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Ignorance is Bliss: Why Religious People Seem Happier Than the 'Nones'”.

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by kathy: ky Aug 9. 4 Replies

“Highly Religious Volunteer More, Lie Less, and Claim to Be Happier”~ Houston Chronicle; “Strongly Religious People are Happier than Non-Religious”  ~ Christian Daily."The study determined that 40 percent of highly religious adults—defined as those…Continue

Tags: Nones, happiness, non-religiosity, religiosity, bliss

If you could rid the world of one thing, what would it be?

Started by Idaho Spud. Last reply by Jonathan Simeone Aug 5. 29 Replies

Today, I heard Seth Andrews talk about the question, "If you could rid the world of one thing, what would it be?"  My first thought was religion, but after a few seconds I decided it would be irrational or anti-scientific thinking.  That would take…Continue

Tags: anti-scientific, irrational

The Bourne Again Identity (Mr. Deity)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Aug 3. 3 Replies

There's a young man, unconscious, found tangled with the bushes which describe the edge of your property, late one evening.  Who is he?  Where did he come from?  These are the questions which confound Ward and Pam as they attempt to deal with a most…Continue

Tags: mystery, Bourne, Brian Dalton, Mr. Deity

Where The Buffalo Roam AGAIN - Allan Savory Institute

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Daniel W Jul 31. 3 Replies

Where The Buffalo Roam AGAIN - Allan Savory InstituteI have followed the Justin Rhodes family for many months and each videa is unique. this one is about their adventures in Colorado, and…Continue

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Yasmine Mohammed - Confessions of an Ex-Muslim (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Idaho Spud Jul 7. 6 Replies

Yasmine Mohammed is not your average ex-Muslim.  Not only did she get shut of Islam, she also managed to escape what was at one time the most notorious of radical Islamist organizations: Al Qaeda.  She has since documented the story of her apostasy…Continue

Tags: Islam, Al Qaeda, Yasmine Mohammed, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

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Comment by Ian Mason on May 4, 2017 at 1:48pm

Denmark has had sleet, hail and frost up to the end of April but has survived.

Joan, I admire how much you love your life. Your memories of Cary must be sad and sweet together. I'm glad that his trees and plants are flourishing for you.

Great fountains, Carl. Yes, they are one of the bright things about this season.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on May 4, 2017 at 1:26pm

What I like about the Spring season is that all the fountains get turned on again.

Chicago's Fabulous Fountains from Julia Thiel on Vimeo.

Comment by Daniel W on May 4, 2017 at 1:12pm

Spud, I took that as possibly an atheist with their commentary on all of the religious crazies, plus a commentary on annoying tailgaters.  Wishful thinking on my part.  The same coffee house lot did have a car with a darwin fish.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on May 4, 2017 at 12:46pm

Joan, we had a overnight frost warning here two days ago, so Old Man Winter is not quite ready to begin his slumber for the season.

I'm glad you have fond memories of Cary, despite their melancholy nature.  Living, growing plants are a beautiful and appropriate way to honor and remember life.

Comment by Idaho Spud on May 4, 2017 at 11:30am

Oh, not are you an idiot like me, but do you love jesus as much as I do?   I just couldn't resist making it a little closer to the truth.

Comment by Idaho Spud on May 4, 2017 at 11:27am

I guess it is a religious person.  Perhaps saying two things.  One, you're following too close, and two, are you an idiot like me?

Comment by Idaho Spud on May 4, 2017 at 11:26am

Daniel, I'm not sure if that's a religious person or not, with that following Jesus this close sign.  What say you?

Comment by Joan Denoo on May 4, 2017 at 10:57am

Lovely, warm, sunny weather arrives giving the forest reminders that spring just sprung. My seedlings in the greenhouse planted to go into my raised beds in the meadow look robust. The wise gardener in this far northern climate knows there will be another spring freeze, at least that is the typical pattern.

Laura and I drove into Spokane yesterday, 50 miles south of Newport, and the trees, shrubs, and bulbs blaze with color. We visited my home, and because I grow only perennials and the soil is fertile, the spring flowers put on their yearly show. The neglected garden doesn't matter because a day or two of work clears out all the overgrowth. We can get it beautifully groomed in just a few hours.

I no longer have the strength or stamina to do that kind of labor. However, I have two fine men who helped me over the past 20 years, one of them helped me plant the original design; he has a green thumb! He loves my design as much as I do. The other is a skilled gardener, prunes the tall shrubs and trees that I can't reach, and he does an almost as beautiful job as Cary did.

Cary grew into a first-rate gardener; he would have made a comfortable life using those skills had he lived. He didn't particularly like gardening, but he did needed tasks. As I walked through the garden paths, I saw trees and shrubs he planted and maintained. I had a quiet moment of tears and grief in a quiet corner under the Blue Spruce. Beautiful memories of him inspired me to have faith in the ability of humans to recover from addictions and create honorable lives.

I returned to my northern forest home with a feeling of contentment. My great grandchildren learn skills that suit their temperament; we honor their inherent nature even as we all work very hard doing the necessary chores.

I hope your day fills with wonder. 

Comment by Daniel W on May 4, 2017 at 10:17am

Photo snapped at a local coffee shop. 

Comment by Plinius on May 4, 2017 at 12:02am

That sounds very useful, Spud! 

 

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