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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

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God's Annual Performance Review (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Mar 19. 6 Replies

I don't know about you guys, but there wasn't a performance review I had in 30 years of field service that I didn't LOATHE.  It seems as though Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, is up for turning the tables on the person you would expect would…Continue

Tags: review, performance, god, American's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Learning a Language as a Mature Adult

Started by Daniel W. Last reply by Joan Denoo Mar 2. 28 Replies

Trying to keep my mind exercised, and not interested in most of the reading materials that I can find.I decided to attempt to learn a language.  Actually, two.  The dilemma is, how do I do that without going to school - not an option - and without…Continue

The Playboy Interview: Richard Dawkins

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Chris Feb 19. 14 Replies

I suppose it was the news that Playboy magazine was returning nudes to its pages after a year's hiatus that sufficiently perked my curiosity to check them out again.  I hadn't looked at Playboy since perhaps 2008, when I began to recognize that I…Continue

Tags: Richard Dawkins, Playboy

Such Lyrics!

Started by Donatien Alphonse François. Last reply by Grinning Cat Feb 13. 9 Replies

Hello Friends,I was ruminating a bit today on my sixty-some years existence. My mind went back to teenage years when I first figured out religion is not only obnoxiously loud, but also nothing I wanted anything to do with. Truly. I knew by age 15…Continue

degrading love — part two (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Feb 11. 1 Reply

TheraminTrees set up religion with his left in Part One of his treatise on how religion demeans and degrades the value of love.  Here in Part Two, he brings in a devastating, "Mike Tyson" right, which negates and invalidates any claim that either…Continue

Tags: Christianity, Islam, TheraminTrees, god, love

Questions......

Started by Thomas Murray. Last reply by k.h. ky Feb 9. 6 Replies

   It has been 6 month now since I signed up for Atheist Nexus membership. The past year has been sort of a bi-polar wave of emotions for me. I hope I wasn't offensive to the folks on here and I think I have been but I don't know to who. My desire…Continue

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Comment by k.h. ky on December 24, 2016 at 8:11pm
Carl, I started the tradition of celebrating the winter solstice when my grandkids were very young. It worked out well for us. They opened their gifts on the solstice. So we had plenty of time with them before the Xmas rush of going to visit relatives who lived farther away.
Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on December 24, 2016 at 7:56pm

Agreed!

Comment by The Flying Atheist on December 24, 2016 at 7:08pm

Love Skeptic on a Stick.  Funny!

Comment by Loren Miller on December 24, 2016 at 6:43pm

It's not too late!  Need an 11th hour gift idea?  Give SKEPTIC ON A STICK!

Comment by The Flying Atheist on December 24, 2016 at 1:38pm

Speaking of the holidays, I just read this article yesterday about the celebration of Christmas in the United States.

Most Non-Christians in the U.S. Celebrate Christmas

While the U.S. is growing less Christianthree-quarters of Americans still identify with the religion. Unsurprisingly, 96 percent of Christians celebrate Christmas. More surprisingly: Pew Research polling indicates that 81 percent of non-Christians celebrate the holiday.

That’s about a third of Jews, three-quarters of Hindus and Buddhists, and 87 percent of people who identify as nonreligiousreports Pew senior editor Michael Lipka. Overall, about half of Americans see it as a “religious” holiday, while a third say it’s a “cultural” one.

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Personally, I enjoy what the holidays offer this time of year.  I like the lights, the food, the trees and decorations, and the comradery of coming together to cope with the seasonal darkness.  

Interestingly, like the hardcore christians, I also believe this season is too commercial.  For many people Xmas has become the worship of Capitalism, and I can do without all that crap.  It's so wasteful and unnecessary.  

Comment by The Flying Atheist on December 24, 2016 at 1:10pm

Daniel, what a melancholy story about the name Fido.  I had no idea about the origin for that common dog name.

Comment by Grinning Cat on December 24, 2016 at 12:37pm

And with the coincidence of holidays tonight, happy Christmukkah! :)

(image source, via this "ugly menorah" collection)

Comment by Grinning Cat on December 24, 2016 at 12:35pm

Cute, Spud!

A humanist Daniel might choose to adopt "Dan" as a full name in its own right, meaning simply "judge", no invisible friends.

It's an appropriate day to repost a song about the true meaning of Christmastime, from a Southern Hemisphere and very secular perspective:

Comment by Daniel W on December 24, 2016 at 12:30pm

Spud, great minds run together  :-)

Comment by Daniel W on December 24, 2016 at 12:29pm

Randy-

You have a strong name. Im just glad my parents didn't name me George or Donald. If I ever have another dog, I want to name it Fido.
 

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