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Ignorance is Bliss: Why Religious People Seem Happier Than the 'Nones'”.

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by kathy: ky Aug 9. 4 Replies

“Highly Religious Volunteer More, Lie Less, and Claim to Be Happier”~ Houston Chronicle; “Strongly Religious People are Happier than Non-Religious”  ~ Christian Daily."The study determined that 40 percent of highly religious adults—defined as those…Continue

Tags: Nones, happiness, non-religiosity, religiosity, bliss

If you could rid the world of one thing, what would it be?

Started by Idaho Spud. Last reply by Jonathan Simeone Aug 5. 29 Replies

Today, I heard Seth Andrews talk about the question, "If you could rid the world of one thing, what would it be?"  My first thought was religion, but after a few seconds I decided it would be irrational or anti-scientific thinking.  That would take…Continue

Tags: anti-scientific, irrational

The Bourne Again Identity (Mr. Deity)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Aug 3. 3 Replies

There's a young man, unconscious, found tangled with the bushes which describe the edge of your property, late one evening.  Who is he?  Where did he come from?  These are the questions which confound Ward and Pam as they attempt to deal with a most…Continue

Tags: mystery, Bourne, Brian Dalton, Mr. Deity

Where The Buffalo Roam AGAIN - Allan Savory Institute

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Daniel W Jul 31. 3 Replies

Where The Buffalo Roam AGAIN - Allan Savory InstituteI have followed the Justin Rhodes family for many months and each videa is unique. this one is about their adventures in Colorado, and…Continue

Tags: restore, water, soils, bison, Rhodes

Yasmine Mohammed - Confessions of an Ex-Muslim (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Idaho Spud Jul 7. 6 Replies

Yasmine Mohammed is not your average ex-Muslim.  Not only did she get shut of Islam, she also managed to escape what was at one time the most notorious of radical Islamist organizations: Al Qaeda.  She has since documented the story of her apostasy…Continue

Tags: Islam, Al Qaeda, Yasmine Mohammed, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

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Comment by Bertold Brautigan on November 11, 2014 at 10:23am

Perfect, Mindy. People need to realize that "moderate Christian" and "moderate Muslim" are oxymorons.

Comment by Randall Smith on November 11, 2014 at 7:56am

Three cheers for Carl!! You're a strong person and will handle whatever they throw your way. As for the cost (and stress/worry), I can't imagine "they" would say "no go". There has to be some negotiations you can afford. If not, count me in for some financial help. Good luck. Keep us informed.

Comment by Idaho Spud on November 11, 2014 at 6:33am

What an ordeal.  Hoping the best for you Carl, and I can spare a few dollars to help.

Comment by Plinius on November 11, 2014 at 6:10am

Good to hear from you Carl, but you have a lot to go through!

Comment by Ian Mason on November 11, 2014 at 12:02am

Glad to hear from you, Carl. You have a lot on your plate but you are up to it, I'm sure. We'll be the best support we can be.

Comment by sk8eycat on November 10, 2014 at 11:36pm

Carl, I just wanna give you the biggest, warmest HUG ever!

My computer tech/friend has been on dialysis for 5 years because he doesn't want to go through all that transplant and the aftermath  stuff.....but it's rough on him.  And I worry....not just because he's a good tech....he's a neat person.  And so are you.

There are several fund-raising web sites....most of them charge a percentage of the money raised.  Do a Google search.

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on November 10, 2014 at 10:38pm

Agh! Carl, kidney surgery sounds way too complicated. I wish you luck.

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Comment by Joan Denoo on November 10, 2014 at 9:20pm

Carl, So glad to read your post and understand the stressors that you face. A lot to absorb, as C.S.A.W.S. noted. 

First of all, a money raiser for you here on A/N, if that is allowed.  I have no idea how to start one. Is anyone familiar with this aspect? I can follow directions and work with anyone who can take the lead. Are there any rules or guidelines for doing such a thing?

Will your sisters be donors?  

Yes, you are strong, both physically and mentally and can take on whatever challenge that confronts you. Your medical team, family team, and A/N team stand with you as you progress through this 

Knowing you are busy, I will be patient in receiving news about your progress. Well, no, that isn't true. But never mind, I will look forward to whatever time you have to share with us. 

Do take care, dear friend, 

 

Comment by The Flying Atheist on November 10, 2014 at 8:29pm

Hi, gang.  It's been a busy, stressful and overwhelming few days.  I had a six-hour long orientation on Friday about everything related to kidney transplant surgery.  I listened to a long medical talk with all the details, had two physical examinations by two doctors, had at least a dozen vials of blood drawn, and met with both a dietician and a social worker.  Whew! 

Basically I'm ready both physically and mentally to go ahead with the surgery but with one exception.  I need to show that I have at least three or four months financial reserve available after the surgery that will not only pay my usual housing and living expenses but also to make sure my expensive insurance premium is kept up to date.  After the surgery I will be on about fifteen different medications and will require 24-hour care for the first two weeks alone.  The success of the transplant requires a lot of medical aftercare, and that cannot happen without insurance to pay for it.  

Today I had two doctors appointments.  I need to have two other surgeries before I can go ahead with the kidney transplant.  One is minor and will take place next week.  The second needs to be scheduled as soon as possible so I can heal.  In the meantime I need to raise money for my upcoming financial expenses. 

A stressful time for me?  Yeah, it sure is.  But I'm doing well.  My long-time regular doctor complimented me today on how calmly I'm talking all this.  He said I'm stronger than he thought!  lol 

Thanks again to all of you for your kind thoughts and expressions.  It really means a lot to me. 

Comment by sk8eycat on November 10, 2014 at 6:07pm

Mindy, how many days has it been since you brought Charlie Girl into your home?  It can take a while...two weeks or more....for the older cats to adjust to a kitten that they did not give birth to. 

We have had the Black Blimp (5 years old) for a year now, and she and Pumpkin (almost 16) still are not cozy.  They aren't hissing and fighting, but they don't curl up together, either.  BUT I have also had young cats adopt us, and within a few weeks an older cat will be mothering it....the older cat is often a neutered male.

You just can't predict what will happen.

 

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