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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Secular and Reclaimed Winter Holiday Songs

Started by Grinning Cat. Last reply by Grinning Cat May 2. 42 Replies

This is an appropriate day of the year for this subject...What are some of your favorite winter holiday songs?It would be especially good to share powerful new secular lyrics to tunes that have become associated with Christmas.…Continue

Tags: singing, lyrics, reclaimed, reclaiming, HumanLight

appropriating morality (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo May 1. 7 Replies

We've all heard the claim: "Human morality comes from god."  And we've all seen for ourselves what Yahweh's "morality" looks like, from condemnations of homosexuality and the treatment of women as chattel to inexplicable sanctions against the eating…Continue

Tags: morality, appropriating, TheraminTrees

Bible Belt Atheist (New York Times)

Started by Loren Miller Apr 19. 0 Replies

The following showed up in my YouTube feed this morning, and I decided to have a look.  Turns out, the New York Times has given us a reasonably even-handed look at a good friend of ours, being one Jerry DeWitt, former bible-thumper and now a pretty…Continue

Tags: Bible Belt, atheist, Jerry DeWitt

How would you respond?

Started by Christina Scribner. Last reply by Christina Scribner Apr 10. 5 Replies

So, this morning, I was at my local coffee shop as I am most weekdays between bus runs. I do the editing on my husband's books so I had my laptop with me. My wallpaper is a picture I found online sometime back of a double helix with the word atheist…Continue

The Fake Christian Busybody Show (Andrew Bradley)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Plinius Apr 9. 1 Reply

It seems as though there was a Gay Pride parade in some town somewhere and a Christian commentator, herein known as The Activist Mommy, apparently got her panties so in a bunch about it that she had to fire up her video camera and record a…Continue

Tags: gay, pride, The Activist Mommy, Andrew Bradley, America's Best Christian

America Held Hostage: Day 436 (MisterDeity)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Apr 9. 1 Reply

Now that Sinclair Broadcasting has stated their position regarding fake news and its threat to our democracy, Mister Deity's Brian Dalton has decided to throw his $0.02 worth in as well ... though I don't quite think his presentation was really what…Continue

Tags: fake news, Deity, Mister, Broadcasting, Sinclair

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Comment by Joan Denoo on June 21, 2015 at 11:08am

Happy Fathers' Day to all the Dads on this site. May your day be full to overflowing of people you love and who love you, of delicious food, beautiful sights, pleasant sounds and delightful aromas. 

Today, in 31 minutes the Summer Solstice occurs. I'm harvesting garlic and soaking up the longest day of the year. Randy, I too feel a twinge of sadness that the days will now begin to shorten. 

Comment by Randall Smith on June 21, 2015 at 7:02am

Thank you, Chris, although it saddens me to know the day light hours will be decreasing.

And Happy Fathers Day to all the men out there, fathers or not. I'm treating my 97 yr old father to pizza.

Comment by Plinius on June 21, 2015 at 3:14am

Have a happy solstice!

Comment by Joan Denoo on June 20, 2015 at 10:28am

Fire Science, a class at Newport, WA high school, teaches students the principles of firefighting, and emergency medical services. My great-grandson loves his class and he appears at about 6:21 on this video. The students love the class and learn far more than fire science. They develop life skills that serve them well at their young age and for years to come. I am so very proud of Jacob. 

Comment by The Flying Atheist on June 19, 2015 at 2:02am

I saw that, Ian.  Sorry to hear the bad news.  It's the same situation here.  The Left wants to progress and solve problems.  The Right wants to revert back in time when life was simpler and less complicated.  The problem is, that's just a fantasy.  But they go ahead anyway using the same scare tactics and failed ideology they've always used.  And they're so afraid of incoming (brown) foreigners while totally ignoring the dangerous reality of our homegrown (white) terrorists, nationalists, militias and sovereign citizens. 

Comment by Ian Mason on June 19, 2015 at 1:31am

A gloomy result fro the Danish election. The right-wing won with just over 51% of the votes. The worst of it all is that the Nationalists are now Denmark's second-largest party. The tactic of wipping up a 'brown scare' worked.

Comment by Gerald Payne on June 18, 2015 at 9:06am

Of course neither side is 'innocent', such a generalised term has been used historically to justify all oppression. The truth of the matter is that the Israeli army is an illegal occupying force, used to subdue a people who have a duty to fight for their liberty and right to self determination. Giving soldiers free rein to control a civilian population just about says it all.  

Comment by Randall Smith on June 18, 2015 at 7:21am

Interrupting the current subject: I traded in my '13 Toyota truck for a '15 yesterday. I'm not sure why, exactly. After I bought the '13, I noticed every other vehicle on the road was red--or so it seemed. I'm just not a "red guy". Upon investigation of the possibility of "trading up", I realized I could get a new, not red, one for not much money--$2,350 more to be exact. Sweet deal, I figure. I like the color, "pyrite mica", and its mineral name, being the ex-geology teacher I am.

Comment by Plinius on June 18, 2015 at 12:51am

I agree, neither side is innocent, but the side with most power should have the most empathy.

I knew someone here who was in Auschwitz. After the war he traumatized his wife and young children and in general made life miserable for everyone who met him. "Yes, but he was in Auschwitz.", some people said, and they suffered his bad behaviour. I wouldn't.

Compare such a person to e.g. Wladyslaw Szpilman, who had worse experiences but valued a normal life so much that his children hardly knew his story - they only knew him as a kind father.  https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/W%C5%82adys%C5%82aw_Szpilman

Suffering must NOTbe an excuse to make other people miserable.

Comment by Pat on June 17, 2015 at 1:01pm

I've learned a valuable lesson from the Israeli/Palestinian conflict, and the same lesson from the conflict in Northern Ireland, both of which are motivated by an overlay of nationalism buttressed by religious extremism.

Neither side are innocent. Neither side have clean hands in the conflict. Both sides are capable of, and do, carry out atrocities. And, most importantly, neither have a claim to superior morality based upon their nationalism or religion. Each side have equally good and equally evil humans promoting their respective agendas. Victims on one side, when given a certain amount of power, are easily capable of, and often gleefully, bring misery and death upon victims on the other. And, this leads to ingrained mistrust and hatred, which makes a self-fulfilling prophesy of the impossibility of a peaceful settlement all too real.

 

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