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I received a gift this morning from a virtual friend, Pamela Smith:A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :" One day an old wise teacher was walking through a village. A very angry and rude young man came up and began insulting him. "You have…Continue

Speak English? YOU FIRST! (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Donald R Barbera Sep 27. 5 Replies

Honestly, the title to this piece is badly under-representative of the content.  To be far more accurate, what we have here is Mrs. Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, going on a rant.  Before you say it ... Say WHAAAA?  Betty Bowers ranting? …Continue

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10 Things About Patriotism (Betty Bowers)

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A Prayer for Our Nation (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Sep 21. 2 Replies

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Started by Bruce Carroll. Last reply by Idaho Spud Sep 12. 5 Replies

Any Babymetal fans here besides me? I have to ask because 1) I really like Babymetal and 2) Babymetal unknowingly played a role in my journey out of religion.For those who are unfamiliar with Babymetal, here is a link to one of their most popular…Continue

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Comment by Joan Denoo on November 4, 2014 at 3:19pm

Oh! I used to be the person who made personal calls on behalf of candidates I supported. I must say, there were other jobs I liked better. Some people liked the calls, some had questions, some needed rides to vote some had questions for the candidate for whom I would find the correct answers. 

I really like writing position papers for candidates. That was a challenge, because there were so many interests that had to be addressed.

I really liked doorbelling in neighborhoods. I got an ear-full and would get the information back to the candidates. 

The planning sessions with candidates were exciting, with a lot of debating and having to find options that were compatible with the candidate. Facing people who held opposing views was a challenge and good training. 

So, the next time you have a live call, or a person knocking on the door, think of me and my tiny little bits of effort to get a candidate elected. 

Comment by Bertold Brautigan on November 4, 2014 at 1:32pm

@sk8eycat - no, you're not overreacting. I used to absolutely hate those robo-calls too, for exactly the same reason. If the scumbags can't even be bothered to have a real human talk to you, they are cordially invited to go f*ck themselves.

Comment by sk8eycat on November 4, 2014 at 12:54pm

I am seriously considering sending a letter to the Los Angeles Times to let every politician and initiative supporter/opponent know that if I get a robo-call from ANY of them, I will vote against them, or not vote at all.  I don't know if the Times will publish it, but I'm worn out from running to catch the phone (and sometimes tripping over a cat running in front of me) only to hear an impersonal recorded voice.  If they can't be bothered to talk to ME, as a live person, I can't be bothered to vote for them, or their cause(s).  I may also include the tons of begging emails I've received from candidates in other states and congressional districts...I delete them immediately, but that takes up more of my personal time.

Am I over-reacting?

Comment by Idaho Spud on November 4, 2014 at 12:28pm

Almost funny Ian, but too close to the truth to get a smile out of me.

Comment by Ian Mason on November 4, 2014 at 12:25pm

Nice cat, Mindy. Hope she settles in.

Politicians:

Comment by sk8eycat on November 4, 2014 at 11:20am

Oh, Mindy, kiss her little nose for me!  I love torties!  (And orange tabbies, black cats, and every other color of cat....)

Comment by Bertold Brautigan on November 4, 2014 at 11:03am

Nice, GC. That is pure, unadulterated truth.

Comment by Grinning Cat on November 4, 2014 at 10:57am

The Republicans are indeed masters of convincing people to vote against their own best interests! VOTING REPUBLICAN - Working man: "I vote Republican to keep Foreigners, Minorities, Women, Socialist, Gays, and Liberals from ruining my life." Fat cat, pointing and laughing at him: "I vote Republican to keep this moron from realizing I'm the only one ruining his life."

Comment by The Flying Atheist on November 4, 2014 at 10:11am

Mindy, I LOVE Charlie.  What a cutie.  She's a very fortunate kitty to be moving into such a loving home. 

I'm going to finish my coffee, take a shower and then go vote.  I'm prepared for the worst of outcomes (Republican victories) but there have been some glimmers of hope in the past week that upsets may occur in several national races.  I can only wait and see. 

What really gets under my skin is that so many of these far-right candidates are so divorced from reality, yet so many dumb-ass people vote for them and put them in office. 

Comment by sk8eycat on November 4, 2014 at 10:05am

Postscript: I also got tired of SUVs full of kids from other neighborhoods coming around for more goodies....and I noticed this year that more than half of our neighbors  also don't turn on their porch lights..

 

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