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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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God's Annual Performance Review (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on Monday. 6 Replies

I don't know about you guys, but there wasn't a performance review I had in 30 years of field service that I didn't LOATHE.  It seems as though Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, is up for turning the tables on the person you would expect would…Continue

Tags: review, performance, god, American's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Learning a Language as a Mature Adult

Started by Daniel W. Last reply by Joan Denoo Mar 2. 28 Replies

Trying to keep my mind exercised, and not interested in most of the reading materials that I can find.I decided to attempt to learn a language.  Actually, two.  The dilemma is, how do I do that without going to school - not an option - and without…Continue

The Playboy Interview: Richard Dawkins

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Chris Feb 19. 14 Replies

I suppose it was the news that Playboy magazine was returning nudes to its pages after a year's hiatus that sufficiently perked my curiosity to check them out again.  I hadn't looked at Playboy since perhaps 2008, when I began to recognize that I…Continue

Tags: Richard Dawkins, Playboy

Such Lyrics!

Started by Donatien Alphonse François. Last reply by Grinning Cat Feb 13. 9 Replies

Hello Friends,I was ruminating a bit today on my sixty-some years existence. My mind went back to teenage years when I first figured out religion is not only obnoxiously loud, but also nothing I wanted anything to do with. Truly. I knew by age 15…Continue

degrading love — part two (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Feb 11. 1 Reply

TheraminTrees set up religion with his left in Part One of his treatise on how religion demeans and degrades the value of love.  Here in Part Two, he brings in a devastating, "Mike Tyson" right, which negates and invalidates any claim that either…Continue

Tags: Christianity, Islam, TheraminTrees, god, love

Questions......

Started by Thomas Murray. Last reply by k.h. ky Feb 9. 6 Replies

   It has been 6 month now since I signed up for Atheist Nexus membership. The past year has been sort of a bi-polar wave of emotions for me. I hope I wasn't offensive to the folks on here and I think I have been but I don't know to who. My desire…Continue

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Comment by Idaho Spud on August 23, 2014 at 8:28am

Sorry I misspelled your name Chris.  I may have been doing it for a long time.  Giving myself 20 lashes with a wet noodle.

Comment by Idaho Spud on August 23, 2014 at 8:15am

Patricia, when I said I don't like avatars changing too often, I hope you didn't take offense.  I just had the thought that you might because you've been changing yours lately.

I just get temporarily confused when I see a new avatar.  It is my problem, not yours.

You are one of my best friends, and whatever you do is fine by me.

By the way, I've been wanting to tell you:  That purple cat is attractive.

Comment by Idaho Spud on August 23, 2014 at 8:04am

Mindy, I'm also glad that real friends don't care about weight here.

Comment by Idaho Spud on August 23, 2014 at 8:00am

Relatively speaking, I'm not vain either, but I do get embarrassed by my overweight when I have to take my clothing off in front of a doctor &/or nurse.

I also like to dress nicely when I go to town.  It's not all vanity because I've read that you get much better service when you're well-dressed.

Comment by Idaho Spud on August 23, 2014 at 7:54am

Cris, thank you much for your input and compliment.

Carl, I thank you much for your compliment as well.

Comment by Idaho Spud on August 23, 2014 at 7:51am

Oh, yes Randall.  I don't like those big capital A's either.  I also don't like some avatars where it looks like the person has went out of their way to make the ugliest thing they could think of.  I'm not talking about any of you regulars, of course.

I've had the thought that my family could track me down through my childhood picture.  They all have copies of it and I let my brother know that I was going to use it online, and he ask me to point to it when I used it.

I think he just wanted to see how I made it look because he's a photographer.  I didn't let him know where I put it, I just sent him the picture in an e-mail, and that may have satisfied him.

However, it might be they have found me years ago, and just haven't mentioned it.  However, if that were the case, I think one of my sisters that is very vocal, would have commented about some of my posts where she strongly disagreed or thought I said something wrong about her or other members of the family.

I agree that at our age, we have no good reason to be worried about what other people think.  I'm working on it, and I'm almost there.

Comment by Randall Smith on August 23, 2014 at 7:14am

Spud, I meant no offense. With or without a current photo, I can see you in my mind's eye. I just don't like to see one of those big capital A's. I can understand your reluctance to go "current". Don't you think your family could "track you down" through your childhood picture? Besides, at your (our) age, why should we be worried about what other people think? Bottom line, it's no big deal, either way.

Comment by Plinius on August 23, 2014 at 3:00am

Never mind, Spud, the image of you created by your words is stronger and more beautiful. I can't even use a baby picture; I've been overweight from birth. Age is really freeing, to me at least. I always hated the awkwardness you get when you try to talk to people but they are checking your sexual usefulness in the meantime - it breaks down any sensible conversation. Now that I'm in category ´useless´ I can talk to any person. I'm not vain but I like to look well cared for.

Comment by Idaho Spud on August 22, 2014 at 12:43pm

Thanks Carl.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on August 22, 2014 at 12:33pm

Spud, whatever you decide to do is fine with me.  I have to admit, I always thought the picture of you on the phone with the cat by your side was very, very cute. 

I changed my photo because the last one was seven years old and I've put on weight since then and grown older looking.  Such is life!

If you wish to have your privacy respected, that's totally understandable. 

For whatever it's worth, I'd bet the farm that displaying a current photo of you with some added weight would not matter one bit to any of us here.  You're a great guy and that is what really matters.  Just do whatever is comfortable for you.   

 

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