Hang With Friends

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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

Nobody here is into mind games. A discussion started with a loaded guilt-throwing question will be deleted.

This group is not intended to compete with other groups on topics they cover but to "fill in the cracks." Whenever a discussion dwells at length on a topic for which there's an existing group, we urge you to provide members a link to that group to continue along their tangent.

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maggie and milly and molly and may (Edward Estlin Cummings & Eric Whitacre)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 20. 2 Replies

It's amazing what you discover when you go looking for something you had no idea you'd find.  On an impulse, I pulled up Eric Whitacre's website to see if he had created any new pieces.  It would seem that he has: a song cycle called The City and…Continue

Tags: e e cummings, Eric Whitacre

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISIS

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Randall Smith Nov 18. 1 Reply

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISISGrowth in population, policies and practices that create a gap between the typical person and the wealthy,…Continue

Passive and Active voices

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Nov 16. 1 Reply

Have you noticed that much of the discussion in families and with friends, in the print media, on TV, and now on the internet is in the Passive Voice? Many people whine, complain, gripe, accuse, blame, call names, ridicule, grumble, bitch, rebuke,…Continue

Tags: and, behaviors, communication., attitudes, learned

Detroit Businesswomen Team Up to Get Rape Kits Tested

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by The Flying Atheist Nov 14. 2 Replies

Detroit Businesswomen Team Up to Get Rape Kits Tested"In 2009, a Wayne County assistant prosecuting attorney noticed…Continue

Tags: women, Enough, SAID, black, victims

Something Beautiful – Nathan Phelps & Seth Andrews

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 10. 7 Replies

And it is beautiful, too, indeed, I think some of Seth Andrews' best work.  Interesting point: rather than Seth's dulcet baritone doing the narration, this piece presses Nathan Phelps' deep bass intonation into service, bringing a different flavor…Continue

Tags: Nathan Phelps, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews, beautiful, something

Your favorite photobombs?

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Joan Denoo Oct 27. 14 Replies

Running of the bulls photobomb.Continue

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Comment by Pat on July 28, 2015 at 5:56am

Thanks Carl. The news that she is receiving good care is welcomed, and of course, hoping she makes a speedy recovery.

Comment by Plinius on July 28, 2015 at 2:11am

Good detective work, Carl! Thanks!

Comment by Ian Mason on July 28, 2015 at 12:53am

Thanks, Carl. Send her good wishes and hugs and tell her we miss her.

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on July 27, 2015 at 9:29pm

Thanks, Flying Atheist, for the new about Felaine. Send her my get well wishes too, if you talk to her again.

Comment by Joan Denoo on July 27, 2015 at 6:53pm

Carl! What good news to learn that you were able to talk with Felaine and discover this information. Thankfully, she is getting good medical care and she certainly was in desperate condition. Please pass on my wishes for her quick and thorough recovery when you talk to her again. 

Thank you for your kind and thoughtful concern for Felaine. She is a dear friend. 

Comment by Loren Miller on July 27, 2015 at 6:19pm

Wow, hadn't heard about this at all.  Thanks a LOT for the info, Carl.  Next time you talk to her, let her know she's got smooches & hugs coming from me, along with my best wishes!

Comment by The Flying Atheist on July 27, 2015 at 6:03pm

Hello, Friends.  I just spoke on the telephone with Felaine.  She's at her local hospital in Burbank being treated for gangrene and a breathing issue.  She is in pain, but we shared a few laughs during our short conversation.  It's a great relief for me to hear her tell me that she feels she is getting top-notch medical care. 

She wanted me to say HELLO to all of you here.  Her trip to the hospital was sudden, so she was unable to plan ahead and notify us.  I took the liberty on behalf of everyone here to express how much we miss her and are concerned about her. 

I know it's difficult for her to not have access to a computer and the contact information for her friends.  She gave me her telephone number a few months back, so I was able to track her down through her sister. 

I got the impression that she may stay at the hospital for the remainder of this week, possibly a little longer.  I'm just so glad she's getting the care she needs.

I told Felaine I would post this message in Hang With Friends.  If all of you could please spread the news to other people and groups on Atheist/Nexus that she participates in, that would be wonderful. 

Comment by Ian Mason on July 27, 2015 at 3:00pm

How lovely your project sounds, Joan. I remember a quote from 'Zorba the Greek' On seeing an old man planting an orange tree, Zorba asks him why, as the old man will never eat the fruit. 'Me, I live as if I'm to die tomorrow' says Zorba. 'Me, I live as if I will live forever'  the old man replies. I (Ian) prefer the old man's atittude. As for my books: from my cold, dead hand.

Carl, it's true that we let friendships die, often because of no good reason. Perhaps maturity will make us more careful and attentive. Having said that, I think there's 2 or 3 mails I should write soon.

I hope nothing nasty has happened to Felaine. I don't know of anyone who could post a message on her behalf.

Comment by Joan Denoo on July 27, 2015 at 10:04am

Life has been chaotic, interesting and fun! The greenhouse dome is finished and now to the building of the grow-beds. My son-in-law is a jewel of a man and skilled in many ways, and he is no carpenter. I watched him doing some carpentry work on one of the out-buildings, and it was comedic. He used up lots of feet of lumber trying to get a correct cut. The grow-beds are all about lengths, angles, and ratios. Not his best domain. The carpenters will come back after finishing another job. In the meantime, I can start some seeds outside in pots and seed trays and move them inside when we expect the first frost. 

It was bitterly cold yesterday. Far too cold for wanting to work with wet soil. The heat is expected to return tomorrow, and I will plant the seed today, crazy time to be planting some things and sensible, given the situation.

We had a big party for my great-granddaughter's first birthday on Sunday. What a sweet little girl, easy going, and a lovely child. Her inquisitive nature will be a curse or a blessing for her. Her mother is, as expected for a young, first-time mother, overly protective. Her family lives a few miles away, and her five cousins will offer her opportunities to explore and experiment. 

I will return to my book-filled home and start sorting out what I want to keep. I now have one bookcase in my bedroom with five shelves. Parting with my books seems to be harder for me than giving up my 41-year-old garden/meditation outdoor room. 

Creating a new garden at my age will be my last hurrah. 

There was an upgrade on my computer and I can't figure out how to get a photo. 

I wrote to Felaine; no answer. I am concerned and hope she got some medical help. This damned health system is so broken and she is caught in the web. I don't have her address or phone number or a way to talk to her sister. 

Comment by The Flying Atheist on July 27, 2015 at 9:25am

Randy, that's great you got to see an old friend after all these years and had a nice visit. 

I feel guilty that I've let some old and dear friendships slip away due to my own neglect for various reasons.  I know that as we age, friendships definitely ebb and flow with the times and some just fade away, some for good reason.  But I had many friendships that didn't deserve to vanish but did because I let them. 


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