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Secular and Reclaimed Winter Holiday Songs

Started by Grinning Cat. Last reply by Grinning Cat May 2. 42 Replies

This is an appropriate day of the year for this subject...What are some of your favorite winter holiday songs?It would be especially good to share powerful new secular lyrics to tunes that have become associated with Christmas.…Continue

Tags: singing, lyrics, reclaimed, reclaiming, HumanLight

appropriating morality (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo May 1. 7 Replies

We've all heard the claim: "Human morality comes from god."  And we've all seen for ourselves what Yahweh's "morality" looks like, from condemnations of homosexuality and the treatment of women as chattel to inexplicable sanctions against the eating…Continue

Tags: morality, appropriating, TheraminTrees

Bible Belt Atheist (New York Times)

Started by Loren Miller Apr 19. 0 Replies

The following showed up in my YouTube feed this morning, and I decided to have a look.  Turns out, the New York Times has given us a reasonably even-handed look at a good friend of ours, being one Jerry DeWitt, former bible-thumper and now a pretty…Continue

Tags: Bible Belt, atheist, Jerry DeWitt

How would you respond?

Started by Christina Scribner. Last reply by Christina Scribner Apr 10. 5 Replies

So, this morning, I was at my local coffee shop as I am most weekdays between bus runs. I do the editing on my husband's books so I had my laptop with me. My wallpaper is a picture I found online sometime back of a double helix with the word atheist…Continue

The Fake Christian Busybody Show (Andrew Bradley)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Plinius Apr 9. 1 Reply

It seems as though there was a Gay Pride parade in some town somewhere and a Christian commentator, herein known as The Activist Mommy, apparently got her panties so in a bunch about it that she had to fire up her video camera and record a…Continue

Tags: gay, pride, The Activist Mommy, Andrew Bradley, America's Best Christian

America Held Hostage: Day 436 (MisterDeity)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Apr 9. 1 Reply

Now that Sinclair Broadcasting has stated their position regarding fake news and its threat to our democracy, Mister Deity's Brian Dalton has decided to throw his $0.02 worth in as well ... though I don't quite think his presentation was really what…Continue

Tags: fake news, Deity, Mister, Broadcasting, Sinclair

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Comment by kathy: ky on September 7, 2015 at 12:34am
Ruth,it's Kathy if you like. And the older l get the more l take a firm stand. Two weeks ago it was a difference of a price quoted twenty dollars cheaper on an order. Last week it was the extra fee's AT&T charge. Fifteen dollars a month that ,by law,you don't have to pay! Taxes, yes. The fee's, no. Read your phone bills and it's printed on them. Call and ask them nicely and they will led you to believe you are required to pay them. I'm beginning to enjoy this. It surprises me how often l win.
Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on September 6, 2015 at 9:16pm

Thanks for the cute song, Joan. I liked the ivy-covered round trellis over the path.

I didn't know about Rip Off Report, Pat.

Idaho Spud, thanks for sharing your internet provider horror experience. I'd keep looking for a while. maybe you'll find a better one.

k.h. ky, I admire your chutzpah.

Comment by Joan Denoo on September 6, 2015 at 12:01pm

Make a loud noise! Make firm conditions and stick to them! Stand up, speak out, sit in, join others to form coalitions! These are the things we did in the 1960s movements against white, Anglo-Saxon, Protestant-Roman Catholic, privileged, dominant, oppressive controls. 

Comment by kathy: ky on September 6, 2015 at 11:24am
I refused to pay for a new satellite box for the TV. They wanted forty five dollars to replace it. I told them they could either send a new one or l would change providers. It made no difference to me. After they agreed to waive the charge on the box they told me it would cost twenty dollars shipping. I said'again, I'm not paying you a nickel. Send it or don't'. They sent it :)
Comment by Randall Smith on September 6, 2015 at 6:56am

Way to go, Spud. Sometimes, one just has to take a stand.

I'm supposed to pay a $25 "rental fee" for my propane tank, but refuse. I tell them I'm going to switch providers, and they then relent. Happens every year.

Comment by Joan Denoo on September 6, 2015 at 1:10am

Spud! I loved those old songs:

Mairzy Doats. 

My kids loved them too. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on September 6, 2015 at 12:49am

Spud, I like Pat's suggestions to tell the bank to stop paying to that company, and contact the Rip Off Report. I would go one step further and name the company that did not follow your instructions, write your story for the various social media to which you belong. We need to complain, loudly, often, and everywhere. I am not saying being noisy about your complaint will make a difference, but it seems to me to be better than remaining silent. 

Spud, you know me, the "DO NOT REMAIN SILENT! person. 

 Rip Off Report.

Comment by kathy: ky on September 6, 2015 at 12:06am
Hex 5 remark about questioning god was dead on. Our family is taught that is something you don't do. It's the way to hell for certain. And Loren's reply that we're not better. But we are open to new ideas was also dead on.
Comment by kathy: ky on September 5, 2015 at 11:54pm
Loren/Hex5/All. Hello. I'm days late as usual to a conversation.

Monday's talk about relating to theist; l only found out recently that my oldest niece and her husband have stopped going to church and she was asking me questions about why I'm an atheist!
I was shocked. Thanks to whoever posted the link to Kissing Hanks Ass. I sent it to her and she enjoyed it. So did her husband.
Out of dozens of neices and nephews, Sisters, brother, brothers-in-law, aunts uncles,.... The entire family, no one, has ever genuinely asked anything.
I'm still surprised and continue to text her articles that are both well thought out and don't appear to harsh on the believers ideas.
Thanks all.
And it's hot and dry here.
Comment by Bertold Brautigan on September 5, 2015 at 12:50pm

Thanks, Pat, good to know!

 

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