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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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God's Annual Performance Review (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on Monday. 6 Replies

I don't know about you guys, but there wasn't a performance review I had in 30 years of field service that I didn't LOATHE.  It seems as though Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, is up for turning the tables on the person you would expect would…Continue

Tags: review, performance, god, American's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Learning a Language as a Mature Adult

Started by Daniel W. Last reply by Joan Denoo Mar 2. 28 Replies

Trying to keep my mind exercised, and not interested in most of the reading materials that I can find.I decided to attempt to learn a language.  Actually, two.  The dilemma is, how do I do that without going to school - not an option - and without…Continue

The Playboy Interview: Richard Dawkins

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Chris Feb 19. 14 Replies

I suppose it was the news that Playboy magazine was returning nudes to its pages after a year's hiatus that sufficiently perked my curiosity to check them out again.  I hadn't looked at Playboy since perhaps 2008, when I began to recognize that I…Continue

Tags: Richard Dawkins, Playboy

Such Lyrics!

Started by Donatien Alphonse François. Last reply by Grinning Cat Feb 13. 9 Replies

Hello Friends,I was ruminating a bit today on my sixty-some years existence. My mind went back to teenage years when I first figured out religion is not only obnoxiously loud, but also nothing I wanted anything to do with. Truly. I knew by age 15…Continue

degrading love — part two (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Feb 11. 1 Reply

TheraminTrees set up religion with his left in Part One of his treatise on how religion demeans and degrades the value of love.  Here in Part Two, he brings in a devastating, "Mike Tyson" right, which negates and invalidates any claim that either…Continue

Tags: Christianity, Islam, TheraminTrees, god, love

Questions......

Started by Thomas Murray. Last reply by k.h. ky Feb 9. 6 Replies

   It has been 6 month now since I signed up for Atheist Nexus membership. The past year has been sort of a bi-polar wave of emotions for me. I hope I wasn't offensive to the folks on here and I think I have been but I don't know to who. My desire…Continue

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Comment by Ian Mason on October 15, 2014 at 12:34pm

I've never heard of "Duck Dynasty" and didn't know the pic came from it, whatever it is.

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on October 15, 2014 at 11:36am

"They make all Southerners look bad." Right! Thanks for the post GC.

Comment by Grinning Cat on October 15, 2014 at 11:32am

The Duck Dynasty "cultural export" is all the more embarrassing for being a wealthy-yuppies-in-redneck-drag fake!

There are before-and-after pictures on various websites, including here: http://aattp.org/duck-dynasty-is-fake-and-thats-a-fact-jack-video/

Dusty Smith (of CultOfDusty videos) has strong words about it in his video (cued up to the relevant part; NSFW):

Comment by The Flying Atheist on October 15, 2014 at 10:45am

Ian, that Duck Dynasty photo embarrasses me when I think about so much of our country's "cultural" exports to other parts of the world. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on October 15, 2014 at 1:42am

Ian and Randy, there is that anxiety a parent has when an adult child quits a job or for whatever reason they are unemployed. I hope both your daughters fare well in their professional endeavors. 

Craig, my son with the nice job description, lost his job several years ago in a RIF and we all held our breath. As it stands now, Craig and Laura are both secure and I have no worries about their futures. They are both entrepreneurial in spirit, not liking to work for others. Being self-employed is a strong message from my family and from their dad's. There are risks, and benefits. Kind of like life. 

Patricia, The party sounds like great fun and excitement. Did you know before hand that an engagement was coming? Your granddaughter's face looked so excited and pretty. Her ring is lovely. 

Ian, I have never seen the American Ya'll Qaeda, but from what I hear, I have no interest in learning what he has to say. A good comparison of the Qaeda twins. 

Randy, we still have that neighborhood feeling of belonging to each other as family. We have front porches, and now there are several front yard vegetable gardens. The third generation of kids is growing up. This summer has been the most recent squealing of the young ones. Of the oldest group that grew up while I lived here, one is an astrophysicist another is a dentist. It is a sweet place to grow up. 

Comment by Ian Mason on October 15, 2014 at 1:06am

Has anyone posted this before?

Comment by Randall Smith on October 14, 2014 at 8:12am

Joan, your son's job description is a little more complicated  than what mine was: "teacher"! Impressive sounding, anyway.

Ian, my daughter (age 39) just went throught the same thing, and is now unemployed. Hope your daughter has better luck finding a job.

After reading a new book by Marc Dunkelman, The Vanishing Neighborhood, I realize my friends are not my real neighbors like they were for my parents. The definition of "neighborliness" has evolved dramatically over the the course of several decades. As a kid, I remember sharing meals, baby sitting, going places, etc., with our neighbors. Today, being "neighborly" means leaving those around you in peace. You're friendly, but detached.

Consequently, or perhaps a reason for that change, is the internet. Facebook, twitter, blogs have become the centerpiece for our relationships and friends. True, I share more information with you all than I do with any of my so-called true friends and neighbors. I'm okay with that, although I miss the "good ol' days". 

Comment by Plinius on October 14, 2014 at 6:40am

A really impressive list, Joan!

Must have been a nice family party, Patricia! No ring for him or is that not the custom with you?

Comment by Ian Mason on October 13, 2014 at 1:42pm

Sorry for the mistakes. Just woken up from my day's sleep. Yes. blAming and there.

Comment by Ian Mason on October 13, 2014 at 1:40pm

"Gift" in Danish means poison AND married. No comment from me.

Glad to hear that Dale is picking up.

Yes, Joan that's an impressive list.

My daughter has resigned from her job as she thought the dept. boss was an idiot, bleming her for things that weren't her fault After an interview with a senior boss, she's been offered something in another dept, so someone up their knows that there's something wrong at the local level. She's also decided definitely to move to Copenhagen in the new year when her bloke has finished his studies. There are greater opportunities in the capital for both of them.

Autumn has come to Denmark, with wind and rain but also occasional bouts of sunshine. It looks like I will have a small second crop of green cherry tomatoes, just right for pickles.

 

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