on September 25, 2014 at 10:07pm

I will be thinking kind thoughts, and hoping it's treatable. 

Comment by sk8eycat on September 25, 2014 at 8:27pm

IMO you have to do everything you can to help Dale.  13 1/2 is quite young for a cat these days, so you so need to find out what the problem is, IF it can be treated, and go from there.  Find out if he needs a special diet, etc. 

I wish I could afford to give my cats raw meat...I mean, they did NOT evolve in the wild eating kibble.  BUT Pumpkin and Black Beauty both grew up in catteries, and won't even taste raw chicken, they just sniff it and then try to cover it up.  I am NOT going to go out hunting for lizards and rodents for them....

(I used to have a tortie who tried to help with the grocery expenses; she'd go outside, kill a rodent, and leave the body by the kitchen door.  Freaked my sister out, but I just praised her, and told her what a mighty hunter she was.  She seemed to understand.

I don't let my cats go outside at all anymore, too many hungry coyotes roaming around....

Comment by Ian Mason on September 25, 2014 at 2:01pm

My sympathies, Mindy. I hope the tests give some clarity. 

Comment by Grinning Cat on September 25, 2014 at 1:35pm

Hugs to you, Mindy, and scritches to Dale if he'll have them... you're doing what you can so he'll have the best quality of life possible.

Comment by Joan Denoo on September 25, 2014 at 12:54pm

Mindy, of course you want to know what the problems are and the prognosis! It will depend on Dale's age and comfort level in order to make decisions. 
I am so very, very, grateful for the diagnostic work that can be done on animals and humans. 
How is Dale acting at home now? 

Comment by Joan Denoo on September 24, 2014 at 10:58pm

Spud, your cartoon is so sweet. 

And another for Dale. 

Comment by k.h. ky on September 24, 2014 at 12:47pm
Poor Dale. Maybe it's time Mindy. Sam, my eight year old rottweiler mix, hasn't been feeling well the past few days. I think these cold nights are hurting him already. He loves to ride in the car. I think I'm going to take him for a last ride to the vet. I won't have him going down hard. Blind, sick, and in pain like my last two did. Now I've got to get the courage to take him before he does get ill.
Comment by The Flying Atheist on September 24, 2014 at 10:46am

Thanks for the compliment, Randy.  I just hate seeing beloved creatures suffer, whether human or not. 

That's a cute picture of Dora and Dale, Mindy.  I'm just curious, do they sleep together or do they each have their own space? 

Comment by Plinius on September 24, 2014 at 10:21am

I made a game from brushing the cats when they were very young: I showed them the brush, let them play with it and after some time they understood that it was just another way of scratching and stroking them. Now they argue who's first when I get the brush - usually Luna wins and Dido waits patiently.

 

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