Hang With Friends

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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Issues Atheist, Feminist, GLBTQ, Climate Change

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by BenGee on Saturday. 3 Replies

This is a test Continue

The Whole Bible in 30 Seconds (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Randy Hatly Oct 20. 15 Replies

Ever decide that you wanted to read the whole bible, cover to cover, only to realize half-way through Deuteronomy that the darn thing is industrial-strength BORING?!?  Well, never fear!  America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers, has done the Cliff's…Continue

Tags: bible, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

punishing doubt (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Oct 17. 2 Replies

If you are associated with religion and especially a fundamentalist religion, doubt is intolerable.  Certainty, however it may be achieved or imposed, becomes a necessary element, especially considering the utter dearth of any form of evidence or…Continue

Tags: religion, TheraminTrees, punish, doubt

A moment to relax and see the Earth from space; some how this comforts me.

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Qiana-Maieev Oct 16. 3 Replies

All the squabbles and struggles that I have do not compare with those of some others on this great planet. There are no boundary lines, no political arguments, no up or no down. What is, is. For right now, the scenes offer tranquility. Just the…Continue

Tags: and, wonder, awe, of, space

His Dark Materials and the Catholic Church

Started by Tonya R. Wheeler. Last reply by Plinius Oct 16. 27 Replies

I recently watched the movie, "The Golden Compass" and since I could not find the sequels, I read the books. I enjoyed them, and I will be reading the first one, Northern Lights, starting tomorrow, since it just arrived via inter-library…Continue

Tags: Fantasy, Catholic, Religion, Atheist, Pullman

bending truth, or "We Can All Be Manipulated" (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Sep 29. 39 Replies

The following is one of TheraminTrees' most thorough-going pieces, wherein he looks at the process and techniques whereby a "religious" organization (which will sound VERY familiar to most of us, once introductions are made!) takes a person who…Continue

Tags: indoctrination, truth, manipulation, TheraminTrees

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Comment by Plinius on August 19, 2014 at 4:03am

I can't understand why nobody orders a good independent investigation into the death of Michael Brown. Of course the police won't like that, but they're there to protect and serve, not for anything else.

Comment by Brent Feeney on August 18, 2014 at 11:42am

I has been scary out here Mindy, and it's getting worse after it seeming was getting better. Gov. Jay Nixon has now called out the National Guard and Amnesty International is sending a team to monitor the situation.

Of course, the fact that AI is making their way here has many of The Usual Supsects heading into a tizzy, among other things.

Comment by Joan Denoo on August 18, 2014 at 11:01am

Now, a moment to brag about my newest great-grandchild, Brooklyn. She is a lovely baby, very sweet tempered, chubby as can be, cried very little even as she has a hearty sound indicating she has a need. 

Laurie, my granddaughter, is an outstanding mother, very loving and attentive. She enjoys their baby very much. 

Zac, Brooklyn's daddy, gently takes care of all her needs from feeding to cleaning her. He holds her so gently and quietly talks to her. He seems to enjoy fathering. The look on his face as he cuddles her is almost mystically loving. I can't say enough good about Zac, he is so kind and thoughtful, he is a hard worker and has initiative. They are living with Laura and Larry just now and he finds things to repair or to create for them. He is building a terraced garden for Laura, cutting down the trees, preparing them for the use in the terraces, and builds them so strong, it would take something very unusual to damage them. Right now the dogs love to jump from layer to layer, leaving behind deep holes where their feet dig in for a gigantic leap. The training has started to get the dogs off of the future garden. 

One of my great pleasures while with them this weekend, was just watching the three of them interact. Sweet memories to take along with me in my twilight years.   

Comment by Joan Denoo on August 18, 2014 at 10:12am

Michelle and her partner have five children between them, Michelle with two boys and her partner with two boys and one girl, ranging in ages from 15 to 4. Their birthdays go all through the year so Michelle decided to have one birthday party with families from both sides invited to celebrate. Winters can be dreadful driving in those northern forests, and some family members live some distance. 

It was so much fun, with games, and contests, lots of ages, and personalities mixing together with dogs, cats and kittens running wildly through the legs and under seats. Laura and Larry gave me their bedroom and they slept in their travel trailer. 

Late in the afternoon, while sitting on the porch, I fell asleep. Laura gently wakened me and I went to bed for the night. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on August 18, 2014 at 10:05am

The highway to Laura's home, near Newport, WA, goes through the area that was terribly damaged in three wind storms. I attended a birthday party at Laura's this weekend and the trailer park looks like a war zone. Trees broken off at 20 to 50 feet above ground, trailers, autos and sheds smashed, debris mostly cleaned up so one can see the physical impacts more clearly than when the trees were still down with all their limbs hiding the damage. All along the highway for probably 10 miles each way are broken trees in the forests along the highway. 

When I worked at boys' ranches, several of my boys' families lived in that trailer park. They were poor working class people, who faced many challenges. I feel for the families trying to recover from such losses. 

Comment by Randall Smith on August 17, 2014 at 7:41am

Yes, Chris (with no t), Dot has a microchip. I am going to put my phone # on her collar. And I'm glad you finally got a day off. Hope you got recharged.

Comment by Plinius on August 17, 2014 at 2:42am

Thanks Carl, it looks nice! I grew up without radio and tv, and I can find out what things were of course, but when you talk about it it's much more telling.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on August 17, 2014 at 2:35am

Hi, Chris.  Get Smart was a very popular comedy show from the mid-1960's.  Max Smart was a bumbling and totally inept U.S. spy who worked for CONTROL (a take off on the FBI.)   Each episode featured Smart who was trying to intercept the nefarious plans of KAOS (a take off on the KGB.)  Of course, this show aired during the height of the Cold War with Russia.  The opening of the show with all the doors and the theme music has become a fairly iconic part of U.S. television history. 

Comment by Plinius on August 17, 2014 at 2:07am

;-s  you can imagine where my name came from. It's all right. And you guessed right with the movie; stairs, doors, lift.

Was Get Smart a spy/detective/mission impossible series?

We enjoyed our first day off in months! Wonderful!

Comment by The Flying Atheist on August 16, 2014 at 1:48pm

I just realized I wrote "Christ" instead of "Chris" when posting the Get Smart video.  Sorry about that, Chris. 


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