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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Men who challenge men to stop violence

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Idaho Spud Jan 9. 19 Replies

Many men join in the effort to reduce violence against women and children and other men. He speaks of the need to place responsibility on men instead of focusing on women to stop violence. He offers a breath of fresh air, as do so many of the men on…Continue

Ian, a beautiful New Years blessing.

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Chris Jan 5. 7 Replies

Ian, for some reason, my comment would not "send" on Hang with Friends; perhaps it will here!Ian, a beautiful New Years blessing. It goes in my file. I especially like the thought of surprising myself. Laura made a special trip to my Spokane home to…Continue

degrading love — part two (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller Jan 1. 0 Replies

TheraminTrees set up religion with his left in Part One of his treatise on how religion demeans and degrades the value of love.  Here in Part Two, he brings in a devastating, "Mike Tyson" right, which negates and invalidates any claim that either…Continue

Tags: Christianity, Islam, TheraminTrees, god, love

The Ark Encounter: A Less than Grand Opening (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Idaho Spud Dec 31, 2016. 27 Replies

The day finally arrived.  Ken Ham's Ark Encounter opened on 7 July, 2016 ... to something a bit less than Disney-sized crowds, and more than a couple dissenting voices!  Seth Andrews has gathered a quartet of significant participants in the protest…Continue

Tags: Tracey Moody, Dan Broadbent, Seth Andrews, David Silverman, AronRa

Learning a Language as a Mature Adult

Started by Daniel W. Last reply by Idaho Spud Dec 14, 2016. 27 Replies

Trying to keep my mind exercised, and not interested in most of the reading materials that I can find.I decided to attempt to learn a language.  Actually, two.  The dilemma is, how do I do that without going to school - not an option - and without…Continue

What Annoys God Most? (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat Dec 7, 2016. 10 Replies

Long story short, it's those near misses, the almost-but-not-quite, close but no cheroot moments, or, would you believe ... Near Death Experiences!  So what's the big deal?  Betty Bowers, America's BEST Christian and self-proclaimed expert on such…Continue

Tags: Near Death Experiences, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

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Comment by Bertold Brautigan on August 28, 2014 at 4:01pm

Booklover - so glad to hear that you got good news!

Comment by The Flying Atheist on August 28, 2014 at 3:36pm
Wonderful news, Mindy! Yay! Hugs.
Comment by sk8eycat on August 28, 2014 at 3:33pm

Mindy: cheers and applause!

Comment by Grinning Cat on August 28, 2014 at 3:22pm

Glad to hear there was no cancer!!

Comment by Idaho Spud on August 28, 2014 at 3:14pm

Glad to hear that Mindy.

Comment by Idaho Spud on August 28, 2014 at 1:54pm

Joan, I usually ride on the road with my recumbent trike for several reasons.  One, there's less snow and ice on the road.  Two, the road is less bumpy than the sidewalks.  

Three, when riding on the sidewalk, I don't like stopping at each intersection, and waiting for all traffic to disappear before I go again.  When riding on the road, I actually feel safer, because cars can see me better.

My ride to work was uphill but was at 6AM, so not much traffic.  My ride home was downhill, so I could keep up with traffic, and rode fully in the roadway just like a car.  Again, I was more visible that way.  I increase my visibility by having a multicolored twirling windsock type of thing on a pole.

My trike does well on ice as long as I didn't push too hard, and it does well with snow, which is usually less than an inch.

With a trike, the 3 wheels means you won't fall over if you slip on ice or snow (or gravel).  

I've only fallen over twice.  Both times were when I was learning and turned corners too sharp and fast.  It happened on dry pavement when there was enough friction to keep my tires from skidding.

Comment by Bertold Brautigan on August 28, 2014 at 7:40am

GC - you reminded me of Woody Allen's crack that if there is a god, he must be an underachiever.

Comment by Plinius on August 28, 2014 at 7:14am

It's our BS-detector, Randall.  "innocent" also irritates me - should I be overjoyed when someone dies who is not innocent? Innocent of what?

Comment by Randall Smith on August 28, 2014 at 6:55am

When I read or hear about "innocent" people being killed (or whatever), I often transfer my sad feelings to a rationalized expression of "See--what kind of god would allow such a thing to happen? Ha. Showed you." I'm not proud of feeling that way, but it helps deaden the sadness.

Comment by sk8eycat on August 28, 2014 at 1:25am

Here's another fun song:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e9bMi4s_yOE&list=PL4F31A2E482D6...

I found a whole slew of Atheist songs on YouTube...don't know why I never looked for any till tonight.
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Grinner, I am SO Mac illiterate that I don't know how to do anything but look at my own ugly face on the screen, and click icons just to see what happens. 

I NEED to learn to use that Mac because this Dell is 10 years old, slowing down, and crashes or freezes at least 4 times a day.  I actually do two small jobs via the net...I don't get paid for them, but it's something to keep me busy for one week a month.

I'm effing BORED!
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When everyone was talking about swearing, I realized that I don't "swear" at all, I just cuss (use dirty words).  I'll say "ohhhhhh sh*t" and the F-word occasionally, but my hyper-religious sister is the one who says "godammit" when she drops a spoon or something equally trivial. I think Homer Simpson is her role model since she has Asperger's Syndrome, and doesn't really understand how real humans behave.  She will be 70 in November....

 

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