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Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by kathy: ky Aug 9. 4 Replies

“Highly Religious Volunteer More, Lie Less, and Claim to Be Happier”~ Houston Chronicle; “Strongly Religious People are Happier than Non-Religious”  ~ Christian Daily."The study determined that 40 percent of highly religious adults—defined as those…Continue

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If you could rid the world of one thing, what would it be?

Started by Idaho Spud. Last reply by Jonathan Simeone Aug 5. 29 Replies

Today, I heard Seth Andrews talk about the question, "If you could rid the world of one thing, what would it be?"  My first thought was religion, but after a few seconds I decided it would be irrational or anti-scientific thinking.  That would take…Continue

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The Bourne Again Identity (Mr. Deity)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Aug 3. 3 Replies

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Where The Buffalo Roam AGAIN - Allan Savory Institute

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Daniel W Jul 31. 3 Replies

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Yasmine Mohammed - Confessions of an Ex-Muslim (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Idaho Spud Jul 7. 6 Replies

Yasmine Mohammed is not your average ex-Muslim.  Not only did she get shut of Islam, she also managed to escape what was at one time the most notorious of radical Islamist organizations: Al Qaeda.  She has since documented the story of her apostasy…Continue

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Comment by Joan Denoo on September 30, 2014 at 11:07am

Oh Chris! I hear you! Surely feelings of helplessness and hopelessness will occur and that is the formula for depression. Do not let that happen to you and your husband. Do whatever you can to find joy and peace. Just plain have fun! Be sure your husband understands how important it is that this dreadful behavior can pull you down. 

Think of things that when you do them you feel happy, calm, relaxed, at peace ... and then do them if you can. 

I feel helpless for you, so I will ease my feeling by sending you a photo of a painting. Since I am buried in grapes; one of my favorite activities is processing grapes. Mine are Concords, but these are so bright, I feel lifted and hope you do too. 

Jan van Huysum, Still Life 

Comment by The Flying Atheist on September 30, 2014 at 9:54am

Comment by The Flying Atheist on September 30, 2014 at 9:48am

I'm frugal too, Mindy, but I love music so much that I don't want it interrupted with commercials.  But that's me.  What kind of music do you listen to?

Comment by The Flying Atheist on September 30, 2014 at 9:17am

I also like my music so that I can hear it without straining.  I like having music on when cleaning as well, usually some upbeat jazz.  I couldn't live without my music.  Jazz and classical make up the majority of my listening, but I have many other varied and quirky musical avenues too. 

I subscribe to commercial-free Pandora Radio and have found a lot of new music that I like listening to.  Lately I've been listening to a lot of South American and Spanish contemporary ballads.  Even though I don't speak or understand Spanish, they are very beautiful and romantic. 

Comment by Plinius on September 30, 2014 at 8:12am

Earplugs don't help, Joan, when you want to sleep and the basses interfere with your heart rhythm. But luckily it's only some five days a year. Normally I love music, and also silence. When I'm home alone I very often concentrate on things I've heard and enjoy them again in silence - music, sounds, poems.

I like the Da Vince text very much, Ian!

Comment by Randall Smith on September 30, 2014 at 7:44am

I'm lucky not to have any nearby neighbors. I have the radio on all the time, both indoors and out (mostly classical).

Speaking of dusting, I've had to triple my cleaning duties due to having a dog inside much of the time. She (Dot) shakes, rolls, and scratches (fleas?) a lot. I think it's a cause of my throat tickle and cough. Ugh.

Comment by Joan Denoo on September 30, 2014 at 1:57am

I can see you jiving with your dust cloth, shining wood and metal to a high gloss, and pushing that Hoover with such vigor, no dust mite has a chance to survive. I need to dust ... haven't worked up the ambition. 

Comment by Ian Mason on September 30, 2014 at 1:20am

No I don't, Joan. Living in a flat, there's not much point. About an hour every 14 days doesn't seem too much. It's during the day, not late at night. I do have tinnitus, as a result of working with large machines for several years so I restrict my exposure to loud noise but I can't live without music of some sort. My everyday listening is more classical and jazz than rock these days but some electric guitar is still wonderful.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=maD5k-vUI4o

Comment by Joan Denoo on September 30, 2014 at 12:46am

@Chris, I feel for you living near a "festival" street. Just too much commotion. Do you wear earplugs for those events? 

@Ian, do you keep your windows closed to spare the sound bothering neighbors? Hope you aren't hard of hearing. That could create some problem. 

Spokane has a powwow every year in our Riverfront Park. I like to stand near the big drums where several people are drumming. I can feel the vibration of the drum through my feet. 

Comment by Ian Mason on September 29, 2014 at 11:36pm

Oh dear, I'm one of the "noisy". I usually listen to loud music while I do my housework, quite often The Who.

This popped up on FB and I thought I'd share.

 

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