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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

Nobody here is into mind games. A discussion started with a loaded guilt-throwing question will be deleted.

This group is not intended to compete with other groups on topics they cover but to "fill in the cracks." Whenever a discussion dwells at length on a topic for which there's an existing group, we urge you to provide members a link to that group to continue along their tangent.

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Ignorance is Bliss: Why Religious People Seem Happier Than the 'Nones'”.

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by kathy: ky Aug 9. 4 Replies

“Highly Religious Volunteer More, Lie Less, and Claim to Be Happier”~ Houston Chronicle; “Strongly Religious People are Happier than Non-Religious”  ~ Christian Daily."The study determined that 40 percent of highly religious adults—defined as those…Continue

Tags: Nones, happiness, non-religiosity, religiosity, bliss

If you could rid the world of one thing, what would it be?

Started by Idaho Spud. Last reply by Jonathan Simeone Aug 5. 29 Replies

Today, I heard Seth Andrews talk about the question, "If you could rid the world of one thing, what would it be?"  My first thought was religion, but after a few seconds I decided it would be irrational or anti-scientific thinking.  That would take…Continue

Tags: anti-scientific, irrational

The Bourne Again Identity (Mr. Deity)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Aug 3. 3 Replies

There's a young man, unconscious, found tangled with the bushes which describe the edge of your property, late one evening.  Who is he?  Where did he come from?  These are the questions which confound Ward and Pam as they attempt to deal with a most…Continue

Tags: mystery, Bourne, Brian Dalton, Mr. Deity

Where The Buffalo Roam AGAIN - Allan Savory Institute

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Daniel W Jul 31. 3 Replies

Where The Buffalo Roam AGAIN - Allan Savory InstituteI have followed the Justin Rhodes family for many months and each videa is unique. this one is about their adventures in Colorado, and…Continue

Tags: restore, water, soils, bison, Rhodes

Yasmine Mohammed - Confessions of an Ex-Muslim (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Idaho Spud Jul 7. 6 Replies

Yasmine Mohammed is not your average ex-Muslim.  Not only did she get shut of Islam, she also managed to escape what was at one time the most notorious of radical Islamist organizations: Al Qaeda.  She has since documented the story of her apostasy…Continue

Tags: Islam, Al Qaeda, Yasmine Mohammed, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

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Comment by Idaho Spud on January 5, 2015 at 3:54pm

The picture about "tasty and filling prayers" was excellent!  I also saved the pictures about "Fakebook", "Don't make me come in there!", "Happy New Year 2015", "So much to do, so little desire"  Thanks.

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Comment by sk8eycat on January 5, 2015 at 3:51pm

I thought about printing cards, too; to hand to people who say they're praying for something, or somebody, to my face, but most of the worst offenders are dead now. 

That's one way to get passive revenge; outlive the annoying S.O.Bs!

Comment by sk8eycat on January 5, 2015 at 3:23pm

Mindy, I've been looking at "Thank You for Your Prayers" ever since you posted it, and thinking about so many different things.  Like my own desire to kick the people who automatically end every conversation with, "I'm praying for you," and the absolute rejection of any type of contraception imposed by most religions.  (I've always wanted to give that old fraud, Agnes Bojaxhiu/"Mother" Teresa, a swift one, but she died before I could do it.)

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 5, 2015 at 2:24pm

Mindy, we have more important things to do and say than to make friends. These small children do not have a voice; they need to be seen and heard. If you and I don't show the reality, who will? When? When I saw your post on Facebook, I thought, "Mindy's free!" When we write in order to make friends, are we really reaching down deeply inside ourselves and writing what we feel? 

I kind of like it when I get refutations. It means someone doesn't want the truth known. I like it when I get rebuked for sloppy writing, as happened this past week. I was in error in my reporting and I needed to be admonished. 

So, welcome to the crowd of truth tellers! As a group, we grow and flourish, even as we need support from other truth tellers. Life can get lonely sometimes. The odd thing is my family who claimed they block my writing, read my stuff. I get feedback that they have read a piece I write. They don't tell me, but they do tell another family member who gives me the feedback. My audience also grows, especially when I write a particularly controversial piece. It seems there are people holding back from saying what they think until they read my stuff or other writers who challenge the status quo.  

Another unexpected thing happens when I post the excellent pieces of A/N members, I get strong, positive feedback. People want to read what we write. They feel starved for more holistic thinking. I don't get any hate mail anymore. That ended when I ignored them. I didn't respond to the negativity, I wrote tougher articles each time a piece of hate mail arrived. If I had quit writing, hate-mongers would have won. No Way!  

Comment by Plinius on January 5, 2015 at 8:34am

No, you don't, Randall! There are people who put a little strain on my patience, but you don't. A/N is also my only online social communion and I feel at home here. I was at FB and I'm still at BookCrossing, but those are no places where you can be yourself and still be respected.

Comment by Randall Smith on January 5, 2015 at 8:12am

Thanks Mindy and Chris! I know I'm not alone in the Facebook department (I cancelled yesterday!) and cell phone (no "smart" for me). A/N is my one and only social communication outlet. I worry that I comment too much, however. Well, perhaps not worry--it just crosses my mind.

Love those "cartoons"!

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 5, 2015 at 2:20am

Chris, it is nice when you enjoy's your work. Lots of good vibes come from your students. Sorry the relations present challenges. 

Comment by Plinius on January 5, 2015 at 2:05am

A lot of people do that Mindy, as the smartphones take over our lives. I hate that too, so I ended my phone subsciption. I'll buy a cheap non-smart phone, prepaid, for an emergency call or to take a picture. When people want me online I'm at my old desktop PC. I'm also under the weather because of the stupid holidays: all the work for Aunt and brother-in-law made me feel worn out. I can't wait to go back to work tomorrow!

Comment by sk8eycat on January 5, 2015 at 1:44am

Oh, Mindy, PLEASE don't drop out of the cat fan group.  I wanna see more pics of your (relatively) new kitten.

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 5, 2015 at 1:41am

It will be nice to see your pretty face and wise comments when you post here. I agree, Mindy, this is a special group of people. 

 

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