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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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The Burial Waltz

Started by Donatien Alphonse François. Last reply by Donatien Alphonse François Apr 26. 4 Replies

Hi everyone,It was almost a half-century ago, at age 15 or so, that I encountered one of the more important influences in my life: a crazy group of poets/musicians who called themselves The Fugs.They had a huge impact on me in that, though raised in…Continue

Some William Blake to Ponder

Started by Donatien Alphonse François. Last reply by Donatien Alphonse François Apr 25. 6 Replies

Hello all,I'm new here, and so hope this isn't old hat. But, I just had to point you toward a marvelous poem by William Blake in case you've never read it. Despite his sometimes heavily tinged biblical references in his other art and poetry, this…Continue

God's Not Dead - The Christian Persecution Complex (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Annie Willis Apr 20. 7 Replies

Doubtless most if not all of you have heard about that sorry piece of cinema known as God's Not Dead, and perhaps its sequel, cleverly entitled: God's Not Dead 2 (wow, how original!).  Personally, I have wasted neither time nor money on either,…Continue

Tags: God's Not Dead, patheos, Neil Carter, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

Confirmed: flagged by religious people for "bullying."

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Loren Miller Apr 19. 4 Replies

According to Seth Andrews @SethAndrewsTTA  Apr 16"Confirmed. TTA was flagged by religious people for "bullying." Apparently, criticism and skepticism = persecution. #GodHatesFacts"Others reported as "Flagged" and taken off line: @The Thinking…Continue

Tags: @SethAndrewsTTA, @morehead_sarah, @Matt_Dillahunty, @jteberhard, confirmed

The Value of Atheist Nexus ... and of Keeping Contact

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Apr 17. 13 Replies

I don't know about you, but the last 24+ hours were VERY uncomfortable for me.  Why?  Because something I value a LOT, being Atheist Nexus and the people I care about on A|N were temporarily unavailable to me.  No, we're not Facebook; I don't think…Continue

Tags: maintenance, community, availability, Atheist Nexus

Atheist Pig STRIKES AGAIN!!!

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Qiana-Maieev Apr 5. 1 Reply

There's no getting around it, Atheist Pig is fast becoming my fave secular comic, and as evidence, I refer you to the following.  Jesus and Mo had better watch their respective asses, 'cuz they got a porker coming up on the outside, and I'm pretty…Continue

Tags: Atheist Pig

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Comment by Ian Mason on May 1, 2014 at 10:25am

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Comment by Plinius on May 1, 2014 at 1:09am

But Booklover, I'm not at all sure if we're non-judgemental friends - it's a friend's duty to warn you when you go wrong - so there's judgement.

Be true to yourself, Patricia, I hope Monday comes soon for you. Perhaps it's no more than a "I want to .... before I die"visit. Hard enough! My father wanted me to visit him before he died, but I decided not to play along and never showed up. It still feels good, even after all the reproaches.

Comment by Ian Mason on May 1, 2014 at 1:08am

"Cramming for finals", an Autralian nursing-home term for old people who get religion and/or crave forgiveness towards the end.

On the other hand, I think my daughter found my apologies to her when I did my AA 9th step as too little too late. I have to live with that and try to have a future with her.

This "Inner Fish" sounds good. I'll give it a try.

This won't mean much to people outside England but it turns out that Wilko Johnson's otherwise terminal cancer is operable, even though he will loose a lot of his insides. Here's a link to him in his young years. He's the guitarist.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GzF0AETdRF8

Comment by k.h. ky on April 30, 2014 at 10:59pm
You're welcome Joan. I'm really enjoying it. Patricia, hang in there and chill. I deal with the b/p too so just remember to take your meds . Maybe your mom just wants to see you. I hate it that your daughter is a fundie. All my family, except my daughter, are so l know what that's like.
Comment by Joan Denoo on April 30, 2014 at 10:34pm

k.h. ky, I hunted for "My Inner Fish" on computer and so far have only found the trailers for it. So I Googled for the author and found a video from Finding Your Inner Fish 2009 and it is terrific! Dr. Neil Shubin is to evolutionary paleontology that Neil deGrasse Tyson is to astrophysics. Thanks for the lead! 

Comment by Joan Denoo on April 30, 2014 at 10:07pm

Oh Patricia, I hear pain in your words! The beautiful person you are, the enthusiasms, the color purple, the motorized vehicle and all the many ways you express joy and contentment offers rich treasures for those who can see them. 

Well, I know your cheesecake will be yummy and they will go away having been well fed, with good hosting taking place. The days turn warmer, the skies clearer, the friends truer and all is well with you. Celebrate your life with full gusto ... remember the best revenge is to be happy! Each day is an opportunity to experience the good in life.  You go for it. 

And if you need to rant when the visit ends, this is a good, safe place to do it. 

Comment by Idaho Spud on April 30, 2014 at 1:56pm

Joan, I agree about forgiveness.  Mormonism teaches that to forgive, you have to forget.  No way I'm forgetting.  That is not a safe thing to do.

Comment by Joan Denoo on April 30, 2014 at 1:33pm

Patricia, I am not a great fan of forgiveness. I am safer if I don't forget. I hope it turns out to be a rich and meaningful visit even as I would be prepared to just waste time with someone for whom you have no affection. 

I am really sorry your daughter is caught up in the cult of mormonism. That is about as a dead end a life journey as I can imagine. Well, at least you have the ability to think for yourself and don't have to put up with the twaddle.  

 

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