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Hang With Friends

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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

Nobody here is into mind games. A discussion started with a loaded guilt-throwing question will be deleted.

This group is not intended to compete with other groups on topics they cover but to "fill in the cracks." Whenever a discussion dwells at length on a topic for which there's an existing group, we urge you to provide members a link to that group to continue along their tangent.

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The Playboy Interview: Richard Dawkins

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Chris on Sunday. 14 Replies

I suppose it was the news that Playboy magazine was returning nudes to its pages after a year's hiatus that sufficiently perked my curiosity to check them out again.  I hadn't looked at Playboy since perhaps 2008, when I began to recognize that I…Continue

Tags: Richard Dawkins, Playboy

Such Lyrics!

Started by Donatien Alphonse François. Last reply by Grinning Cat Feb 13. 9 Replies

Hello Friends,I was ruminating a bit today on my sixty-some years existence. My mind went back to teenage years when I first figured out religion is not only obnoxiously loud, but also nothing I wanted anything to do with. Truly. I knew by age 15…Continue

degrading love — part two (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Feb 11. 1 Reply

TheraminTrees set up religion with his left in Part One of his treatise on how religion demeans and degrades the value of love.  Here in Part Two, he brings in a devastating, "Mike Tyson" right, which negates and invalidates any claim that either…Continue

Tags: Christianity, Islam, TheraminTrees, god, love

Questions......

Started by Thomas Murray. Last reply by k.h. ky Feb 9. 6 Replies

   It has been 6 month now since I signed up for Atheist Nexus membership. The past year has been sort of a bi-polar wave of emotions for me. I hope I wasn't offensive to the folks on here and I think I have been but I don't know to who. My desire…Continue

Proud Dad is REALLY Proud Now!

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Chris Jan 31. 15 Replies

As some of you may or may not know, my daughter is a television news producer, currently working in Nashville, Tennessee.  Her assignment is the morning news, which means she blasts herself up at umpti-ump in the morning to organize and prepare a…Continue

Tags: Emmy, news, television, daughter, dad

Men who challenge men to stop violence

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Idaho Spud Jan 9. 19 Replies

Many men join in the effort to reduce violence against women and children and other men. He speaks of the need to place responsibility on men instead of focusing on women to stop violence. He offers a breath of fresh air, as do so many of the men on…Continue

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Comment by k.h. ky on June 26, 2014 at 3:29pm

The battle against climate change reminds me of the battle against leaded gasoline.  It took years to get it changed but once it was started it was changed rather fast.

Let's hope the same with happens with climate change.  

Comment by Joan Denoo on June 26, 2014 at 7:53am

Patricia, I do value your input and appreciate your sharing. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on June 26, 2014 at 7:28am

Patricia, indeed, you do belong here and contribute mightily to the group. 

I gave my TV set away years ago because the news is by and for the corporate media. I did not get anything but rosy colored news. Corporate news did not warn of the financial collapse that actually started in 2007. Not a word of warning, and Bernanke and Greenspan didn't say a word about what was happening, even after at least five economist saw it coming, warned the public and were not given proper attention. Even I could see it coming since the late 1970s. Greenspan did say something about excessive exuberance of the markets or something to that effect.

I started posting economic reports on my site, Politics, Economics, and Religion, and those who wanted to follow it joined in. There is a connection between these three factors of our society and it was quite clear after paying attention to the reports. 

There are fun and games sites on Atheist Nexus and I have no interest in them and don't join. Of course, Sentient Biped has a wonderful site, as does Dr. Terence Meaden and many others too many to list. 

Hang With Friends is not Hang with Friends for Laughs. 

Sorry, my computer won't turn off the Bold font. 

Comment by Plinius on June 26, 2014 at 2:08am

OK. I try to pay attention when reading, but it isn't always enough.

Comment by Plinius on June 26, 2014 at 12:49am

You won't squash my mood, Patricia! There are a lot of depressing things in the world and they need attention too. I often wonder how Ruth manages to keep her balance with the subjects she focuses on. We come here, air our frustrations, laugh  and feel comfortable with each other. What would we do without the group - take pills? Don't go away! You belong here! 

Comment by Joan Denoo on June 25, 2014 at 11:27pm

Felaine, living with cats does give one an education! And trying to herd cats is like trying to get people to think beyond their superstitions and delusions. 

Your sense of humor and your insights are perfect for meeting this challenge.

Comment by sk8eycat on June 25, 2014 at 11:07pm

Joan, you made a very good point...ridicule!  Intelligent wit is a powerful weapon.  Robert G. Ingersoll (for one) used it to devastating effect in the 19th Century.  A pity he did not survive into the 20th.

The anti-education people, creationists, ALL of the different protesters against the power of the human mind are to some extent afraid of something...not always the same thing...but they are afraid.  And just throwing facts at them has never made a dent in their collective attitudes.  It has to be done artistically, and lightly...at first. 

Show them the absurdity of the entire idea of "Noah's" flood story, for starters.  I knew that one was nonsense when I was a child....just by living with cats.

Comment by Joan Denoo on June 25, 2014 at 11:00pm

Patricia, I read your statement about Ruth's concern for real issues that will impact us all and I understand wanting to keep the "bad" news out of our lives and live life as though there were no problems. I would call this a denial of what is real and important. 

I find Ruth's contributions extremely timely and valuable and I have the concerns about people putting their heads in the sand and acting as if we live in Camelot. 

There are some changes that need to be made in public perceptions. One of the most important is the reality of climate change and what will happen if we do not make preparations for it. Whether we like it or not, the tipping point has already been reached and sea level is rising. Denying it won't change what is happening.  

You and I won't be directly impacted by rising waters as we live at considerable elevation. We will be impacted however. Roads, highways, railroad tracks, buildings, subways, infrastructures that are at risk will have to be modified if we are to continue having their services and that costs money ... lots of money. The costs will come to you and me, whether we like it or not. Might as well get used to it. 

As for me, I want all the accurate information I can get. How else will I be able to meet the new challenges? The mythology that life will always be as we have known it will catch us off guard unless we are forewarned. 

I can remember as a very small child the surprise attack on Pearl Harbor by the Japanese. The general public was caught off guard. Now, all these years later, we discover there were signs long before the attack that war was coming. In fact, my father got a job building railroad bridges across the southern tier of USA in preparation for moving men and material back and forth across the nation for the coming war. He didn't know he was hired to prepare for war. He just thought the railroad needed bridges. Looking back on it, the labor camps were huge. I lived in one of them until after Pearl Harbor and then he was sent to Alaska to build airfields for the war against Japan. We had no clue; I am certain my father didn't figure it out until years later. 

Some people have commented that my posts are pessimistic and if you or anyone else feels that way I encourage you to block my posts. I have already told my granddaughters to block me because they don't want to read about this stuff. Well, they have the right to be uninformed. I will not, indeed I cannot stop writing about what is happening and I do not take it personally that some don't want to read about it. Blocking me is an excellent option. 

Perhaps Ruth feels differently than I do; I don't know. @ Ruth, I know you get depressed about this at times and Mindy is right, we are here to learn how each of us is fairing and we have broad enough shoulders to read the painful feelings as well as any feeling that may come up. 

Yes, there are good stories that come up and they do give relief. And the awful jokes help crack me us, as well. So, write on, whatever the thought. I welcome your comments and value them. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on June 25, 2014 at 9:30pm

Ruth, your depression is legitimate, given the failure of people who should know better are fighting against valid information. Given that other people's beliefs interfere with rational decision making by our government, then we have to tackle the problem at its source.

Who are the people who thump bibles? Who teaches creationism and intelligent design? Who persuades countless numbers of people that the rapture is about to occur and it is all god's will? That we should do nothing to prevent the climatic collapse that science warns about. 

It does no good to try to reason with such folks; they just hunker down and fight harder. 

The way to get through to a larger population is to ridicule, point out the obvious fallacies, tell the truth about what is happening and some people who are sitting on the fence may just start to laugh with us and decide that putting faith in beliefs is a risky thing to do. 

Of course, I could be wrong. Does anyone have a better strategy? 

Comment by Joan Denoo on June 25, 2014 at 8:42pm

Spud, I haven't seen a squirrel at rest, either.

Patricia, I like the quote of faith being the lazy way out of a pickle.  

k.h. ky , it must be that the Supreme Court judges all have cell phones. 

 

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