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Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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11 "unanswerable" questions for atheists - answered (Aron Ra)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Tom Sarbeck Jun 6. 1 Reply

If you spend any time around YouTube and have any history of looking at atheist material (or even theist material!), you will inevitably run into: "XX Questions Atheists Can't Answer."  These are occasionally followed by: "XX Questions Atheists…Continue

Tags: apologist, answer, questions, unanswerable, Aron Ra

worshipping narcissists (qualiasoup & theramintrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Idaho Spud Jun 3. 1 Reply

They're all around us: people who perceive the world as revolving around them and will go to considerable lengths to make it so: narcissists.  Such beings have been with humanity, I suspect, since humanity emerged from the gene pool.  Even worse,…Continue

Tags: narcissist, QualiaSoup, TheraminTrees

Secular and Reclaimed Winter Holiday Songs

Started by Grinning Cat. Last reply by Grinning Cat May 2. 42 Replies

This is an appropriate day of the year for this subject...What are some of your favorite winter holiday songs?It would be especially good to share powerful new secular lyrics to tunes that have become associated with Christmas.…Continue

Tags: singing, lyrics, reclaimed, reclaiming, HumanLight

appropriating morality (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo May 1. 7 Replies

We've all heard the claim: "Human morality comes from god."  And we've all seen for ourselves what Yahweh's "morality" looks like, from condemnations of homosexuality and the treatment of women as chattel to inexplicable sanctions against the eating…Continue

Tags: morality, appropriating, TheraminTrees

Bible Belt Atheist (New York Times)

Started by Loren Miller Apr 19. 0 Replies

The following showed up in my YouTube feed this morning, and I decided to have a look.  Turns out, the New York Times has given us a reasonably even-handed look at a good friend of ours, being one Jerry DeWitt, former bible-thumper and now a pretty…Continue

Tags: Bible Belt, atheist, Jerry DeWitt

How would you respond?

Started by Christina Scribner. Last reply by Christina Scribner Apr 10. 5 Replies

So, this morning, I was at my local coffee shop as I am most weekdays between bus runs. I do the editing on my husband's books so I had my laptop with me. My wallpaper is a picture I found online sometime back of a double helix with the word atheist…Continue

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Comment by Bertold Brautigan on June 4, 2015 at 8:11am

Randall - I'm with you in spirit. Sanders is far and away the best candidate out there and I have no doubt he would be a far superior president to anyone in the field. That said, however, because of our pathetic so-called two-party system that's really a one-party system of unscrupulous opportunists, there's no way in hell he'll ever get elected.

Comment by Randall Smith on June 4, 2015 at 7:35am

Now, to change gears. After watching Bernie Sanders (on Rachel Maddow's MSNBC show), I decided he's the man for me--and my money! I gave a small donation for his campaign. Hey, it worked for candidate Obama!

Comment by Randall Smith on June 4, 2015 at 7:31am

Loren, the King Singers rendition brought tears to my eyes. I love the song (and them), and often play it on the piano experimenting with different chords. By the way, I have the Greatest Hits by Billy Joel. What a genious. Thank you, Loren.

Comment by Plinius on June 4, 2015 at 1:47am

Milky Way!

Comment by Plinius on June 4, 2015 at 1:46am

Climate and social ills often make me worry far beyond what I can do about them. Then I skip 4 billion years and think of the collision milke Way - Andromeda.

Wonderful music, Loren! I love harmony!

Comment by Grinning Cat on June 4, 2015 at 12:53am

Loren, that's an amazing arrangement -- and par for the course for the King's Singers! (I actually got to sing that arrangement in a community choir last year.)

Joan, (and Chris and Ian), I'll echo that we are all on this spaceship together. I just discovered Isaac Asimov's 1988 interviews on Bill Moyers' World of Ideas (transcripts: Part I, Part II; videos: Part I, Part II 1/3, 2/3, 3/3). In Part I, he talks about religion, science, and many other things including the global population explosion, and how equality for women worldwide is essential to our survival:

MOYERS: Why did you say that the price of survival is the equality of women?

ASIMOV: Because if women have full ability to enter into all facets of the human condition, if they can enter business, if they can enter religion, science, government, on an equal basis with men, they will be so busy that they won't feel it is necessary to have a great many children. As long as you have women under conditions where they don't feel any sense of value, no self-worth except as mothers, except as baby factories, they'll have a lot of children. Because that's the only way they can prove they're worth something. [...] if you could somehow raise the status of women, I am certain the birth rate would fall drastically through the choice of the women themselves.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on June 3, 2015 at 11:58pm

Loren, I love The King's Singers.  My parents purchased one of their vinyl albums at a garage sale back in the late 70's/early 80's.  I've been sold on them ever since.  They perform such a large variety of music genres.....and always so eloquently. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on June 3, 2015 at 11:46pm

Loren, this beautiful harmony amazes me. I close my eyes and pretend am one of the singers. (Ha! I can't carry a tune in a bonnet). Thanks!. "And so it goes!

Comment by Loren Miller on June 3, 2015 at 9:28pm

Pardon me if I'm breaking into a conversation here ... but if any of you enjoy Billy Joel and/or the King's Singers, permit me to submit the following for your consideration:

Comment by Joan Denoo on June 3, 2015 at 3:40pm

I know how you fell, Ian. I want to become a street corner shouter as well. If it worked, I would do it. No! It takes something more than shouting! However, what else works. 

Ruth, knowledge about the changing weather patterns does not hit the wealthy or the poor, the educated or uneducated. 

Felaine, population reduction is necessary! We will destroy the plant by our ways of living, even as the population grows so fast. 

Carl, misuse of water, by the wrong people for the wrong purposes just spell disaster for many people. Nestle has never revealed a concern for the health of people. They are concerned about making wealth for themselves out of a scarce commodity. 

Randy, California has always led the way in new technology and behavior. Sadly, they lead us into drought, as well. 

Chris, you and Ian reveal to us USA folks that we are all on this spaceship together. We will all go down with the ship or we can all survive. Change has to occur. It is the new imperative. 

The words "obedience and control" need to be transformed into the words "cooperation and reason". 

Anyone know how to transform words from one to another? 

 

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