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Optical Illusions

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Jan 31. 66 Replies

This one seems a bit creepy, like the middle one shouldn't be able to change rotation like that. from Cheezburger.comContinue

White House Petition: Change National Motto Back to "E Pluribus, Unum"

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by k.h. ky Jan 22. 8 Replies

There is a petition being sponsored by whitehouse.gov to remove "in god we trust" as the national motto and replace it with the original: "E Pluribus, Unum" or "Out of Many, One."  As of this writing, there are around 11,000 signatures on it, with…Continue

Tags: E Pluribus, Unum, in god we trust, petition

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISIS

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Loren Miller Dec 24, 2015. 3 Replies

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISISGrowth in population, policies and practices that create a gap between the typical person and the wealthy,…Continue

coming out (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Atheist in FundyLand Dec 23, 2015. 6 Replies

Whether as atheist, agnostic, gay / Lesbian or whatever, the process of coming out has been a repeated topic of discussion here on Atheist Nexus and for good reason: it is at once a necessary yet potentially supremely painful process, depending on…Continue

Tags: Lesbian, agnostic, gay, atheist, TheraminTrees

If God Exists (DarkMatter2525)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Dec 23, 2015. 4 Replies

"Practice makes perfect."  That's the concept, isn't it?  Work diligently at something, especially something you enjoy and are adept at, and your skills sharpen, your judgment improves, and the product of your efforts demonstrate that improvement. …Continue

Tags: religion, YouTube, god, DarkMatter2525

Mental health in the age of violence: Dr. Elliott Ingersol

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Randall Smith Dec 1, 2015. 1 Reply

I literally just discovered Dr. Elliott Ingersol yesterday, as a part of a discussion I had with other members of the Northern Ohio Freethought Society.  Dr. Ingersol is a licensed psychologist and clinical counselor in Ohio, as well as a professor…Continue

Tags: talk, psychotropic, therapy, psychology, Elliott Ingersol

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Comment by The Flying Atheist on October 21, 2015 at 9:32am

Welcome back, Randy.  I guess next time you travel you'll reconsider the sleeper car? 

Your flight was delayed in Chicago?  I'm very surprised.  [sarcasm]

Joan, we love you and want you all to ourselves, but we grant you permission to spend time away from us and play with your great-grandchildren.  :)

Ian, I'm always impressed (and a bit jealous) of all the wonderful cultural events you attend.  And such a vast variety.

Comment by Randall Smith on October 21, 2015 at 7:50am

I have returned from visiting two of my children (and one grandchild) in Sac. Calif. It was pleasant enough, although I could do without my son-in-law, a real jerk and ne'er-do-well. I gave my daughter the "Dear Abby" message: "Would you be better off with or without him?" She's thinking.

The 3 day Amtrak trip out was no picnic. Very disappointing and tiring, not at all relaxing. I did meet some nice people, however. All the good scenery (Rockies, N. Calif, etc.) were unseen due to nighttime travel.

My airplane flight back was delayed in Chicago, which created self-stress, phone calls, blah, blah. I think I'm better off just staying home!

Comment by Joan Denoo on October 21, 2015 at 4:25am

Comment by Joan Denoo on October 21, 2015 at 4:14am

It feels nice to be missed, even though I have been reading as many of the Atheist Nexus posts as I can. I come to my room after dinner and start reading my mail and before I am aware, I am fast asleep. I sleep very soundly and feel nicely refreshed in the morning. The dogs bowl me over with their enthusiasm and we have a good walk-about the property every morning filling the bird feeders. Beautiful blue jays and woodpeckers and chickadees often greet us waiting for their wild bird food. A huge flock of turkeys come through every now and then. I haven't seen deer in days even though the population is very large. Hunting season starts soon and I hate the thought of Bambi and his mother being in danger. We have coyotes that sometimes wake me at night with their yipping and a cougar continues to leave evidence of being around. We keep a real eye on the kids, dogs and cats, although we would be virtually helpless if a big cat were hungry. The chickens have a safe roost ,,, I hope. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on October 21, 2015 at 3:35am

Yes, Ruth, I am still here, only very busy with playing with my great-grandkids, helping them with their homework, cooking up hearty meals, helping get a chicken coop ready to keep the family in fresh eggs and tending the greenhouse. The salads taste so very fresh as I pick them just before serving dinner. The kids rave about how much they like salads and we all wait anxiously for the zucchini to bear its treasures. There are dozens of squash forming on one plant, the tomatoes have blossoms as do the beans and peas. We have a Meyers lemon with nine blossoms turning into very tiny lemons. The Clementine orange tree hasn't bloomed yet. Adults in the family use the chainsaw to delimb the fallen trees and the kids and I form the slash into long ditches Travis digs with a backhoe across the hill where they will be buried into hugelkulturs. 

Comment by Ian Mason on October 21, 2015 at 3:30am

Been on a ticket-buying spree. Cumberbatch's "Hamlet" as a cimena streaming in November and John Cleese live in April next year. Enjoyment is expected.

Comment by Ian Mason on October 21, 2015 at 3:28am

A genuine talent, Vangelis.

If you want total relaxation for 8 hours, try this. 5 days left to listen.

http://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/b06db5tv

Comment by Joan Denoo on October 21, 2015 at 2:07am

Vangelis, one of the great composers for relaxation or triumphalistic music that evokes deep emotions in me. 

Comment by The Flying Atheist on October 21, 2015 at 12:56am

A classic composition by Vangelis, the Love Theme from the movie Blade Runner, combined here with the visual beauty of butterflies....

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on October 20, 2015 at 10:48pm

The Jan Laurenz piece reminds me of Vangelis. Perfect for relaxation.

I'll pass on "Martyrer", Ian. Sounds too depressing and plausible.

What happened to Joan? I haven't seen her here for days.

 

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