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maggie and milly and molly and may (Edward Estlin Cummings & Eric Whitacre)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller on Friday. 2 Replies

It's amazing what you discover when you go looking for something you had no idea you'd find.  On an impulse, I pulled up Eric Whitacre's website to see if he had created any new pieces.  It would seem that he has: a song cycle called The City and…Continue

Tags: e e cummings, Eric Whitacre

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISIS

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Randall Smith Nov 18. 1 Reply

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISISGrowth in population, policies and practices that create a gap between the typical person and the wealthy,…Continue

Passive and Active voices

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Nov 16. 1 Reply

Have you noticed that much of the discussion in families and with friends, in the print media, on TV, and now on the internet is in the Passive Voice? Many people whine, complain, gripe, accuse, blame, call names, ridicule, grumble, bitch, rebuke,…Continue

Tags: and, behaviors, communication., attitudes, learned

Detroit Businesswomen Team Up to Get Rape Kits Tested

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by The Flying Atheist Nov 14. 2 Replies

Detroit Businesswomen Team Up to Get Rape Kits Tested"In 2009, a Wayne County assistant prosecuting attorney noticed…Continue

Tags: women, Enough, SAID, black, victims

Something Beautiful – Nathan Phelps & Seth Andrews

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 10. 7 Replies

And it is beautiful, too, indeed, I think some of Seth Andrews' best work.  Interesting point: rather than Seth's dulcet baritone doing the narration, this piece presses Nathan Phelps' deep bass intonation into service, bringing a different flavor…Continue

Tags: Nathan Phelps, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews, beautiful, something

Your favorite photobombs?

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Joan Denoo Oct 27. 14 Replies

Running of the bulls photobomb.Continue

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Comment by Joan Denoo on September 27, 2013 at 2:38pm
Mindy, wonderful story of your son' expression of affection. Is he as expressive when not under the influence of anesthesia?
Yes, Banger is a sausage and Mash is mashed potatoes.
Comment by Joan Denoo on September 27, 2013 at 2:30pm

Tony, outstanding film, "The role of democracy". Brian Cox is our newest Carl Sagan. I just get goose bumps when I watch or read anything by Cox. Thanks.

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on September 27, 2013 at 1:53pm

sk8eycat, what's a "banger"?

Joan, I went to the Diabetes group and saw a like on my discussion. So I pressed it, thinking it would tell me who liked it. The like jumped, momentarily from 1 to 2, then reverted to -1. I appreciate your interest. Guess I'll never know what happened.

Tony, Brian Cox's video was great. However, I don't agree that today's society is entirely based on science and the technology arising from it. Our society has loads of superstition, hatred, structural inefficiency and insanity built into how it works. We have a long way to go before we have a science-based society, in fact most people can't even imagine one.

Comment by Tony Carroll on September 27, 2013 at 1:26pm

Hey Chris. Yeah, I enjoyed it. But upon reflection, I'm thinking about that young man. I mean, as evidenced by his stance and reactions, probably the first time he's actually heard somebody say things like that out loud. I wonder what horse hockey the adults were feeding him when they got him alone. I just hope it planted a seed in him to do some research and question why he reacted as he did. Probably not, but I'm pretty sure he will replay it in his mind for awhile. I know I would and did at that age. 

Comment by Tony Carroll on September 27, 2013 at 1:15pm

From Brian Cox. The role of democracy.






Comment by Plinius on September 27, 2013 at 1:12pm

You have scared them,Tony, very naughty! They saw the ANTICHRIST waving and grinning. Very funny story!

Comment by Joan Denoo on September 27, 2013 at 12:50pm

Ruth, something is goofy with my computer; I tried to "Like" your comment about breakfast with protein and fat and respond with appreciation for the information. I couldn't post, so hope you see this.

Comment by Joan Denoo on September 27, 2013 at 11:27am
Yum, Bangers and Mash! It is right up there with Bubbles and Squeak!
Comment by Tony Carroll on September 27, 2013 at 11:26am

Comment by Tony Carroll just now           Delete Comment            

Well, was out early this morning, got home and guess who walked up the driveway when I stopped. Jehovah's Witnesses! An older lady, middle aged man, and a young man, guess about 15-16.

They introduced themselves (can't remember names). Before they even started, I said " Either mormons or jw, right? And since you're not in the mormon uniform and carrying bom, I'm guessing jw's. " I know I skipped way ahead in the script for them, as evidenced by the looks on their faces. Have to admit, it was fun.

Well the older lady responded yes they were jw, and wanted to share their news with me. Here is where it got interesting. The man said "before we get started, can we have a word of prayer?". I said no. The look on the teenagers face was shock. Literally. Like he couldn't believe what he heard. The older couple, however, that was really interesting. Their faces looked like stone. Total shutdown. After a beat, he asked why. Damn, my mind was racing. Of all the myriad answers I could give. I had already blown their scripting out the water, so how to continue. So I simply said to them, "I'm an atheist. Don't believe in any dieties". The lady said "sorry to have taken up your time" and they walked away.

The most interesting thing about this small exchange was the reaction of the teen. His face showed his thoughts and emotions. I mean you could see the shock, uncomprehension, horror, disbelief, incredulity all flashing across his face. The adults were able to control it. He wasn't.

Oh, the very last thing. As they were getting in their van, they looked in my direction as I was still standing in the driveway. So I smiled real big and waved at them. Seemed like they couldn't get going fast enough. Like I said, it was fun

Comment by sk8eycat on September 26, 2013 at 10:05pm

Steph...what I did today: Took a friend to a local pub/restaurant (owned and operated by a Scottish/British  ex-pat family); I had Bangers & Mash, and I am so full I can hardly move.  Had a GREAT time!   *;) winking


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