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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Goodwill to Few Men (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Donald R Barbera Jul 23. 3 Replies

Think Goodwill Industries does well by the poor?  Fact is, they do WAY BETTER for themselves, to the point where America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers, thinks they're ripping off the christian playbook a bit too well!  Have a look for yourself:…Continue

Tags: ripoff, Goodwill Industries, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Your favorite photobombs?

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Plinius Jul 10. 12 Replies

Running of the bulls photobomb.Continue

losing faith (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller Jul 5. 0 Replies

TheraminTrees has recently begun producing a new series of YouTube videos, which added to a wonderful library of earlier observations regarding his experience of religion. Good as all those pieces are, I personally think they pale against this…Continue

Tags: story, history, faith, TheraminTrees

Betty Explains Religious Freedom (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Jul 3. 10 Replies

Well, considering all the RFRA bills popping up all over the United States, plus all the fun and games ISIS is bringing to the good folks in Syria and Iraq, Betty Bowers, the epitome of well-dressed christianity, has decided to clarify the true…Continue

Tags: persecution, ISIS, Religious Freedom, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner May 6. 82 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

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Let's not define ourselves or others by our worst behaviors

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Dominique Lutz Apr 16. 6 Replies

My take on the recent melt down at Hang With Friends, of which I missed part, is that some of us were tripped up by a habit of thought. It's something we learn growing up, and use without realizing how much pain it can generate -  failing to…Continue

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Comment by Joan Denoo on September 27, 2013 at 10:36pm

When I was first diagnosed with diabetes several years ago I went to a registered nutritionist and she put me on a high protein, low carb diet, to which I was very faithful. I became very sick and my M.D. put me on another regimen of no white bread, rice, sugars. I love whole grains and used Dave's Killer bread, chuck full of seeds. I couldn't tolerate seeds when I started chemo. I should be able to handle them now. I am back on the the diabetic routine but with very small portions. My stomach shrunk down those two weeks I could not keep any food inside me. 

I feel great, just weary. That is fine. In fact, I went to The Grand Yarn store today and took a lesson in knitting; I am now knitting me a hat to keep my bald head warm. We have bitterly cold winds today. BRRRRRR!

Thanks for the lead to the book, "Good Calories, Bad Calories" by Gary Taubes sk8eycat. I'll look into it. 

For those interested in cancer, my neighbor recommended, 

"The Emperor of all Maladies: A biography of Cancer", by 

Siddhartha Mukherjee.

I've read only the first chapter and find it interesting. 

Comment by sk8eycat on September 27, 2013 at 9:57pm

Ruth, I am diabetic...or I was.  I don't know what I am now, my last A1c was 5.2 (it had been 5.7 or lower for more than two years), and I was having so many hypoglycemic attacks (starting in July) that I stopped taking the Glucotrol XL that I'd been on for 13 years, and my glucose readings at home are still almost always 115mg dl, or lower.

The only thing I have done, that I can think of, was that I read (and re-read many times) Good Calories, Bad Calories by Gary Taubes 2+ years ago, and put things like bacon and other meats that the Fat Police hate back in my diet, and switched to whole grains whenever I could.  (I stopped using white sugar the day I was diagnosed, and switched to Splenda for cooking and to sweeten my tea.) Oh, and I eat a lot of lettuce and broccoli.  That's all.  I have always used butter because IMO margarines are made out of plastic and axle grease, and you can't cook with them. I have lost 30 lbs so far, without feeling deprived, overly hungry, or craving sweets...and I love desserts as much as any Adult Child.

We have been lied to about "healthy foods" for over 100 years...by sloppy researchers who were and are largely funded by the giant food-processing companies such as Kraft, Con-Agra, and the cereal manufacturers. (The only cereal I eat is oatmeal... on cold mornings.)

Fatty foods are NOT the Bad Guys, simple carbohydrates are.  White flour, white sugar, white rice, etc.  They do strange things to the body's demand for insulin, and unbalance everything.  (It's the 3 layers of white bread on a Big Mac that kicks the carbs up.)

Before I got the "whiteness" out of my diet, I was still keeping my blood sugar between 85 and 140, and I DID eat potatoes (both Idaho AND "yams") maybe once or twice a month...I only make rice when I'm going to have stir-fry, and I've been using only brown rice for the past few years.

I'm not trying to lecture you, but I do seriously recommend that book.  Our doctors tell us what the NIH and CDC tells them, and those organizations are behind the times, especially on the matter of fat in our diets.  I know it's counter-intuitive, but bacon, sausage, hamburger, bone-in skin-on chicken, and butter don't go directly from the stomach to the arteries.

I will admit that British sausages...Bangers...have a lot of bread crumbs in the mix, but I only go to Buchanan's every other year or so. I can't handle more ecstasy than that. [slides under the table just thinking about it]

Read the book...EVERYBODY!

Comment by Joan Denoo on September 27, 2013 at 5:43pm

Has anyone heard from Sentient? The last comment I read, he was not having such a good day. 

Comment by Plinius on September 27, 2013 at 3:34pm

Yes Tony, that's what what I thought too. I was born in a closed reli community, and I still remember the shock and the wonder of discovering different people - so I wish the young man the same.

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on September 27, 2013 at 3:04pm

They both look delicious, but not on my diet. As a diabetic I avoid potatoes and sausage. Ah, memory lane. At least If can remember what such food tastes like.

Comment by Joan Denoo on September 27, 2013 at 2:48pm

Bubble & squeak

I make it with left over roast beef, potatoes and any vegetables I used with the roast. Cabbage goes well with this. 


Comment by Joan Denoo on September 27, 2013 at 2:41pm
Comment by Joan Denoo on September 27, 2013 at 2:38pm
Mindy, wonderful story of your son' expression of affection. Is he as expressive when not under the influence of anesthesia?
Yes, Banger is a sausage and Mash is mashed potatoes.
Comment by Joan Denoo on September 27, 2013 at 2:30pm

Tony, outstanding film, "The role of democracy". Brian Cox is our newest Carl Sagan. I just get goose bumps when I watch or read anything by Cox. Thanks.

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on September 27, 2013 at 1:53pm

sk8eycat, what's a "banger"?

Joan, I went to the Diabetes group and saw a like on my discussion. So I pressed it, thinking it would tell me who liked it. The like jumped, momentarily from 1 to 2, then reverted to -1. I appreciate your interest. Guess I'll never know what happened.

Tony, Brian Cox's video was great. However, I don't agree that today's society is entirely based on science and the technology arising from it. Our society has loads of superstition, hatred, structural inefficiency and insanity built into how it works. We have a long way to go before we have a science-based society, in fact most people can't even imagine one.

 

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