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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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What Annoys God Most? (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Chris on Thursday. 9 Replies

Long story short, it's those near misses, the almost-but-not-quite, close but no cheroot moments, or, would you believe ... Near Death Experiences!  So what's the big deal?  Betty Bowers, America's BEST Christian and self-proclaimed expert on such…Continue

Tags: Near Death Experiences, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

degrading love — part one (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat Nov 22. 11 Replies

Love is by many considered among the highest of positive emotions.  Yet when love of the type offered by deities is examined, something seems to go seriously wrong.  The love of Yahweh seems less a gift than a demand, not so much beneficence as a…Continue

Tags: TheraminTrees, god, love

Ning, Error 500s, and Whether to Migrate

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Nov 13. 47 Replies

I just got the following notice from Ning yesterday, (31 October, 2016), in the wake of this latest website outage:As some of you may be aware, we experienced a system outage earlier this morning. The cause was due to a specific network…Continue

Tags: downtime, Atheist Nexus, Ning

Introducing Douglas Murray

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 7. 4 Replies

Most of us who have been around atheism for a while know the heavyweights of our ilk.  Names like Hitchens, Dawkins, Dennett, Harris, Dillahunty and AronRa get nearly daily mention in posts and discussions on Atheist Nexus.  One name I was…Continue

Tags: Agatan Foundation, Douglas Murray

If There's a God - She's a Woman - The Author T

Started by Joe. Last reply by Chris Nov 3. 4 Replies

I came across this story and thought some here might find it interesting and humorous.It’s titled:If There’s a GodShe’s a WomanFrom the Series:Things You Can Learn from a VaginaIts on the website TheAuthorT.com under the tab, “Free to Read…Continue

His Dark Materials and the Catholic Church

Started by Tonya R. Wheeler. Last reply by k.h. ky Oct 30. 35 Replies

I recently watched the movie, "The Golden Compass" and since I could not find the sequels, I read the books. I enjoyed them, and I will be reading the first one, Northern Lights, starting tomorrow, since it just arrived via inter-library…Continue

Tags: Fantasy, Catholic, Religion, Atheist, Pullman

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Comment by Joan Denoo on September 12, 2016 at 7:29am

Ian, you look just splendid! Like a man who loves life. 

Comment by Ian Mason on September 12, 2016 at 7:22am

I'm feeling rather tired and sore. On Saturday I took part in a ½-marathon on a new stretch of motorway. That hard asphalt is a difficult surface to run on and seems to drain the energy out of your legs. The weather was hot to with temperatures in the mid 20s C, which is the same as mid 70s F. Tough going, particularly on the long hills. Still, glad I did it and I'm doing another one this coming weekend in a more rural and scenic setting.

Me, post 21km/13 miles:

Comment by Ian Mason on September 12, 2016 at 7:12am

I hope your op goes well, Joan.

The number of people dying in accidents in the Western world has fallen. For example, traffic deaths in Denmark are at an all-time low with the exception of motorcyclists. They don't have seat belts, airbags or crumple zones. I think modern technology prevents  many serious injuries and fatalitieswhile medical expertise increases the chances of survival and recovery.

Comment by Joan Denoo on September 12, 2016 at 7:06am

This is an interesting set of data: 

Causes of fatal residential building fires (2014): Cooking 8.9%

Causes of residential building fires resulting in injuries (2014): 372%

Comment by Joan Denoo on September 12, 2016 at 6:47am

How is that working for you, Qiana? I live in a family of nighthawks, and I am an early bird; well, I used to be. Since I returned to my home, I have become more of a night hawk and life flows a little smoother when our days match up. 

Comment by Qiana-Maieev on September 12, 2016 at 2:48am

I am a night hawk.

Comment by Joan Denoo on September 12, 2016 at 2:45am

Thanks, Qiana. What are you doing up this late? Or are up up for the day?

I can't go to sleep:

The population of the US has risen +43.1% from 1977 to 2013. 

The number of home fires has declined -48.9%.

Good night. 

Comment by Qiana-Maieev on September 12, 2016 at 2:26am

Well wishes, Joan.

Comment by Joan Denoo on September 12, 2016 at 2:24am

BLAST! I did it again. I wrote in response to Daniel's home fires and calculated increase of US population and the decrease of home fires. Then I looked for some other information and in the process, I deleted my comment. It is late, and I don't want to recalculate it. I have to get up at 4:00 AM to get ready for my right-hand surgery. 

I know that will go well; the doctor is a pro and a prince!! He is so young! 

Goodnight everyone. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on September 12, 2016 at 1:23am

Ruth, you have had enough experiences with fire. I assume you have a smoke alarm in your bedroom and that it is loud. I'm glad you were able to awaken your husband. Did you have any permanent lung damage? 

When dad came to live with me after he broke his hip, my greatest fear was fire. He was 79s when he came; his weak muscles wouldn't hold him. He had to walk with a walker.

I had an alarm system installed that tied in with the smoke alarm business, and it had contact with the fire department. 

Dad had many falls the seven years he lived here. I was still working the first few years and then had to stop because he needed constant attention.  

When he fell, I could not get him up; he weighed over 200 pounds. So I called the fire department and told them I needed help picking Dad off the floor. I assured them they need not come as fast as they usually came. Dad was OK, and I could not lift him. The Alarm company and the fire department became friends, on a first name basis. 

We had an alarm that he wore in case he needed attention. He got along fine with it until he got lonesome if I wasn't home. I never locked the doors while he lived with me, the firefighters knew it. When Dad got lonesome, he pushed the button, and the firefighters would come in through the front door and find him happy to see them and ready for a chat. We had to take the alarm away from him.

 

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