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bending truth, or "We Can All Be Manipulated" (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Compelledunbeliever yesterday. 37 Replies

The following is one of TheraminTrees' most thorough-going pieces, wherein he looks at the process and techniques whereby a "religious" organization (which will sound VERY familiar to most of us, once introductions are made!) takes a person who…Continue

Tags: indoctrination, truth, manipulation, TheraminTrees

punishing doubt (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller Sep 6. 0 Replies

If you are associated with religion and especially a fundamentalist religion, doubt is intolerable.  Certainty, however it may be achieved or imposed, becomes a necessary element, especially considering the utter dearth of any form of evidence or…Continue

Tags: religion, TheraminTrees, punish, doubt

We Don't Want Your (Atheist) Money! (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Idaho Spud Sep 2. 17 Replies

I suppose I've heard stories like this before:Conscientious atheist donates money to worthy cause.Worthy cause initially accepts money.Worthy cause discovers source of donation.Worthy cause rejects donation.Swell, eh?  Well Matt Willbourne of…Continue

Tags: American Baptist Churches Association, Murrow Indian Children's Home, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

The Whole Bible in 30 Seconds (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Randy Hatly Sep 2. 3 Replies

Ever decide that you wanted to read the whole bible, cover to cover, only to realize half-way through Deuteronomy that the darn thing is industrial-strength BORING?!?  Well, never fear!  America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers, has done the Cliff's…Continue

Tags: bible, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Are You a Patriot? (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Chris G Aug 29. 22 Replies

You might think that Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, would be stepping outside of her comfort zone in tackling the concept of patriotism.  As it turns out, not only does she have a proper handle on the term and its implications, she also…Continue

Tags: patriot, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

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Comment by sk8eycat on May 19, 2014 at 6:46pm

Loren, that made me think of the song, "Monday, Monday"...by the Mamas and the Puppies.   ;> P

Comment by Loren Miller on May 19, 2014 at 6:14am

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on May 16, 2014 at 7:04pm

Thanks for the Sapolsky lecture, Joan. Finally got time to listen.

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on May 16, 2014 at 6:45pm

Stress changing the ability to handle stress in future generations, sounds scary.

For a change in mood, how about some incongruous music.

Comment by Idaho Spud on May 16, 2014 at 1:26pm

Joan, It struck a nerve with me when he said if a mother is stressed, the child will have a smaller brain and the part of the brain that handles stress will be much smaller, so it will take that person longer to get their stress under control, when faced with a stressor.

That describes me.  I think my mother was under stress when carrying me.  For one thing, she was afraid of strangers.  I can remember her taking me and hiding in the closet when a salesman would knock.  

Comment by Joan Denoo on May 16, 2014 at 5:18am

Robert Sapolsky discusses "Dutch Hunger Winter" in this video. Start at about 50:00 and he explain the behavioral genetics of stress on pregnant mothers and how the genetic linkages change and last for several generations. 

Comment by Plinius on May 16, 2014 at 1:17am

I didn't know, Joan, thanks for the link. What I noticed about people who lived through the 30s crisis and WWII is a strong tendency to hoard; food, medicine, money, anything that might be useful. Doompreppers. When my mother died she left behind hundreds of margerine packages, empty and neatly cleaned and stacked. Still don't know what she wanted with those.

Comment by Joan Denoo on May 15, 2014 at 11:30pm

Chris, I am sure you know about Traces of Dutch 'Hunger Winter' in genetic material, however, many of us may not know of the facts of that terrible event and the consequences. 

"Conditions in the uterus can give rise to life-long changes in genetic material. People in their sixties who were conceived during the Hunger Winter of 1944-45 in the Netherlands have been found to have a different molecular setting for a gene which influences growth. Researchers from the LUMC are the first to demonstrate this effect. They published their findings this week in PNAS Online Early Edition, together with colleagues from Columbia University."

It is not a new finding, as indicated in this article. People who have studied the effects of hunger on populations have known about this for as long as I have been in the field. What is new is the realization that people, today, are impacted by the effects of that winter 1944-5 in Holland because of genetic changes that occurred during that famine. A new set-point was created in the genetic pool during that pregnancy that continues into today's descendants of that generation

II remember very well that year when British and USA planes dropped food onto Holland because the Germans had taken the food supplies to feed the starving of Germany. My family sent packages to family members in Belgium during that period which included warm clothing, homemade quilts out of old coats, and foods of various kinds. We were on rationing, so sugars and oils were very scarce. 

Comment by k.h. ky on May 15, 2014 at 4:09pm
And, no, fa, she didn't agree. If she had there would be no problem now.
Comment by k.h. ky on May 15, 2014 at 4:07pm
Thanks folks. FA, my daughter was close to my mom but I don't believe any of the other 13 could have came to an an agreement had they been asked. The g kids are all adults. I don't feel they had any say so in it.
sk8ycat, I'm with you on abortion rights.
Patricia, in Ky next of kin can override last wishes, even those made at the funeral home by prior directive. I have a deceased friend whose family did just that.
I think my daughter being an only child is the reason she thinks she should be included in any decisions.
 

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