Hang With Friends

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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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maggie and milly and molly and may (Edward Estlin Cummings & Eric Whitacre)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 20. 2 Replies

It's amazing what you discover when you go looking for something you had no idea you'd find.  On an impulse, I pulled up Eric Whitacre's website to see if he had created any new pieces.  It would seem that he has: a song cycle called The City and…Continue

Tags: e e cummings, Eric Whitacre

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISIS

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Randall Smith Nov 18. 1 Reply

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISISGrowth in population, policies and practices that create a gap between the typical person and the wealthy,…Continue

Passive and Active voices

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Nov 16. 1 Reply

Have you noticed that much of the discussion in families and with friends, in the print media, on TV, and now on the internet is in the Passive Voice? Many people whine, complain, gripe, accuse, blame, call names, ridicule, grumble, bitch, rebuke,…Continue

Tags: and, behaviors, communication., attitudes, learned

Detroit Businesswomen Team Up to Get Rape Kits Tested

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by The Flying Atheist Nov 14. 2 Replies

Detroit Businesswomen Team Up to Get Rape Kits Tested"In 2009, a Wayne County assistant prosecuting attorney noticed…Continue

Tags: women, Enough, SAID, black, victims

Something Beautiful – Nathan Phelps & Seth Andrews

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 10. 7 Replies

And it is beautiful, too, indeed, I think some of Seth Andrews' best work.  Interesting point: rather than Seth's dulcet baritone doing the narration, this piece presses Nathan Phelps' deep bass intonation into service, bringing a different flavor…Continue

Tags: Nathan Phelps, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews, beautiful, something

Your favorite photobombs?

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Joan Denoo Oct 27. 14 Replies

Running of the bulls photobomb.Continue

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Comment by The Flying Atheist on March 22, 2014 at 2:44am

If there is an entity in existence that truly is the human soul, it's music and art.  --Me  (I just made that up!)

Comment by The Flying Atheist on March 22, 2014 at 2:34am

Speaking of the Bach cello suites, I know I've posted this before but it's been awhile and it's so beautiful and worth repeating.  Now that I think about it, I wish I had remembered this for the recent International Women's Day.  


Comment by Plinius on March 22, 2014 at 1:38am

Thanks for the cello suite, Joan! I grew up with Bach and can still sing along with his Kaffee Kantate. I read about Justin Bieber just now, and I'll forget it a.s.a.p. - non-famous people are much more interesting to me. Early Saturday here: we'll be busy with our two patients today - a beautiful spring day! Have a good time!

Comment by Idaho Spud on March 21, 2014 at 5:22pm

Gabriela does have a unique style.

Comment by Idaho Spud on March 21, 2014 at 4:27pm

I found some of Tina S's acoustic guitar work, but so far, it's from 2 to 5 years ago when she wasn't as good.  It looks like she's practiced more on the electric, and so is more amazing on it.

Comment by Joan Denoo on March 21, 2014 at 4:11pm

Comment by Idaho Spud on March 21, 2014 at 4:06pm

I would like to hear her play an acoustic guitar without electronic amplification.

Comment by Idaho Spud on March 21, 2014 at 4:05pm

Tina is remarkable.  I actually accumulated a tear listening to her, probably because of her talent more than the music, but I don't dislike the music either.

Comment by Joan Denoo on March 21, 2014 at 3:50pm

Spud, I agree about Tina S. I turned off the sound on the second listening and watched her right hand fingers, the third watching I watched her left hand. She is remarkable. I wonder what the sound would be if she were on a fine guitar without all the electronics?

Comment by Joan Denoo on March 21, 2014 at 3:45pm

I gave my TV away several years ago and have never regretted it; except when I have to wait for Cosmos to come online.

I wonder where that young man's mother and father were while he was a minor? Children learn how to behave, and unless there is some brain disorder, i.e. Tourette's syndrome, a neurological condition that is often characterised by outbursts of cursing words, as well as other behaviors that startle one. We don't know what is going on in the brain and can only deduce intent from behavior. Listen to words in order get an idea of the thought behind the words. 

In addition the mind has the power to frame a single situation in very different ways. Some say, "I have to go to work," while others say, "I get to go to work". Very similar words but with very different meanings. My job was to help reframe thinking into positive, healthy ones. 

The cause of behavior, i.e.  naming, swearing and politeness are the tools with which we organize the flow of raw information. Metaphor in particular helps us entertain new ideas and new ways of managing our affairs. That is what framing is all about. 

The behavior you describe stands outside the bounds of acceptable public behavior. As a therapist who worked with such troubled minds, I know it is difficult to know what is happening inside the brain in these people, and there is a way to train them to behave in public. The work involves the parents. If he grew to beyond his majority behaving as an immature child, his parents have a lot to account for. If he is neurologically impaired, he should not be let off the hook when he does something obscene or illegal. He needs to be held accountable or be put in a place where he can't disturb others or their property. 

Carl, I have Bach cello suites on CDs as well. A real treasure! 

Patricia,  wonderful news you are able to out and about on your motorized vehicle. I love the photo of your vehicle of some months ago. 


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