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Ignorance is Bliss: Why Religious People Seem Happier Than the 'Nones'”.

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by kathy: ky Aug 9. 4 Replies

“Highly Religious Volunteer More, Lie Less, and Claim to Be Happier”~ Houston Chronicle; “Strongly Religious People are Happier than Non-Religious”  ~ Christian Daily."The study determined that 40 percent of highly religious adults—defined as those…Continue

Tags: Nones, happiness, non-religiosity, religiosity, bliss

If you could rid the world of one thing, what would it be?

Started by Idaho Spud. Last reply by Jonathan Simeone Aug 5. 29 Replies

Today, I heard Seth Andrews talk about the question, "If you could rid the world of one thing, what would it be?"  My first thought was religion, but after a few seconds I decided it would be irrational or anti-scientific thinking.  That would take…Continue

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The Bourne Again Identity (Mr. Deity)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Aug 3. 3 Replies

There's a young man, unconscious, found tangled with the bushes which describe the edge of your property, late one evening.  Who is he?  Where did he come from?  These are the questions which confound Ward and Pam as they attempt to deal with a most…Continue

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Where The Buffalo Roam AGAIN - Allan Savory Institute

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Daniel W Jul 31. 3 Replies

Where The Buffalo Roam AGAIN - Allan Savory InstituteI have followed the Justin Rhodes family for many months and each videa is unique. this one is about their adventures in Colorado, and…Continue

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Comment by The Flying Atheist on November 4, 2014 at 4:27pm

Joan, you are absolutely right about how hard it is doing campaign and political work.  In years past I've volunteered for the election campaign of a city alderwoman.  That's very time consuming and you have encounters with every type of citizen and viewpoint imaginable. 

I've worked on election day at the polling place (that was fun.)  But the toughest job was going door to door getting enough signatures on a petition to have a liquor license revoked for a neighborhood skid-row tavern.  Pretty much everyone dislikes having unexpected visitors ringing their door bell, myself included.  It can be very difficult getting people engaged in the political and democratic process 

Comment by Grinning Cat on November 4, 2014 at 4:06pm

I've also participated in door-to-door campaigning, a few years ago, and more recently (including yesterday and today) with various progressive organizations that let you call voters from home.

The system makes one (long) call to your phone number, and connects you to different people. (To them, it shows an in-state number for caller ID, not your actual number.) You see the script and enter information in your web browser.

People react more positively to a live human being volunteering for MoveOn, or Democracy for America, or whatever, as opposed to those annoying robocalls. Some still don't want any political cold calls, but some will talk with you. Helping progressive voters have a plan in mind (such as driving to the school where the polling place is, in the evening after work) makes them more likely to actually vote.

Comment by sk8eycat on November 4, 2014 at 3:34pm

Before the primaries, I had a personal call from a candidate who was running as a "no-party"....we talked for about 15 minutes about a lot of things, and he fascinated me.  So I voted for him, and he beat the rethuglican challenger, but not the incumbent (who has been in DC too long).  Anyroad, he was on the final ballot, so I voted for him again.  The results will be interesting.

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 4, 2014 at 3:19pm

Oh! I used to be the person who made personal calls on behalf of candidates I supported. I must say, there were other jobs I liked better. Some people liked the calls, some had questions, some needed rides to vote some had questions for the candidate for whom I would find the correct answers. 

I really like writing position papers for candidates. That was a challenge, because there were so many interests that had to be addressed.

I really liked doorbelling in neighborhoods. I got an ear-full and would get the information back to the candidates. 

The planning sessions with candidates were exciting, with a lot of debating and having to find options that were compatible with the candidate. Facing people who held opposing views was a challenge and good training. 

So, the next time you have a live call, or a person knocking on the door, think of me and my tiny little bits of effort to get a candidate elected. 

Comment by Bertold Brautigan on November 4, 2014 at 1:32pm

@sk8eycat - no, you're not overreacting. I used to absolutely hate those robo-calls too, for exactly the same reason. If the scumbags can't even be bothered to have a real human talk to you, they are cordially invited to go f*ck themselves.

Comment by sk8eycat on November 4, 2014 at 12:54pm

I am seriously considering sending a letter to the Los Angeles Times to let every politician and initiative supporter/opponent know that if I get a robo-call from ANY of them, I will vote against them, or not vote at all.  I don't know if the Times will publish it, but I'm worn out from running to catch the phone (and sometimes tripping over a cat running in front of me) only to hear an impersonal recorded voice.  If they can't be bothered to talk to ME, as a live person, I can't be bothered to vote for them, or their cause(s).  I may also include the tons of begging emails I've received from candidates in other states and congressional districts...I delete them immediately, but that takes up more of my personal time.

Am I over-reacting?

Comment by Idaho Spud on November 4, 2014 at 12:28pm

Almost funny Ian, but too close to the truth to get a smile out of me.

Comment by Ian Mason on November 4, 2014 at 12:25pm

Nice cat, Mindy. Hope she settles in.

Politicians:

Comment by sk8eycat on November 4, 2014 at 11:20am

Oh, Mindy, kiss her little nose for me!  I love torties!  (And orange tabbies, black cats, and every other color of cat....)

Comment by Bertold Brautigan on November 4, 2014 at 11:03am

Nice, GC. That is pure, unadulterated truth.

 

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