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A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 24. 9 Replies

I received a gift this morning from a virtual friend, Pamela Smith:A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :" One day an old wise teacher was walking through a village. A very angry and rude young man came up and began insulting him. "You have…Continue

10 Tricks from 46 (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Nov 6. 3 Replies

Apparently, Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, has been slumming.  That is to say, she's been talking to Mike Pence [gasp!].  It would seem as though Mike has offered some of his not-so-personal tricks of the trade on how to be a 21st century…Continue

Tags: tricks, Mike Pence, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Grinning Cat Oct 19. 99 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

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Speak English? YOU FIRST! (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Donald R Barbera Sep 27. 5 Replies

Honestly, the title to this piece is badly under-representative of the content.  To be far more accurate, what we have here is Mrs. Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, going on a rant.  Before you say it ... Say WHAAAA?  Betty Bowers ranting? …Continue

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10 Things About Patriotism (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Plinius Sep 26. 2 Replies

It seems as though lately, Mrs. Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, is evolving into America's Best Patriot.  She has recently been taking some fairly well-aimed shots at a certain Orange Nightmare and his sycophantic hangers-on, regarding the…Continue

Tags: patriotism, Donald Trump, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

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Comment by Joan Denoo on June 13, 2015 at 8:40am

Ian, yes, I plan to sell my home and move to Laura's home 50 miles north of Spokane. She lives on the north side of Mt. Spokane in the midst of an old forest long ago logged. The 17 acres have grown up and are badly overcrowded with a wide variety of conifers. Laura planted some deciduous trees but they do not thrive in that soil. It appears to me to be a terminal moraine of the receding glaciers of the last Ice Age. Their property is on small rolling hills of sand. The property below them is a meadow, lovely in the spring and especially this summer with the cooler weather we have had. The aquifer that supports their well comes from Pond Oreille Lake and River.

The glacial rolling sands and verdant green meadows are underlaid by ancient granites that, when exposed, weather nicely into rich mineral soils and regoliths. The soils here are also rich in volcanic ash from the Cascade eruptions, including Mt. St. Helens. The prevailing westerlies blew great mounds of ash from the formation of the Cascade Range. 

Larry is building me a greenhouse because our growing season is so short. I have created beautiful gardens from Kenai, Alaska to Washington, D.C, and from Spokane and Seattle to Ft. Hood, TX and places in between. I thought my home garden in Spokane would be my last horrah! It appears I have one more project to complete before I become the food for other life forms. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on June 13, 2015 at 7:44am

 Carl, I now use a cane and am grateful for it. It also helps me fend off attacks by my granddaughter's over-loving, over exuberant pointer named Zeek. His lovely enthusiasm is too much for me, especially if I am standing. He runs a marathon around the house with the labrador, Dominic in hot pursuit. Dominic used to knock me down when I first arrived at their home but he sensed I was vulnerable and no longer gives me a knock-down welcome. He is so gentle with me, walks with me in the forest, sits quietly beside me when I sleep. We have a routine each morning. He comes and sits until I awaken, he gets a "rub" all over before breakfast. We have breakast together, he, with a treat of a biscuit, I with my bowl of fruit. He never begs, however he has me well trained so that he gets his regular "rub",  "snack", and "outside" adventure. 

I miss him when I am at my home in Spokane. 

Comment by The Flying Atheist on June 13, 2015 at 7:35am

Ditto for me, Randy.

Comment by Randall Smith on June 13, 2015 at 7:22am

Comments below on voting, Supreme Court, Unions, etc., is (are) exactly why I'm backing Bernie Sanders for president!

Comment by Grinning Cat on June 13, 2015 at 5:46am

Ruth, thanks for the pointer to Madison's Music and what's wrong with the current Supreme Court! "One dollar, one vote" is an apt summation of a lot of it -- and there's the privileged duopoly, and entrenched gerrymandering to create safe incumbents.

(On gerrymandering, the 2002 Economist article "How to rig an election" is still very much relevant, and contains some shocking examples and maps!)

"... what’s needed is a new Supreme Court majority that understands Madison's vision and is not hostile to a broad and inclusive democracy."

That underscores how essential it is for us to vote in every presidential election! Even while the system is broken.

Comment by Ian Mason on June 13, 2015 at 3:37am

Just to show that there's many a good tune played on an old fiddle (or sackbut, oud etc)

http://www.sinfinimusic.com/uk/features/guides/instrument-guides/8-...

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on June 12, 2015 at 3:31pm

Funny LOL on dieting, Bertold.

I’ve been on strict dieted for decades too, Plinius. And keep gaining anyway.

I don’t’ get the leg transfer joke, Flying Atheist.

Thanks for the update, sk8eycat. I was wondering how you were doing after that fall. Keep on trecking.

Indiana’s hot too? We had 95° today north of Philly, Randall.

Carl, I personally agree with that. I enjoy seeing people of all body sizes and shapes flaunting enjoying skimpy swimwear. It seems as if many HWF regulars, including myself, walk with care.

Speaking of bleak futures, Joan, and bleak present, I was surprised to learn how much the US supreme Court has destroyed democracy. 8 Ways the Supreme Court Has Been Destroying American Democracy

As for your big old house being too much to maintain, I’ve had a few little similar milestones: giving up a little garden by the road because I couldn’t carry enough water, giving up a lovely aquarium because I couldn’t carry water, giving up hosting parties because I was too tired to enjoy them after carrying chairs up from the basement. I think down-sizing is part of aging.

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Comment by Ian Mason on June 12, 2015 at 12:00pm

Joan, I love that expression ' garden of eat'n'. Are you planning on moving?

Comment by Joan Denoo on June 12, 2015 at 11:40am

I have great concerns about my grandchildren and great-grandchildren. Because of social changes taking place now, I feel a need to set examples for them that will increase their options as they face whatever comes. They do not know how to plant seeds and do the tasks necessary to be self-sufficient. They live in the country requiring skills of repairing things and they do very well at that. They don't know how to plant seeds and do the tasks necessary to grow and preserve food. If they learn those skills they will have options to increase their self-sufficiency. 

In many ways, I hate leaving my home and garden of 41 years. This patch of Earth exists in a very different way than it was all those years ago. 

In many ways, I anticipate the joy of creating a garden of eat'n for Laura and her family.  As I age I need more help, personally, than Cary can provide. My big old house is too much for me to maintain.

It is clear my life changes. I anticipate the Earth changes. So, the theme of this era, in my opinion, requires managing change. Change does not mean fear, it means opportunity. Surely the Eskimos' lives change with the loss of snow and ice. I wonder how they will meet that challenge. I wonder how we will meet our challenges. 

 

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