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Comment by The Flying Atheist on March 6, 2014 at 10:01pm

I had the honor of seeing Woody Herman and his Big Band three times in my life.  Twice in high school in a concert setting.  The third and final time I was probably just 21 and able to legally get into bars/clubs.  Woody was performing at Rick's Cafe Americain here in Chicago.  A classic jazz club.  A fairly small room.  Small round tables tightly arranged together and each with a candle.  I was seated right up front, an arms length away from the piano.  And before me, just several feet away, was one row each of saxophones, trombones and trumpets.  A wall of intense, electrifying music fronted by Woody Herman and his clarinet.  It's one of those unforgettable and sublime musical memories.  

When I used to work in downtown Chicago, my office was just three blocks from The Jazz Showcase, another infamous jazz club.  Occasionally by boss and I would go have dinner after work and then head to the jazz club.  I recall seeing both Tal Farlow and Ray Brown perform there. 

Comment by sk8eycat on March 6, 2014 at 8:26pm

Oh, la!  It seems like 100 years since I've been to a jazz club (Shelly's Manne- Hole in Hollywood)A friend worked there as a maitre d' and he would slip me in...

We also used to hit a lot of the better clubs in the French Quarter when we played New Orleans...different kind of jazz, but fun.  Double fun to actually meet, and shake hands with the likes of Al Hirt and Pete Fountain. (Sometimes the musicians who toured with us would sit in with the "big names" for a few sets.  So cool!)

Them wuz the dayz.

Comment by Loren Miller on March 6, 2014 at 7:33pm

No argument, Carl, though I'd likely opt for a snifter of a good single-malt.  It's one for the desert island, for sure.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on March 6, 2014 at 7:30pm

Ah, yes, Loren.  A great choice of music.  I have this album.  It's a classic.  Pair this with a glass of wine and it will take you to wonderful places. 

Comment by Loren Miller on March 6, 2014 at 7:17pm

In anticipation of Friday and the weekend, here's something to ease down with.  I can truthfully say that this has been a favorite of mine for crowding half a century.

Ladies and gentlemen: Messrs. Stan Getz and Joao Gilberto - Corcovado.

Comment by Loren Miller on March 6, 2014 at 3:59pm

Now bleu cheese I WON'T give up, especially not bleu cheese dressing for my Buffalo Hot Wings (which I'm also not giving up!).

Comment by Idaho Spud on March 6, 2014 at 3:57pm

I'm giving-up 800 year old pickled eggs, and blue cheese.

Comment by sk8eycat on March 6, 2014 at 2:24pm
Comment by Loren Miller on March 6, 2014 at 1:29pm

I'm way ahead of you, Carl.  Gave up haggis years ago ... along with Brussels sprouts.  :-P~~~~~

Comment by The Flying Atheist on March 6, 2014 at 1:02pm

I'm making the extreme sacrifice for Lent.  I'm giving up haggis. 

 

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