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God's Annual Performance Review (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on Monday. 6 Replies

I don't know about you guys, but there wasn't a performance review I had in 30 years of field service that I didn't LOATHE.  It seems as though Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, is up for turning the tables on the person you would expect would…Continue

Tags: review, performance, god, American's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Learning a Language as a Mature Adult

Started by Daniel W. Last reply by Joan Denoo Mar 2. 28 Replies

Trying to keep my mind exercised, and not interested in most of the reading materials that I can find.I decided to attempt to learn a language.  Actually, two.  The dilemma is, how do I do that without going to school - not an option - and without…Continue

The Playboy Interview: Richard Dawkins

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Chris Feb 19. 14 Replies

I suppose it was the news that Playboy magazine was returning nudes to its pages after a year's hiatus that sufficiently perked my curiosity to check them out again.  I hadn't looked at Playboy since perhaps 2008, when I began to recognize that I…Continue

Tags: Richard Dawkins, Playboy

Such Lyrics!

Started by Donatien Alphonse François. Last reply by Grinning Cat Feb 13. 9 Replies

Hello Friends,I was ruminating a bit today on my sixty-some years existence. My mind went back to teenage years when I first figured out religion is not only obnoxiously loud, but also nothing I wanted anything to do with. Truly. I knew by age 15…Continue

degrading love — part two (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Feb 11. 1 Reply

TheraminTrees set up religion with his left in Part One of his treatise on how religion demeans and degrades the value of love.  Here in Part Two, he brings in a devastating, "Mike Tyson" right, which negates and invalidates any claim that either…Continue

Tags: Christianity, Islam, TheraminTrees, god, love

Questions......

Started by Thomas Murray. Last reply by k.h. ky Feb 9. 6 Replies

   It has been 6 month now since I signed up for Atheist Nexus membership. The past year has been sort of a bi-polar wave of emotions for me. I hope I wasn't offensive to the folks on here and I think I have been but I don't know to who. My desire…Continue

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Comment by Grinning Cat on August 23, 2014 at 4:18pm

Speaking of body transplants, one bit of SF I wouldn't mind having in the real world is the medical technology in John Varley's Steel Beach. Not only are most ailments handled as uneventfully as when we take a car to a (competent, honest) mechanic, but in that world many people routinely get new bodies every decade or two in adulthood.

But Wait, There's More! It's not uncommon for people to switch genders when they simply feel like a change. In addition to getting "original equipment" with full sexual and reproductive functionality, they obviously benefit from tech to successfully shape gender identity too. Anyway, it's noteworthy that in that society you're only considered a full adult once you've lived as a woman and as a man. (Goodbye sexism!)

(One short story set in that world featured a teenage boy with the knack of recognizing people across body changes, by their mannerisms, speech patterns, and so forth. One day his doorbell rings and he finds someone he's never seen before... except he recognizes her as his best friend, who'd been a guy but managed to get a body and gender change earlier than usual. Now she's intent on getting into the sack with him, and he's freaked out by the prospect, having never thought of his friend in those terms!)

Comment by The Flying Atheist on August 23, 2014 at 3:37pm

I try to look decent when I leave the house as well.  I do have some self-respect. 

I see people at the airport ready to board planes in outfits I wouldn't wear to walk out to the alley to take out the trash. 

Comment by Idaho Spud on August 23, 2014 at 3:34pm

Carl, The Big Bang Theory makes me laugh out loud quite often, something that rarely happens with other shows.  The first season was especially hilarious.  Knee-slappers one after another the whole 20 minutes.

Comment by Idaho Spud on August 23, 2014 at 3:31pm

It's been raining a lot here as well.  That is, a lot for Pocatello.  One inch in the last 2 days, and another the 2 weeks before that.

Ordinarily, I like rain, but it's also been cool for the last 2 weeks, and my watermelon don't respond well to cool weather.  I've got some big ones, but if this keeps up, they won't ripen.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on August 23, 2014 at 3:24pm

Thanks for the great offer, Patricia.  Sounds like a good deal to me.  Hope your PC connectivity issues clear up quickly. 

Spud, that's a funny Big Bang Theory clip.  I really like that show a lot. 

Mindy, the deluge of rain just finished up here in Chicago.  Wow!  What a rainstorm!  Very intense with lots of lightening.  The lights in my apartment flickered on and off several times.  I was worried about loosing my power, but all is well in the end.    

Comment by Idaho Spud on August 23, 2014 at 2:21pm

I'm with sheldon.  It looks like I'm going to miss "when man will be able to transfer his consciousness into a machine and achieve immortality." by "that much."

Comment by Idaho Spud on August 23, 2014 at 2:07pm

Patricia, I want a new body transplant too!  I'd even be willing to pay full price.

I was going to ask if someone knew where you were, as I hadn't heard from you in a week.

Comment by Idaho Spud on August 23, 2014 at 2:04pm

Mindy, if you find a place to buy a new digestive system, let me know! :)

Comment by Ian Mason on August 23, 2014 at 11:58am

True, that. Looks and appearance give positive reactions. I once saw my ex-dentist and her receptionist reduced to giggling schoolgirls by a "handsome hunk". They didn't even care that his credit cards were rejected and he couldn't pay. The dentist looked very disappointed when she saw that I was the next patient.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on August 23, 2014 at 9:58am

I like Patricia's purple cat also!  lol

 

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