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The Playboy Interview: Richard Dawkins

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Chris Feb 19. 14 Replies

I suppose it was the news that Playboy magazine was returning nudes to its pages after a year's hiatus that sufficiently perked my curiosity to check them out again.  I hadn't looked at Playboy since perhaps 2008, when I began to recognize that I…Continue

Tags: Richard Dawkins, Playboy

Such Lyrics!

Started by Donatien Alphonse François. Last reply by Grinning Cat Feb 13. 9 Replies

Hello Friends,I was ruminating a bit today on my sixty-some years existence. My mind went back to teenage years when I first figured out religion is not only obnoxiously loud, but also nothing I wanted anything to do with. Truly. I knew by age 15…Continue

degrading love — part two (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Feb 11. 1 Reply

TheraminTrees set up religion with his left in Part One of his treatise on how religion demeans and degrades the value of love.  Here in Part Two, he brings in a devastating, "Mike Tyson" right, which negates and invalidates any claim that either…Continue

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Questions......

Started by Thomas Murray. Last reply by k.h. ky Feb 9. 6 Replies

   It has been 6 month now since I signed up for Atheist Nexus membership. The past year has been sort of a bi-polar wave of emotions for me. I hope I wasn't offensive to the folks on here and I think I have been but I don't know to who. My desire…Continue

Proud Dad is REALLY Proud Now!

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Chris Jan 31. 15 Replies

As some of you may or may not know, my daughter is a television news producer, currently working in Nashville, Tennessee.  Her assignment is the morning news, which means she blasts herself up at umpti-ump in the morning to organize and prepare a…Continue

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Men who challenge men to stop violence

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Idaho Spud Jan 9. 19 Replies

Many men join in the effort to reduce violence against women and children and other men. He speaks of the need to place responsibility on men instead of focusing on women to stop violence. He offers a breath of fresh air, as do so many of the men on…Continue

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Comment by Idaho Spud on August 15, 2014 at 10:30am

Throwing cigarette butts out of the car is bad, but what frosts my tush the worst is throwing them in my garden.  I garden my front yard, and areas between the sidewalk and road, so I get some in my gardens every day.  It's like they don't even think.  Just toss them anywhere.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on August 15, 2014 at 10:27am

Thanks, Spud.  I listened to his wedding podcast yesterday, as a matter of fact.  I've been a huge fan and regular listener of his since he first emerged on the atheist scene. 

I'm typically not a thrill-seeker either but to be honest, I wouldn't mind jumping out of a plane (with a parachute, of course.)  I would do that before I go white water rafting.  For some reason, dying in the water seems worse to me than going 'splat' on the ground.  lol

Comment by k.h. ky on August 15, 2014 at 10:22am
I recycle everything l possibly can. The hatchback of my little car is always full of plastic and papers. Recycle bins are few and far between in the country.
I've always composted too. If I could find a place to put vegetable scraps that's where they went.
Another thing I don't understand people not doing and a huge issue between me and my daughter. If I'm at her house and see a pile of newspaper's l throw them in my hatch and take them out with mine.
Comment by Idaho Spud on August 15, 2014 at 10:19am

Carl, I've just been listening to Seth Andrews talk about his wedding, and at one point he reminded me of the discussion about working on the towers you showed us pictures of.  

He said he's not a thrill seeker at all, but let his wife talk him into going down some #5 rapids in Alaska, where they all got dumped in a bad place.

I'm not much of a thrill seeker, and have never done any of the things like that.  However, It's just because I've not had the money, the opportunity, or the time.  

I'm too old now, and have very little money, but I would have liked to have done several relatively safe thrilling things just once each.  

Just once each, I would have liked to do a bungee jump, skydive, and probably several other things I can't think of right now.

I mentioned before that I would have liked to climb that tower you showed pictures from, but I think I remember you saying what kind of person would want to do that job, and I don't think I would.  Like all the other thrilling things I would like to do, one climb would be enough.

Fear would not be the reason I wouldn't want to work there.  Working there every day would probably be more dangerous than I would want, but mostly it would just be hard work and annoying having to be strapped to the tower all the time.

Be that as it may, I thought Seth's wedding experiences were interesting, so here they are:

Comment by Bertold Brautigan on August 15, 2014 at 10:12am

To me one of the worst things is people who throw cigarettes out of cars. They could get me re-thinking my position on capital punishment. Death to all extremists!!!

Comment by The Flying Atheist on August 15, 2014 at 10:05am

K.H., I've mentioned it here before, but in the early 1970's when I was an impressionable kid, the whole Ecology and push to recycle made a huge impact on me.  I'm sure you recall the famous image of the native-American with the tear in his eye looking over a landscape of trash.     

Comment by k.h. ky on August 15, 2014 at 9:52am
Carl, littering is a major pet peeve of mine too. I'm always picking up garbage in parking lots and putting it in the trash can. Which is never far away.
What's with these lazy slobs that they can't be bothered to walk three feet instead of throwing garbage on the ground?
I just don't understand some people.
Comment by The Flying Atheist on August 15, 2014 at 9:38am

Mindy, I hope moving day goes smoothly for you today. 

Comment by Idaho Spud on August 15, 2014 at 7:55am

Mindy, does that leave you with no cats?

Comment by Randall Smith on August 15, 2014 at 7:28am

I've decided to compromise: I am going to write, but only say I won't be buying their products because of their inane "guiding principles". I won't berate their beliefs. That's never been one of my own g.p's. Thanks for the input.

Mindy, good luck to your daughter--and you! A cat? I love my "pound dog"!

 

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